NJ - James Parrillo charged with kidnapping after allegedly holding woman hostage for nearly a year, Burlington Co., 17 Feb 2023

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There is a lot more to this story. Apparently James Parrillo has been doing this for a long time and has had many victims, particularly along the Pacific Crest Trail. A quick google search shows warnings posted by hikers on various social media and backpacker sites. He’s been arrested a several times, but it looks like he was never convicted for kidnapping/assault/rape type crimes.

Full name: James William Parrillo, born January 27, 1966
Locations: Washington, California, Florida, New Jersey, Virginia, New Mexico, New York. Others…
Related towns/cities: Big Bear, CA (grandmother’s house)
He has used various aliases over the years: Angelo Parrillo, Angelo Anthony DeCompo, Tony DeCompo, Mike Parker, John Parker, Tony DeSoto, Tony DeAngelo, Frank Carrillo, and more.

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Some crimes he’s been accused of:
In 1986 Angelo Parrillo was in Wenatchee WA, Chelan Cty Regional Jail - arrested for local check fraud in Omak area. Once released he met a woman “C” who he victimized for a year, traveling between California and New York. She escaped from him in San Jose CA.

Dec 1993 to April 1994: Victim Valerie "Val" Earick, Ocala, FL
AIRS Case #OC9401002 FL Dept of LE
SHE'S SEARCHING FOR MR. WRONG
Valerie meets him (Angelo Anthony DeCompo) at Sheffields Truck Stop Ocala FL. Story in link above.
Unsolved Mysteries episode on this case:
Tony DeCompo Photo is certainly him. (JW Parrillo)

Jul 28, 1994 Bahia Mar, FL James Parrillo holds captain and crew hostage. 4 hour standoff with LE.
CAPTAIN KEPT GUNMAN CALMGUNMAN TRIED TO GIVE Charges: armed burglary, false imprisonment, resisting arrest with violence. Acquitted of all charges do to mental state/suicidal. AIRS Case #MI94485368

In 1998 he was arrested for threatening the President of the US: USA v. Parrillo :: Virginia Eastern District Court :: Criminal Case No. 1:98-cr-00181-CMH
Judgment: Guilty.
Dft committed to custody of US BOP for 20 mos. w/3 year supervised release term and assessed $100.
Cond. of SR: substance abuse testing/treatment at the direction of PO, mental health counseling at direction of PO. Court rec. that the dft be incarcerated at Butner. Dft remanded. (psid)

1998 through 2002 Did some time in rappahannock county jail

Mar 28, 2002 - LA County, CA- Case BA238843
felony kidnapping, grand theft, violation custody decree
co-defendant Laura Michele Lyde
Sentencing date: January 30, 2003 He gets 3 years in state prison. She is exonerated on February 21, 2003.

2018 PCT - Victim: Kira Moon - Kidnapped on the Pacific Crest Trail. She escapes from him in September 2018.

2023 - Woman escapes year-long, cross-country kidnapping. Captor arrested in N.J., cops say



James W. Parrillo Jr.
*Known to Go By Different Names*
If You or Someone You Know Has Information on This Man
Please Call New Jersey State Police at 855-363-6548
 
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Unbelievable how long he has been allowed to terrorize women like this! And he’s probably not the only monster out there! IMO
 
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Here’s are shareable poster from the State AG‘s office:

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IMHO It is sad and shocking when "he who may be known by different names" can fly under the radar for so long. Creeps me out. In my world he is arrested and off the streets. Hoping....
 
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In short, a woman escaped from a year of captivity with a man she initially thought was her boyfriend; she'd been to this gas station before and saw the deadbolt, and decided to take advantage if she ever went back there. She had met him in New Mexico, and thought he was her boyfriend until he took her hostage.


But wait, there's more. He has a long history of befriending women at campgrounds and hiking trails, and you can guess the rest.


He also has at least one well-known alias (Tony DeCompo), and many years ago was arrested for making a threat against then-President Clinton. Under his alias, he was even the subject of an "Unsolved Mysteries" episode.

He's not getting out now.
 
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I was just reading about this story earlier this evening after seeing it on the news. Pretty terrifying. Unless I have known someone for years, or we have mutual friends, I am pretty leery of meeting new people. But even then, sometimes you never truly know some people and what they could be capable of. Glad this guy has been caught, finally, I hope he never sees the light of day again.
 
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Report: Alleged Kidnapper Has Been Preying on Women for Nearly 3 Decades

A man charged in New Jersey with kidnapping a woman and holding her against her will as they criss-crossed the country for a year apparently has a long history of mistreating women and lying about his personal life.

Man charged with kidnapping after allegedly holding woman hostage for nearly a year

Information provided by the alleged victim and found on social media indicate that Parrillo "may have engaged in similar predatory conduct with individuals in other states," prosecutors said.

"We are reaching out to law enforcement across jurisdictions to identify other people who may have additional information on the defendant," New Jersey Attorney General Matthew Platkin said in a statement, calling the case "deeply disturbing."
 
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New article from NJ.com with some details on some of his past offenses.

The woman who escaped. How accused kidnapper’s twisted trail of terror finally ended in N.J.

Beyond the latest arrest and allegations, Parrillo has a twisted and mysterious past that’s peppered with bizarre run-ins with the law and disturbing allegations about similar past behavior that went unchecked.

He’s spent time behind bars for crimes ranging from holding a yacht full of people hostage at gunpoint to threatening a sitting president. And more recently, he’s been the subject of articles, social media posts, videos and online threads describing him as a violent and dangerous scammer.”
 
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The whole ideology of a man owning a woman and looking at her as if she is property is a serious issue that needs to be addressed
 
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He has the look in his face. Something about it
 
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This facebook page says he's widowed? Log into Facebook

I wonder what happened to his wife if this is true.
 
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You mean evil? Evil and mean?
Thats the simple way to put it.
Theres always some contortion and just lack of humanity.
You can see it in every picture he took
 
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This facebook page says he's widowed? Log into Facebook

I wonder what happened to his wife if this is true.
Don’t think it’s true. I believe at least one of his victims had his child, but I don’t think he was ever married. Seems his life is so full of lies that it’s hard to know the truth.
 

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