Friends advised his wife to leave:
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Silda Wall Spitzer's Friend: Take the Kids and Run
NEW YORK She stood silently, stunned beside her husband, New York Gov. Eliot Spitzer, as he read a statement of apology to his family Monday afternoon following disclosure of what is believed to be his love tryst with a high-priced prostitute.
But the words failed to soothe Silda Wall Spitzer's closest friends, who advised her to take the kids and run.
"They were great together fun, fabulous to be around. There was never even one small inkling of anything like this," the friend told the New York Daily News. "If I were her, I would call my mother or my best friend and pack my bags and go someplace far away for six months and take my daughters with me."