I think it's important to note that
nowhere on the report does it say that publicity was not desired BY THE FAMILY. It appears the family WAS concerned, the mother going to report her daughter to the police after waiting the well known "24 hours" almost to the minute,
the hiring of a private investigator..for a family who we can only hypothesis was middle-class (a few wealthy chefs, like Gordon Ramsey, but generally? Runs the gamut from lower blue-collar class to five star restaurant comfortable living middle class),
would mean that they cared.
Imho, the "no publicity" was a judgement call by the police officer who took the report, who thought it was the story of a hysterical girl who was hiding out In her bff s dorm room complaining about men and parents. Imho, their negligence was due to believing the financee's version of events over her mother's, with her mother knowing her daughter, and her daughter's behavior well enough to know this was not typical behavior.
Imho of course, sorry for butting in
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