NY NY - Thomas Medlin, 15, Stony Brook, 9 Jan 2026

  • #61
Nor mine. This is so so tragic if true.
I'm going to go ahead and say it, they need to follow San Francisco's example with the Golden Gate bridge and finally install deterrents on their bridges. A camera system isn't good enough.
The Manhattan Bridge has tall deterrent fences along the pedestrian walkways. I attached a link for a photo (I would have walked over to take my own photo but this weather! OMG!). The fences are high and angled in, making them hard to climb.

 
  • #62

Just sharing link…

The family are worried the splash revelation may force people to conclude Thomas drowned and want cops to retract the statement which, he claims, was made without the family’s go-ahead.
Does anyone know if it's common in police investigations for police to consult the family before they report the sound of a splash? MOO and I don't know how loud the splash was, but I wouldn't be assuming it was someone who fell/jumped from the bridge.
 
  • #63
After hearing this podcast with his mom, the first thing I thought was suicide. That kid has so much pressure on him.. the way his mom talked about him.. ugh. How could he live up to that. It’s so sad. Poor kid. I’m also sure there’s a lot that wasn’t said.

Thanks. I read the transcript at the link and the mom says he took the "57 subway" from GCT then the subway to High Street in Brooklyn. There's a 5 (goes north-south on the east side, which heads downtown, where he was spotted), and a 7 (which goes east-west), but the subways that go to High Street are the A and C (both west side lines), which leave you near Cadman Plaza and is much closer to the Brooklyn Bridge. Possible he wasn't telling her the truth?
 
  • #64
The Manhattan Bridge has tall deterrent fences along the pedestrian walkways. I attached a link for a photo (I would have walked over to take my own photo but this weather! OMG!). The fences are high and angled in, making them hard to climb.

Yeah. I've walked along the bridge before too, hard but not impossible to climb those fences. I know I've heard of other suicides off of it too. 😞

The bridge is heavily traversed on better weather days, but in this bitter cold ... I could see no one else being on the bridge at the same time he was. And him waiting until there were no trains passing.

Sad for sure. :(
 
  • #65
Yeah. I've walked along the bridge before too, hard but not impossible to climb those fences. I know I've heard of other suicides off of it too. 😞

The bridge is heavily traversed on better weather days, but in this bitter cold ... I could see no one else being on the bridge at the same time he was. And him waiting until there were no trains passing.

Sad for sure. :(
From this link, Jan. 9 was high 48, low 32. It was a Friday night and MOO there could have definitely been people heading home after work or to the city for dinner walking the bridge last night. (Not in the last 10 days, for sure, though!)


IIRC correctly, the ferries weren't suspended till this past Tuesday, after last weekend's storm.
 
  • #66
It sounds like he might have taken the 6 to the F from GCT. LE originally stated they were following leads around Cherry and Rutgers Streets then Jay and Sands Streets.

I don't know if those were determined from sightings or mobile geolocation. Cherry & Rutgers coincides with the F train's path, so if it was mobile geolocation, he might have just been on the train at that point. If they have visuals, perhaps he got out at the E. Broadway stop only to find that it's quite difficult to get up to the bridge's pedestrian walkway from there.

York St. seems the likeliest exit point, which is right by the stairs to the bridge's walkway. It's about a 10-13 minute walk to the center of the bridge. If Thomas's last known location was on the bridge at 19:06, then it must have been a location fairly well along the bridge if the substantial splash was recorded four minutes later. Oh, Thomas. Society failed you. :(
 
  • #67
If this unfortunately does turn out to be suicide, this is the third suicide of a NYC-area teen attending a prestigious school this school year.
 
  • #68
The Manhattan Bridge has tall deterrent fences along the pedestrian walkways. I attached a link for a photo (I would have walked over to take my own photo but this weather! OMG!). The fences are high and angled in, making them hard to climb.


Thank you for letting me know about the fences. Someone had said it's a known place to go to jump, so I assumed otherwise. If people are getting past what's there, I wonder if something can be done about that. But good to know there's something.

If it turns out this boy still jumped -- where do they go from here to help prevent the next time?
It's so very sad.
 
  • #69
Having followed similar cases before, some things stand out:

1) people can travel long distances. Alison Bayliss traveled from Danville, CA and her bike was found near the Golden Gate Bridge.
2) His body, if he did jump, may never be found. Alison Bayliss has never been found. Neither has Sydney West, also believed to have jumped from the GGB.
3) CCTV bridge footage is always going to be focused on safety and the broader picture, and not specifically on people who may jump. Sydney West was seen on the bridge, before it became very foggy, and then she wasn't spotted leaving.
4) IMO, it's not just the splash. It's the splash, and CCTV, and the end of the data trail, which all sequentially point to him jumping.
5) People may act and seem completely normal up until the moment they decide to end their lives. It's a stereotype/myth that suicidal people are dark and depressed.

Thank you for letting me know about the fences. Someone had said it's a known place to go to jump, so I assumed otherwise. If people are getting past what's there, I wonder if something can be done about that. But good to know there's something.

If it turns out this boy still jumped -- where do they go from here to help prevent the next time?
It's so very sad.

On the GG Bridge, various patrol teams and other workers are trained to look for potential jumpers and intervene. They also have signs and phones basically begging people to not jump (something like 'jumping is fatal and irreversible).
 

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