I'm specifically asking about the bolded sentence. How do you know this? Maybe she was only ever allowed to watch Disney movies, her entire life. Maybe too, she started sneaking on the internet and was attracted to items that represented the exact opposite of Disney. Maybe she stumbled upon things that stimulated her mind and arroused her loins, and those are the only directions she pursued. You, me, none of us has ANY idea what went on behind those closed doors and dark windows.
If we are going to speculate in such a way to only damm her, then those speculations carry no credibility. One must be open minded, versatile, and in this case 'creative' when pursuing what we fantasize to be the truth.
It appears that the Snowgypsy Blanchard Facebook account has either been deleted or set to unsearchable, but I specifically recall that she had liked fan pages for Once Upon a Time and I believe Vampire Diaries. She obviously had fairly unfettered access to the internet (probably while Dee Dee was sleeping) if she was looking up BDSM things and making multiple Facebook accounts and signing up for the dating site where she met Nicholas, so it's reasonable to assume that she saw more on the internet than just BDSM and Facebook. We also know that she was a big Star Wars fan, so it's guaranteed that she had exposure to that, as well.