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Where did you read in my post I said the others didn't share responsibility?
I'll be clearer here. Its called personal responsibility and accountability. No one coerced Matt and Sweat to try to escape. They were wanting out. Sweat was planning it for 6 months according to him. IMO, he was planning it for years.
Generally speaking, very few, with the criminal mind set, are going to say...'yeah, I like torturing, killing, then dismembering my victims. I get a high from it'. Or, 'I rape and molest babies and children because its easy and it makes me feel powerful'. Or, 'no one made me do it, I did it because i wanted to'. The ones who do say it, are taking personal responsibility and being accountable for their criminal actions. That criminal is not blaming or placing responsibility on his victim, or anyone else, a bad upbringing, nor attempting to excuse his crime. Imo, these criminals probably had no one enabling them, either.
OTOH, most will say things like 'he got what he deserved, he owed me money and wouldn't pay up'. 'He/she deserved to be beaten and pummeled within an inch of his/her life, because I caught him/her cheating on me'. 'I stabbed him 42 times because he was mean to my mother', 'not my fault i had to rob and shoot to death the owner of the convenience store, my baby needed milk and diapers and I had no money'. Particularly, with sex offenders, the blame is often placed on the victims. Always justifying and placing responsibility of their crimes on others.
Specifically, regarding David Sweat's mother's interview, instead of saying...my David has made bad decisions since he has been a child and those decisions have not only affected him, but also those around him and I couldn't find a way to help him stay out of trouble. What she is saying, in that interview, is without the 'help' of others, David and the 'other guy' couldn't, wouldn't attempt and succeed in escaping. She is excusing his bad decisions, his bad choices and placing blame on 'others'. She is not holding her son solely accountable for his bad decision. It is what enablers do. It is part of the enabling process.
Imo, David Sweat and Richard Matt had previously attempted to escape using those pipes. Remember, the cat walks were no longer being toured by the COs, as there was not enough 'funding'. I have no doubt the inmates were aware of this. Realizing they needed tools to cut into and out of the pipes, they scoped out civilians, decided the tailor shop supervisor was the easiest mark and set about 'grooming' her. Btw, she has taken personal responsibility and is being held accountable for her bad choices and decisions.