Did you break up with living on the Cordova property? I would go to my mom's...never long periods of time
Was TC employed--no
Did she have any hobbies, etc.--no
Did you ever discuss with her going to school or finding a career--yea, it was like she was unmotivated, scared to try things, we would argue about that. LC says he encouraged her to get a job or go back to school. Kids in school--she was home all day doing nothing.
Enrolled in some sort of class-she quit after 2 weeks.
She found barber college on her own and enrolled in that.
How did you feel about that--thought it was great
Did you and TV ever go to marriage counsouling--no
Did you sit down and talk through your problems--attempted to but didn't have the skills to do that
How was your way of resolving problems--I would just leave and go to m;y mother's house until TV asked him to go back
When you would get back together again did you talk about not letting it happen again--we would not talk about it, pretend it never happened
When you argued--big conflict--how would she behave--she would scream, yell and call me names.
What would you do--try to leave, she would try to talk me out of it and threaten to hurt herself--pros. objected--overruled.
When she was yelling and screaming I wanted to get out of there--but after I'd been gone a few days she would call or text and she would paint this picture of her being lonely and desperate
Did TC threaten to do harm herself--countless times
When did it start--in VA, little things and then big threats--I never believed her
Well, did she do anything to hurt herself--not that I know of
When the two of you were apart and she was expressing her feelings of lonliness,what were you feeling and doing--I would feel bad, but at the same time I knew it wasn't a healthy environment and I always said I wasn't going back but I always would
How old were the two of you in Oct. 2007--we were both 26
When did uyou move into 11 Ash Place--I want to say 2005, don't remember month
How did you pay for the house--mortgage loan
Where were you working--2004 LC got out of military and went to police academy, worked somewhere for little money for a year, and he changed to Aviation police at airport. Rio Rancho paid for his police academy--did you have a contract to work for them for a year--yes, I only worked 7 months and had to pay back 300 a month to pay for tuition.
When you and TC would break up--would you cheat on her with other women--yes I would
Did you cheat when you were togeth3er--yes I would
Was she aware of that--yes
How did you two deal with that--I would leave, few weeks, month , month and half , until the next time--happened all the time.
Rose Slama--where did she live in relation to where you lived--suburb east 3 miles of me