Found Deceased NC - Tristan Blue, 2, Raleigh, 22 Dec 2014 *Arrests*

[MsMarple]

And another:
Police: Remains found in lake belong to missing Raleigh toddler

Read more at http://www.wral.com/#WraRpyR3sZQdrRyD.99

Warrants state Dangerfield, who appeared in court Monday on the latter three charges, knew Blue killed the toddler, and she helped get rid of the body.
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Dangerfield's friends said she loved Tristan more than anything – her face would light up whenever she talked about her little boy, they said – and was trying to create a good life for him.
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Dangerfield had an off-and-on relationship with Blue, according to her friends.

 

[abr]

Warrants state Dangerfield, who appeared in court Monday on the latter three charges, knew Blue killed the toddler, and she helped get rid of the body.
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Dangerfield's friends said she loved Tristan more than anything – her face would light up whenever she talked about her little boy, they said – and was trying to create a good life for him.
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Dangerfield had an off-and-on relationship with Blue, according to her friends.

There is no way in h#ll I would help anyone dispose of my child's body.

 

[tlcya]

Rest in peace little man.

 

[Coldpizza]

So sorry little sweetie pie, you are in a safer place now.

Be with the Angels forever Tristan..

:tears:

 

[mrsobrien]

I'm so sad...

Who will grieve for him? Any family? Just us?

 

[Edinlass]

I'm so sad...

Who will grieve for him? Any family? Just us?

Heartbroken beyond words mixed with extreme ANGER that this keeps happening time & time again... WHY?!?!?!? Poor soul at the hands of the people who are supposed to protect him, let me loose in a room with these two ANIMALS!

Having looked for some kind of grief on fb, or words of well anything I came across a grandparents fb who commented on a comment in which another family member, presumably an aunt said "prey for my niece & family at this very heartbreaking time" and the grandmother of TB replying "thanks means a lot" or something along them lines! UNDERSTANDING; these people are clearly on a different planet, I mean c'mon this was only yesterday this comment was made, her daughter is up for an accessory to murder of her own SON her GRANDSON.... WOW just WOW! If this is the kind of people this planet is made up of I'm not all that sure this is the planet I want to live on, baffled beyond repair!

No mention of TB however, sweet precious little boy whom should have had love.


May you both ROT!


ANGRY

 

[Curious Me]

Very upsetting to hear SB's uncle talking about how he doesn't believe his nephew SB would plan this. Why is he talking about it as though it was a plan? There must be evidence that points to this as being intentional. SB's uncle saw Tristan on Thanksgiving with the father, but not the mother.

Sweet little Tristan, almost three years old. Fly free Tristan.


Police: Remains found in Wake County lake are 2-year-old Tristan Blue
http://abc11.com/news/police-remains-found-in-wake-county-lake-are-2-year-old-tristan-blue/453933/

"When I heard about where they found him, I broke down," Steven Blue's uncle, Ronald Dorsey, said outside the courtroom Monday. "How can you do that to a 2 year old?"

"Dorsey sat shell-shocked at Dangerfield's court hearing. He didn't know Briana well, but says he helped raise Steven until he was 6 years old."

"Dorsey said he saw his nephew and Tristan on Thanksgiving, and nothing seemed out of the norm. There were no signs of abuse. The grieving uncle refuses to believe his nephew could have cooked up the idea to kill his son on his own."

BBM

 

[Curious Me]

http://www.wral.com/#WraRpyR3sZQdrRyD.99

Warrants state Dangerfield, who appeared in court Monday on the latter three charges, knew Blue killed the toddler, and she helped get rid of the body.
...
Dangerfield's friends said she loved Tristan more than anything – her face would light up whenever she talked about her little boy, they said – and was trying to create a good life for him.
...
Dangerfield had an off-and-on relationship with Blue, according to her friends.

http://www.wral.com/news/local/video/14314918/

I haven't found any reports about the mother being seen with Tristan. It's always the father and Tristan people have mentioned seeing together. It sounds like the father watched this precious little boy a lot more than the mother. Has anyone mentioned seeing Mom and Tristan together? Wondering, if she knew SB was likely to abuse Tristan, then why didn't she do more to keep him away from Tristan.

 

[borndem]

I'm so sad...

Who will grieve for him? Any family? Just us?

Yes, we will grieve for him and we will rejoice that he is now in a place where there is no need for grieving.

If the grieving had been for me, I think my soul would float just a little higher and I would somehow feel the love that was shown for me by those who only knew me in my time of travail. My soul would soar a little higher because of all of you.

Yes, let's grieve and be witness for this littlest angel.

 

[borndem]

In the MSM articles we have read here and elsewhere, LE, et al. have said more testing, etc., needs to be done to be able to totally confirm that it is indeed our little Tristan. I feel sure that all that would remain to be done is a DNA match. So, if that is true, I will go ahead & state the obvious: One or the other of Tristan's ~parents~ and I'm thinking it had to be his ~mother~ must have confessed to LE where his little body was put into the lake, and she must have been very specific. The Beaver Dam arm of the reservoir known generally as Falls Lake is a pretty large body of water. And it didn't take LE very long, IMO, to find his remains. So certainly they must have had a very good description of where to find his little body. (I am grateful that they were able to retrieve it before any more time had elapsed, if this is the way it had to be.)

On an outside chance, someone could have witnessed it and then got in touch with LE. Or, LE had a 24-hour watch on the parents & followed them out there, but I don't think this is what happened or they would have arrested them on the spot, seems to me.

I think mama spilled the beans.

Dayam, I hate this.

 

[kimi_SFC]

Community responds to death of Raleigh toddler | abc11.com

A local funeral home director contacted ABC11 and offered to help bury little Tristan Blue, who was murdered on Christmas Eve in Raleigh.

Meanwhile, Tristan's tragedy is helping community organizations spread the word about child abuse.

Minister and community advocate Diana Powell believes it takes a village to raise a child. And sadly, in the case of Tristan, it takes the death of a child to raise awareness about abuse.

Powell leads a group roundtable discussion every Monday night at Revelation Missionary Baptist Church in southeast Raleigh. The group discusses issues directly affecting the community: violence, gang prevention, and this week, the Tristan Blue murder allegedly carried out at the hands of his mother and father.

"If we see the signs, someone must say something," Powell said. "We can no longer go into our houses and close our doors, close our blinds and say that's not my problem."

(Embedded video & More@Link)
http://abc11.com/news/community-responds-to-death-of-raleigh-toddler/455875/


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[cuffem]

Yes, we will grieve for him and we will rejoice that he is now in a place where there is no need for grieving.

If the grieving had been for me, I think my soul would float just a little higher and I would somehow feel the love that was shown for me by those who only knew me in my time of travail. My soul would soar a little higher because of all of you.

Yes, let's grieve and be witness for this littlest angel.

Thank you Borndem that was beautiful and makes me feel a tiny bit better about these babies.

 

[TripleA]

Can someone explain the family dynamics to me please - maybe I am just confusing cases. Wasn't Tristan living with Dad and Stepmom? Who was charged - the mom or stepmom? If the mom was charged, then how is the stepmom connected? I am confused.

RIP Tristan.

 

[MsMarple]

Can someone explain the family dynamics to me please - maybe I am just confusing cases. Wasn't Tristan living with Dad and Stepmom? Who was charged - the mom or stepmom? If the mom was charged, then how is the stepmom connected? I am confused.

RIP Tristan.

AFAIK, Tristan was with his bio dad and bio mom. The dad was arrested for his murder while the mom was arrested for basically covering for the dad. There is no step parent in this case.

You might be thinking of Malik Drummond? Searcy, AR police were searching the Little Red River for him a while back. That case is still open - no body and no charges at this time - but he went missing from the dad and step mom's house. Many of us have suspicions about her but so far no new info.

And yes, RIP little Tristan - sometimes parents just... suck.

 

[TripleA]

AFAIK, Tristan was with his bio dad and bio mom. The dad was arrested for his murder while the mom was arrested for basically covering for the dad. There is no step parent in this case.

You might be thinking of Malik Drummond? Searcy, AR police were searching the Little Red River for him a while back. That case is still open - no body and no charges at this time - but he went missing from the dad and step mom's house. Many of us have suspicions about her but so far no new info.

And yes, RIP little Tristan - sometimes parents just... suck.

Yes! Thank you - it is Malik that I was thinking of. Too many missing little baby boys in such a short time.

 

[borndem]

Thank you Borndem that was beautiful and makes me feel a tiny bit better about these babies.

Thanks for the sweet words, cuffem -- and until this type of horror ceases or gets much better, then "tiny" is about all we've got.

 

[borndem]

Can someone explain the family dynamics to me please - maybe I am just confusing cases. Wasn't Tristan living with Dad and Stepmom? Who was charged - the mom or stepmom? If the mom was charged, then how is the stepmom connected? I am confused.

RIP Tristan.

You may be thinking of the case of Malik Drummond in Searcy, Arkansas -- he is still missing -- his stepmom said he must have walked out the door of their place. And Malik was at the home of his father and stepmother.

http://www.websleuths.com/forums/showthread.php?263918-AR-Malik-Drummond-2-Searcy-23-November-2014-2

 

[kimi_SFC]

RALEIGH: Human remains consistent with those of missing child - WNCN: News, Weather, Raleigh, Durham, Fayetteville

My apologies if this has already been shared. I just watched the embedded video and it states BD is facing 38 years if convicted of the elevated charges.


http://www.wncn.com/story/27724334/police-human-remains-consistent-with-those-of-missing-2-year-old


#JusticeForTristan

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[borndem]

Here's a thoughtful article about Tristan & the situation of this type thing:

In wake of Raleigh boy's death, let's make commitment to our community's children

http://www.newsobserver.com/2014/12/29/4436331/in-wake-of-raleigh-boys-death.html
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Read more here: http://www.newsobserver.com/2014/12/29/4436331/in-wake-of-raleigh-boys-death.html#storylink=cpy​

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[kimi_SFC]

Here's a thoughtful article about Tristan & the situation of this type thing:

In wake of Raleigh boy's death, let's make commitment to our community's children

http://www.newsobserver.com/2014/12/29/4436331/in-wake-of-raleigh-boys-death.html

I'm bringing your link forward again borndem. Hoping this works.

This snip brought me to tears. It is a must-read:


When you see a beleaguered mother lose her temper with a child in the store, do not turn away in disgust, smugly sure you would never act this way. Reach out. Help relieve some of her stress. Reassure her that you understand how she feels, because we are all imperfect. When the single father next door loses his job, offer an occasional meal to help ease the burden. When your friend is having marital problems, help care for the children so they do not become misplaced outlets for anger.

By relieving a parent’s stress even a fraction, you allow him a little extra patience for his child. You show that in our community, we support each other, and that caring for a child is our most important task.

:tears:

:tyou:


Read more here: http://www.newsobserver.com/2014/12/29/4436331/in-wake-of-raleigh-boys-death.html#storylink=cpy

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