bbm me neither. But maybe he didn't love her?
Exactly. Not wanting to go near her is strong evidence he didn't love her and killed her deliberately IMO. Even if this was an unplanned rage or drug-induced killing, by the time he called 911 after her blood dried he would have been desperate to check for signs of life and not just assume from a distance that she was dead.
Is she still alive?
Good question. I hope so. She was alive as of October 2014 when she filed for divorce while living in another state.