NC NC - Madalina Cojocari, 11, parents reported missing Dec 15, last seen at home, Cornelius, 23 Nov 2022

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  • #81
This is pretty specific, given the lapse in time between her missing report and the time she was last seen. I wonder whether there is a photo of her on Thanksgiving eve? Recollection or noting missing clothes probably would not produce this description, imo, with the exception of the shoes.



If this information came from her stepdad and has not been corroborated, she may have gone “missing” prior to that Wednesday. Or maybe she was at school that day? Or a family friend or relative saw her…

Can any NC folks comment on how “diggable” the ground would have been in late November?

*Both quotes RSBM from the Cornelius PD’s release on page one, as summarized by @Unalienable Rights
Right. It's an awfully detailed description coming from someone who didn't even 'notice' she's been MISSING for 3 full weeks.

I'm wondering about the origin of her 'last seen' date as well.
 
  • #82
If the mother's name has been mentioned in MSM, it can be posted here (along with the link).
Right. As of the post replied to, I wasn't seeing it in MSM, either. Checking again.
 
  • #83
FWIW, there's a now deleted old website for the stepdad called Christopher James Studios. I verified it by the contact phone number which matched Christopher Palmiter, age 60 from Cornelius NC.

There's nothing of value on the website. The associated FB pages are still up. He lived in Grand Ledge Michigan at one time.

A hasty search puts him in Michigan until about 2001 then North Carolina around 2002.
Gotta love how he was illegally selling copyright protected artwork. US military logos & the Boy Scouts logos. Classy. :mad:
 
  • #84
LCBD, but not in his case. He looks intimidating even in normal photos. And in the mug, those eyes...is he on something? MOO

Edit "his" for "this"
 
  • #85
Well, that is quite a lot! Thank you for posting. I’m so glad your situation with your son resolved well and quickly (though I imagine it didn’t seem so quick to you at the time).

Is leaf burning a thing this time of year? Or bonfires? Or would a backyard fire seem unusual?
You can burn leaves and many have fire pits for enjoyment but typically it is something done within hours. <modsnip - unless substantiated by a link, info posted is considered rumor and not allowed>
 
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  • #86
Just a local here.

I live here in Lake Norman. Ironically, I used to live in her neighborhood and my son (he was 14 at the time) went missing for about 15 hours. Long story short- he left willing in the early morning hours and walked to a friend’s house in the dark. We had a happy outcome. Aside from working through better decision making, we were unscathed. The police department was phenomenal. Due to things that looked suspicious And troublesome, they reacted immediately. It appears they did the same in this case, requesting the FBI.

This is a small town with a lot of new people from outside of NC. Many northern transplants. Not unusual to not know your neighbors at all. My son was the President of Bailey Middle School while there. It has a large student population of over 1700 students. It would be easy to go to the school and not be “missed” by peers unless they are your besties. The school resource officer is amazing and it is a very good school. Attendance is taken very serious here but they will give parents a chance, which combined with the holiday, LOTS of sick kids here recently (Flu, Covid, RSV, Stomach bug, etc.) could be why it took three weeks to raise red flags. The school alerts families daily of absences. If the parents were just not responding, the school probably took action after so many days.

Cornelius is an extremely wealthy area. That neighborhood is considered middle class compared to the whole area. Many rental homes but even they are expensive compared to most.

I have friends that live in the neighborhood. There was burning in the backyard of the home in the last few weeks.

My opinion is that the burned areas are being dug up.

The ground can be easily dug this time of year. It is cold now and has rained off and on for weeks.

Geography- whole area (Cornelius/Huntersville/Mooresville/Davidson and parts of Denver and Troutman) is collectively known as Lake Norman. Cornelius is a tiny one exit town (off I-77). Her school is fed by Cornelius and Huntersville.

We have a HUGE man made lake here Lake Norman.32,510 acres (50.8 square miles), average depth of 35 feet with deepest parts up to 112 feet. Her neighborhood borders Lake Davidson which connects to Lake Norman.


No other inside info.

local here- there is a car wash at the entrance to the neighborhood. Directly across the street there is a Pelican’s Snowballs that is closed for the season. Attached to Pelican’s is a well known local bar, and beside the car wash is a boutique. I don’t believe any of them have cameras but MANY homes have cameras now. There is one main entrance and a side entrance that goes into an old in town neighborhood.
The burning in the backyard is VERY troubling IMO.
 
  • #87
I can't understand why only step-Dad was arrested for not reporting her missing, her Mom should be held equally responsible.
To me, that indicates they have reason to suspect the step-father was involved in her disappearance, but they can’t prove it yet so they’re charging him with what they can at this point to hold him. MOO
 
  • #88
At this point, it sure seems like a lot of our facts and local info point toward M’s stepfather, who has been charged with a related offense. We don’t know at this time much at all about M’s mom or bio dad. Stepfather is in custody. FBI brought in within a day or so of missing report. Digging in the yard by LE and possibly unusual burning.

I doubt that any of us are expecting a happy outcome at this point.

With those large bodies of water around and potential residential and/or business security cameras at neighborhood egress points, I would expect that LE would begin a water search soon if nothing was found at the home and/or other evidence, such as cameras, put the stepdad near the lakes.

MOO
 
  • #89
At this point, it sure seems like a lot of our facts and local info point toward M’s stepfather, who has been charged with a related offense. We don’t know at this time much at all about M’s mom or bio dad. Stepfather is in custody. FBI brought in within a day or so of missing report. Digging in the yard by LE and possibly unusual burning.

I doubt that any of us are expecting a happy outcome at this point.

With those large bodies of water around and potential residential and/or business security cameras at neighborhood egress points, I would expect that LE would begin a water search soon if nothing was found at the home and/or other evidence, such as cameras, put the stepdad near the lakes.

MOO
The silence about M's mother is maddening and confounding. If msm hadn't reported that the parents reported her missing to the school official then I'd conclude that mom is missing too. So unless msm/school got it wrong I can only conclude mom is involved somehow.

News outlets don't seem to be digging for information on the mother - in fact they're not even mentioning her at all. Why?
 
  • #90
The silence about M's mother is maddening and confounding. If msm hadn't reported that the parents reported her missing to the school official then I'd conclude that mom is missing too. So unless msm/school got it wrong I can only conclude mom is involved somehow.

News outlets don't seem to be digging for information on the mother - in fact they're not even mentioning her at all. Why?
The only thing I can come up with is that she may be a victim as well?
 
  • #91
Yay @wnk ! Glad to see you here!

I would add, since there is interest in M’s mom, that she seems to have been last mentioned on 12/15, when the “parents” reported her missing at the middle school.

oh yes... we are always so glad to see @wnk. (wink, wink!)
 
  • #92
Clothing description was given from 3+ weeks ago?
I couldn't tell you with 100% certainty what I was wearing just 3 days ago.

Who lives at the home? Any other children living there? Any other adults? What's moms story? Was school given an excuse for her absence these last 3 weeks? If so, by whom?
 
  • #93
The only thing I can come up with is that she may be a victim as well?
Quite possibly and that could be the reason they arrested the step-dad. Maybe to make her feel safer to talk.
 
  • #94
The only thing I can come up with is that she may be a victim as well?
Do we know if the parents physically went to the school or just called the school? I can't find an answer in msm. Could mom be missing too?
 
  • #95
Mother has been arrested.
 
  • #96
FWIW, there's a now deleted old website for the stepdad called Christopher James Studios. I verified it by the contact phone number which matched Christopher Palmiter, age 60 from Cornelius NC.

There's nothing of value on the website. The associated FB pages are still up. He lived in Grand Ledge Michigan at one time.

A hasty search puts him in Michigan until about 2001 then North Carolina around 2002.
 
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