No intruder?

[madeleine]

Ban all IDI's,then we can discuss how PR worte the note and how she bashed JB's head because she was angry.
What about me?Ban only 1%,5% outta me?
You know what,this attitude is making me wonder whether it wasn't an intruder after all....if the cops,who are RDI as well think like this as well then I don't wonder why this hasn't been solved yet.

You just can't stand listening to the other side.No respect for people who don't think like you.

 

[SunnieRN]

But 100% RDI or 100%IDI forums would be so BORING.Everyone agreeing,not challenging at all.Why is it that whenever someone has a different opinion he or she is "here only to start trouble"....

Maybe it is because they attack posters ideas personally, throw out ideas and theories without giving sources and constantly attack experts in their fields, without giving sources to substantiate their opinions.

I agree that discussion is good, that differing opinions are good, but the way much information is presented or ignored over and over and over again, makes for a stagnant discussion.

 

[madeleine]

But you are doing the same thing.

Not you personally."you"=RDI pack.

 

[madeleine]

Would you really like this to be a 100% RDI forum?

 

[madeleine]

It used to be different around here.....that's why I liked it.....I don't fit at FFJ....too RDI for me....I wouldn't fit at weBBsleuths,way too PRO Ramsey for me.....I hate topix cause of the language and insults.....so I guess maybe I should move on and follow another case cause this was the place to be but not anymore.Sorry for the rant.but I am only ranting when I am hurt,I guess.

Have a great weekend guys. :rose:

 

[MurriFlower]

Would you really like this to be a 100% RDI forum?

If someone would give me the link to a good IDI forum, I'd be gone like a shot!!

 

[madeleine]

If someone would give me the link to a good IDI forum, I'd be gone like a shot!!

To be honest (cause I really have NO reason not to around here),there are/never been some,most of them were about defending the R's and NOT about let's find out who the intruder is.........

 

[BBB167893]

But 100% RDI or 100%IDI forums would be so BORING.Everyone agreeing,not challenging at all.

Agreed, 100%

Why is it that whenever someone has a different opinion he or she is "here only to start trouble"....

I didn't say that. It's one thing to have a different opinion. It's another thing to do what I've observed around here recently.

 

[MurriFlower]

To be honest (cause I really have NO reason not to around here),there are/never been some,most of them were about defending the R's and NOT about let's find out who the intruder is.........

Do you actually believe this forum is intent on finding the killer? It's my biggest frustration with it, that there is so much misinformation designed to back the RDI theory. Anything leading to IDI is ignored, ridiculed or discounted as not important.

 

[MurriFlower]

Agreed, 100%



I didn't say that. It's one thing to have a different opinion. It's another thing to do what I've observed around here recently.

Seriously, if you don't want opposing opinions, just say so!!

 

[BBB167893]

Maybe it is because they attack posters ideas personally, throw out ideas and theories without giving sources and constantly attack experts in their fields, without giving sources to substantiate their opinions.

Yeah, that's it, far as I go.

I agree that discussion is good, that differing opinions are good, but the way much information is presented or ignored over and over and over again, makes for a stagnant discussion.

Agreed. At that point, what is to be gained?

 

[BBB167893]

Ban all IDI's,then we can discuss how PR worte the note and how she bashed JB's head because she was angry.
What about me?Ban only 1%,5% outta me?

I'm pretty sure no one wants that.

You know what,this attitude is making me wonder whether it wasn't an intruder after all....if the cops,who are RDI as well think like this as well then I don't wonder why this hasn't been solved yet.

Well, I don't know about that, but apparently that's how ML conducted business. Alex Hunter would hear what everyone had to say. Lacy was more like the Boxer. I think ST said it best after the JMK debacle: "she makes her predecessor look like Rudy Giuliani."

You just can't stand listening to the other side.No respect for people who don't think like you.

That sums it up pretty well.

 

[BBB167893]

It used to be different around here.....that's why I liked it.....I don't fit at FFJ....too RDI for me....I wouldn't fit at weBBsleuths,way too PRO Ramsey for me.....I hate topix cause of the language and insults.....so I guess maybe I should move on and follow another case cause this was the place to be but not anymore.Sorry for the rant.but I am only ranting when I am hurt,I guess.

Have a great weekend guys. :rose:

I sympathize, maddy. I still wouldn't trade it for anything. Or you, for that matter. It would be a shame to lose you.

 

[madeleine]

Do you actually believe this forum is intent on finding the killer?

Yes,most of them think RDI and they hope JB will get justice.Absolutely nothing wrong with that.I hope that too,if RDI,I hope the R's end up in hell.

It's not about what you believe RDI,or IDI it's about how you express it and sometimes it's all about sarcasm and being rude.I can't stand that anymore.Most of the times when I realized I was rude I apologized.
Not anymore,especially since the sarcasm goes on and on(see the other thread,BPD confidence).It just makes me don't give a @$#% anymore.And it's sad cause there are people around here I like and respect.RDI's AND IDI's.But because of a few it's going down the toilet.It will,eventually.

 

[BBB167893]

To be honest (cause I really have NO reason not to around here),there are/never been some,most of them were about defending the R's and NOT about let's find out who the intruder is.........

That describes a major problem with IDI in general, as I see it. (And I should know!)

 

[madeleine]

You know there was a poster long time ago who came and said that PR was a psycho bi#$%.I was ASHAMED to be part of RDI.I am also disappointed to be in the camp who has nothing to say except bwahahaha and lol when someone disagrees.I am not perfect,no way, but I am NOT a hypocrite nor was I ever rude by INTENT.

 

[BBB167893]

Seriously, if you don't want opposing opinions, just say so!!

Believe me, Murri, IF that was truly what I wanted, I wouldn't have any trouble saying so! That is NOT the issue!

 

[Agatha_C]

Maddy,

Every poster here has laughed and made jokes of an idea, even IDI. Some of us (me) do it more then others, it takes all of us to make this forum. Every thought, whether we agree or not, is that persons constitutional right to have and share. If you feel attacked on your theory, you should try too convince others. When someone laughs, give them proof of why you feel that way. Don't get mad, don't leave because its uncomfortable. Just make your point, back it up, when asked a question, answer it, and wipe the smile of the jesters face. Then Maddy, remind them why they're here and just where joke central is. Trust me, I'll laugh and applaud you and then, I'll move on.

When I did, the (LOL!!!! I honestly thought HOTYH, was playing back. I thought it was a joke, thats why I laughed). In that, I wasn't being mean and I'm sorry so many took it that way.

 

[SunnieRN]

But you are doing the same thing.

Not you personally."you"=RDI pack.

Would you really like this to be a 100% RDI forum?

It used to be different around here.....that's why I liked it.....I don't fit at FFJ....too RDI for me....I wouldn't fit at weBBsleuths,way too PRO Ramsey for me.....I hate topix cause of the language and insults.....so I guess maybe I should move on and follow another case cause this was the place to be but not anymore.Sorry for the rant.but I am only ranting when I am hurt,I guess.

Have a great weekend guys. :rose:

I'm sorry if what I said made you feel this way.

I also see no ground made by rehashing arguments. I would find a 100 percent IDI forum boring beyond measure.

 

[BBB167893]

You know there was a poster long time ago who came and said that PR was a psycho bi#$%.I was ASHAMED to be part of RDI.

I know the kind of thing you're talking about, maddy. It has the same effect on me. It's even worse when someone tries to put those words in someone else's mouth.

I am not perfect,no way, but I am NOT a hypocrite nor was I ever rude by INTENT.

For what it's worth, maddy, I love you.