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And maybe Nancy doesn’t expect that level of help. Maybe she wanted to be more self-sufficient and didn’t like to be “babied”. Some people who do need canes to help mobility don’t want people “fussing” over them.Interesting, thanks!
I suppose the key point is that for you and your husband, three minutes is typical. We’d need to know what’s typical for Nancy.
But it gets more complicated because you and your husband are doing the driving and parking, whereas Nancy isn’t driving. The timing may vary depending on who is doing the dropping off, and when.
Just guessing, but I’d imagine the SIL would spend less time (i.e., a quick drop-off) vs SG or AG. He might feel less obliged or comfortable entering Nancy’s home.
At this point do we even know what kind of car she was driven home in?
I am 77 and find it much easier to get in/out of our car than my daughter’s minivan or my SIL’s jeep. My daughter has started using a small stool for me to use getting in the car.
So IF the car used to return her was say an SUV with higher profile, then yes, she might have needed help getting out of the car. But if it was a sedan then probably not.
I don’t know there was anything specific about the car used on the trip home.