seagull65
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I have to tell you that I lost my oldest child to SIDS when I was 16 and I found him. My ex-husband (who was 20) and I were both in shock, but it didn't stop me from running next door to call 911 while he was doing CPR, even though we both realized (LATER) that it was already too late. I NEVER had a problem remembering it, could tell you everything about it even now 34 years later. So, I really have a problem buying that.
Everyone's response is so different when a tragic accident happens. Most people would have the normal response that you did. And I am so sorry to hear that that happened to you and your family.
But some people don't have very organized, logical, or mature minds. Some people don't know who they can trust. Some have various problems. Some are using drugs or alcohol and aren't sure what happened when.
Or, again, there are so many other reasons a person might not tell the truth about an accident. Others on this board have stated them much better than I have.
And an accident is only one possibility of what could have happened. We simply know so little in this case.
But point taken.