I agree. It was like they were speaking at the one year memorial for a girl who died from cancer. There was no anger or fear or outrage about her vicious murder. They were gracious though.
I didn't have a problem with the girls doing the float. But I think Mom should have watched from the sidelines maybe. But who knows, maybe my daughter could have convinced me to ride along as well, if it was something that important to her.
I see parents and communities who have just lost children suddenly who are calm all the time. "It was his time to go, God wanted him back. "
They aren't hysterical, they accept it was that kid's time to die and move on. Car seat, helmet, gun safe, supervision near water... wouldn't help.
It was just his time to die. Do I understand it? No. It often infuriates me actually.
I do remember in other cases here... hearing "how can she let her other child out of her sight when she has already lost one?!"
Maybe Celina's Mom is rethinking everything she did as a parent.
Maybe she is regretting things, wishing she'd done them differently, wishing she had been more protective.
Maybe she believes that she allowed the danger near her children.
Maybe she realizes her 11 year old daughter was taken out of her home and likely murdered.
Maybe she doesn't want to let her 13 year old daughter out of her sight by sitting on the sidelines, for fear of losing her too. Rational or not.
Maybe she didn't want to sit on the sidelines and have to talk to other people. No talking really on the float.
I doubt that Celina would have wanted the festival canceled and I think she would have (secretly) thought the float
for her was pretty awesome.
We have parents with missing or murdered children (reported or not) who are doing/selling drugs, getting arrested and partying in clubs.
Odd or not. I'm not going to criticize a family for doing too much, to honor, celebrate and pay tribute to their little girl.