i saved the badge image for last for a reason.....i have not shared much personally here on websleuths.....i would like to do so now....
why could i not sleep? why was i so affected by this thread? there's a reason.......if you'll indulge me......after her (me and my crazy siblings) family was raised and gone, my mother achieved her life long dream of working with our local police department as a police dispatcher/911 operator and loved every second of it.......to make a long story short, i lost my mother several years ago to a terminal illness, no it wasn't cancer but heart disease.....she had a sudden heart attack that we had hoped she would recover from quite quickly and instead we spent the next year and a half watching her die while awaiting a heart transplant and undergoing 18 surgeries and only spending about a total of 6 weeks not in the hospital.....we were called in numerous times thinking this was it......it was hell......she was a healthy woman we thought, it was the shock of our life and she was young....
that police department that she loved so dearly stood by her every step of the way....those men and women gave up their leave to donate leave after her leave ran out, gave up their insurance coverage days after her insurance days ran out, held rallys to raise money after that, not a day went by that we weren't called by someone on the force, i slept on floors of CCU units along side officers many a night awaiting a visiting time, and when she finally died a mere shell of the person she was after the fight of her life......they INSISTED that she be buried in full uniform even though their policy did not at that time allow for dispatchers to be buried in uniform.....the police chief took it to the mayor to have it changed and it was voted on and changed....this was no small town either.........and she was, she was buried in full uniform and she looked so so regal......
on the day she was laid to rest the entire force was there with their shields on with black tape and black bands on their arms and full police escort.....and why? because of her service and dedication and the times she had saved their lives i was told.....
i saw family that day....not of blood....but united in trust
so on this mother's day......as i cry and miss her dearly, i post this in her honor and in honor of officer tate and officer deen and every brave man and woman that take up the shield everyday in this country....
i thank each and every one of them from the bottom of my heart
:rose: Officer Tate Rest In Peace With Honor
:rose: Officer Deen Rest In Peace With Honor
Thank You For Your Service
oh DD.....your post means so much to me, i cannot even express to you how much :heartbeat::tears:........Queenie,
I just started reading this thread, and ran across this. My eyes are teared up. God Bless your mother, and you!
I started my LE career in a Sheriff's Dept in Northern CA...one of the first things we did was do 3 shifts in the Communications Room, watching/listening to what the dispatchers did. Wow. It is NOT easy, for so many aspects.
Then, as a rookie out those first few weeks with a training officer - I was a little intimidated by making call outs on the radio - knowing all of the County could hear me (Sheriff's Office and even the public listening on scanners, LOL...which I had friends that I knew listened. Not what a rookie wants to do, make a mistake on the radio! And then of course, if one screwed up, you might here the others "miking" on flubs.)
A few comments about dispatchers and them being your life lines, oftentimes literally. It is a HORRIBLE HORRIBLE feeling when dispatch is trying to contact an officer in the field, and there isn't a response right away...then several seconds, maybe up to a minute, and a few times, longer. We in the field are also listening, waiting for that one unit to respond...the dispatcher having to repeat the call, all with a calm demeanor...the silence can be deafening...but we can start responding towards that unit, trying to "do something" and yet the dispatcher sits in a room and has to just wait and pray for a quick reply. It is stressful!
Now, the really *smart* officers (LOL) know that you don't want to upset/anger a dispatcher. Yes, they can make or break your shift, hahahahaha. Those aren't just always stories, they really can! Treat them with respect, and don't get pi**y with them over the radio, where every word and tone you use can make a difference.
Lastly, again in my early years, I had to work an 18 hour shift in the middle of a wildfire that was up in the No CA mountains of our county. Honestly, that was one of my scariest nights of my life. During the night, going up mountain dirt roads (nothing more than some of the fire line breaks) in a valley area where the side of the mountain across from me was on fire and I'm driving AWAY from my coworkers and resources, and I was given a piece of paper by the fire dept to "take a left where you see a big boulder" to get to the next little road I needed (trying to get to a small population of about 50 people out in the wilderness to get them to evacuate)...I lost radio signal in that valley. That is the first time in my life I can say I totally felt alone. If that fire switches directions, there was no one to radio to tell me, we didn't have street signs up on those makeshift dirt roads, no one could help me...and I couldn't tell anyone if I had a problem (flat tire, whatever!) ....I was out there, found my little group of people, helped them start packing up necessities, still trying periodically to find a radio signal. It was about 5 hours in pure darkness where I finally found a high spot and got signal back to the office...........my point in telling this, was I have never been SO happy to hear her voice, and you can tell she was just as happy to hear me. A true bond from that day forward.
I NEVER take dispatch for granted...one day in heaven (I hope on my part, ha!), I need to go find your mom and thank her for her service. I'm so glad to hear her department recognized her properly. Does my heart good![]()
And Queenie, THANK YOU for all the photos in this thread. I know it takes time, but I very much appreciate seeing the 2 officers and everything surrounding them.
DD
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Ryan Moore @RyanMooreMS · 9h 9 hours ago
May 9th in City of Hattiesburg and Forrest County named Deen & Tate Memorial Day.
Gosh darnit, QB! You have me sobbing!! Your words are so beautiful...thank you so much for keeping this thread updated! I lost it when it was moved, but did a search today and found it. Grateful to you for sharing these amazing images...
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