NY NY - Robert Mayer, 46, Dix Hills, 14 Jun 2013 - # 3

[Eileen730]

Ya know what I find Interesting.....
Most of us don't believe husbands of missing wives but....why do u believe the wife of a missing husband?

Just a question!

 

[Momoffourboys]

I cant read the FB page so I have to rely on Websleuths!
Im sorry!
I come here not FB.
Are these FAQ's here?

No need to be sorry...just thought it would be interesting for you to know the facts that were given by IM.

Nope. the FB page.

 

[Jerry516]

I think LE is doing what they can when required. It sounds like they have vetted everything, including the scrap yard. There isn't a MSM link to back it up but I am 100% confident that LE interviewed the owner of the scrap yard and confirmed RM was there and made the transaction. Receipt or no receipt. There would be no reason for the owner or IM to lie about it.

Force, I was not accusing IM of lying at all, or the scrap yard for that matter. The reason the receipt is important, is ASSUMING Arrow is playing by the rules, they would have scanned his ID, and a receipt of some sort would have been printed. Scrap is usually weighed, so I would imagine a printer hooked up to the "scrap scale" per se would print out this info, which I would hope would contain a date, time, and other info. I imagine an employee would have to enter what type of scrap, as I am sure different metals pay different rates.

Because without this receipt, how can we absolutely confirm he was there? Cameras were conveniently not working that day.

Even with the receipt, this is always room for error/mistakes, but without the receipt, are we to rely on the memory of an employee 2-3 weeks later remembering the exact day and time of the day he was there? Especially since he was a regular? I am sure many stores/shops have regulars, and they are regulars for a reason, they come in often. It's not easy to pinpoint a date and time a regular was there, because for the simple fact he IS a regular. Does that make sense?

 

[Momoffourboys]

Ya know what I find Interesting.....
Most of us don't believe husbands of missing wives but....why do u believe the wife of a missing husband?

Just a question!

I dont think anyone here said they dont believe husbands or wives...
I believe anything is possible.
We just hope for the best and safest possible outcome.

 

[Eileen730]

No need to be sorry...just thought it would be interesting for you to know the facts that were given by IM.

Nope. the FB page.

But are they facts if IM says them.

and I do thank you for guiding me there.:seeya:

 

[hot cawfeee]

Ya know what I find Interesting.....
Most of us don't believe husbands of missing wives but....why do u believe the wife of a missing husband?

Just a question!

I guess we tend to believe women in a case like this b/c she is the "injured party" so to speak--He is "the bum" who cheated, stays out all night-blah blah blah. And she is the lady who gave him children, makes a beautiful home etc.
Oh Lordy-- my feminist self just threw something across the room!!!

 

[Eileen730]

I dont think anyone here said they dont believe husbands or wives...
I believe anything is possible.
We just hope for the best and safest possible outcome.

Most definitely!
Im a skeptic that's all a lot of water under this bridge and if you look at the big picture ya have questions? Id love to know if anyone at all in this case took a polygraph

 

[Eileen730]

I guess we tend to believe women in a case like this b/c she is the "injured party" so to speak--He is "the bum" who cheated, stays out all night-blah blah blah. And she is the lady who gave him children, makes a beautiful home etc.
Oh Lordy-- my feminist self just threw something across the room!!!

but she says he never went out with friends nor was away ever for an overnight. When would he have the time to cheat?

 

[hot cawfeee]

Eileen-- wasn't saying RM did that-was speaking of in fact mom-in-law's neighbors.
Nice woman who put up with alot from her husband

 

[Jerry516]

but she says he never went out with friends nor was away ever for an overnight. When would he have the time to cheat?

Well he would if his mistress was an early riser, since he sure was, no pun intended. Didnt someone mention his work day didnt start until 7am?

So if he left for work at 4:30 am, and 1 hour drive time to Brooklyn at that early hour, that leaves an hour and a half for an early morning rendezvous, if he was so inclined.

Not implying anything here, just saying that, if people want something bad enough, they can squeeze it in.

 

[Momoffourboys]

But are they facts if IM says them.

and I do thank you for guiding me there.:seeya:

They are all we have. We have no other statements.
IM needs help locating her husband...this is the info she chooses to release that
May help in doing so.

 

[Eileen730]

Eileen-- wasn't saying RM did that-was speaking of in fact mom-in-law's neighbors.
Nice woman who put up with alot from her husband

Oh ok got ya I think im lost lol

 

[Eileen730]

They are all we have. We have no other statements.
IM needs help locating her husband...this is the info she chooses to release that
May help in doing so.

Absoloutely!

I just wish we had a little more info coming from another source





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[hot cawfeee]

Lol Eileen-- welcome to my world--lol

 

[Force Ten]

Force, I was not accusing IM of lying at all, or the scrap yard for that matter. The reason the receipt is important, is ASSUMING Arrow is playing by the rules, they would have scanned his ID, and a receipt of some sort would have been printed. Scrap is usually weighed, so I would imagine a printer hooked up to the "scrap scale" per se would print out this info, which I would hope would contain a date, time, and other info. I imagine an employee would have to enter what type of scrap, as I am sure different metals pay different rates.

Because without this receipt, how can we absolutely confirm he was there? Cameras were conveniently not working that day.

Even with the receipt, this is always room for error/mistakes, but without the receipt, are we to rely on the memory of an employee 2-3 weeks later remembering the exact day and time of the day he was there? Especially since he was a regular? I am sure many stores/shops have regulars, and they are regulars for a reason, they come in often. It's not easy to pinpoint a date and time a regular was there, because for the simple fact he IS a regular. Does that make sense?

Oh don't get me wrong. I was addressing CuriousamI, that she didn't believe RM went to the scrap yard. But I do feel there is some kind of confirmation rather than just going on the recollection of a clerk a couple weeks later. Maybe they have a docket.

 

[Eileen730]

Well he would if his mistress was an early riser, since he sure was, no pun intended. Didnt someone mention his work day didnt start until 7am?

So if he left for work at 4:30 am, and 1 hour drive time to Brooklyn at that early hour, that leaves an hour and a half for an early morning rendezvous, if he was so inclined.

Not implying anything here, just saying that, if people want something bad enough, they can squeeze it in.

This is true jerry! Very true!

 

[Jerry516]

So folks, it just so happens I got a new fridge yesterday. A relative of mine brought his van over, loaded my old fridge and went off to the scrap yard.

He just told me this over the phone, so I want to be sure it is exactly what he says it is, I will check it out and verify with him tonight.

But he just told me....that the scrap yard (although not Arrow), did in fact ask for his driver's license, weighed the fridge, and handed him a date stamped, and get this, A TIME STAMPED receipt. This time stamped showed the exact time he ENTERED and LEFT the scrap yard!!

It also showed the weight of the scrap (Less the weight of his van, I believe you drive your vehicle right on the scale). So he got $33 for this fridge, some extra gas money for the week. I am trying to get the receipt and post a pic of it here (if allowed to).

 

[Eileen730]

Oh don't get me wrong. I was addressing CuriousamI, that she didn't believe RM went to the scrap yard. But I do feel there is some kind of confirmation rather than just going on the recollection of a clerk a couple weeks later. Maybe they have a docket.

When u sell anything Gold silver coins etc ..... you need a valid ID and they take your thumb print..... We even have to do this at Game Stop to trade in games a valid ID and your thumb print....It has to be the same there wouldn't you think?

 

[Eileen730]

Lol Eileen-- welcome to my world--lol

lol Ill join ya
:scared: :scared:

 

[Eileen730]

I just find it strange the day this guy goes missing he goes to this scrap yard and the cameras don't work that day!

I mean really what are the odds?