The abuse reported, that we are aware of, was minor. Children are not removed from a parent because of a missed breakfast or smelling like urine. They’re also not removed for one “spanking” that left bruises. It takes a lot to prove “failure to thrive” - (the weight loss) mandatory parenting classes are the standard.
This has nothing to do with the “blue wall”
Just think for a minute the number of children that would be removed if they ALL were for the allegations above. THERE IS NOWHERE TO PUT THEM. It’s a sad that children are safer with parents than in fostercare. Without broken bones, cigarette burns, open wounds, severe & massive bruising, kids are rarely pulled. IMO This is ANOTHER reason so many social workers that care, burn out so quickly.
I will never understand why “toileting issues” are the number one trigger of severe abuse. We know this. We need to do something about that specifically. If we could educate & change attitudes about it - a lot less kids would be abused.
all IMO
The abuse reported, that we are aware of, was minor. Children are not removed from a parent because of a missed breakfast or smelling like urine. They’re also not removed for one “spanking” that left bruises. It takes a lot to prove “failure to thrive” - (the weight loss) mandatory parenting classes are the standard.
This has nothing to do with the “blue wall”
Just think for a minute the number of children that would be removed if they ALL were for the allegations above. THERE IS NOWHERE TO PUT THEM. It’s a sad that children are safer with parents than in fostercare. Without broken bones, cigarette burns, open wounds, severe & massive bruising, kids are rarely pulled. IMO This is ANOTHER reason so many social workers that care, burn out so quickly.
I will never understand why “toileting issues” are the number one trigger of severe abuse. We know this. We need to do something about that specifically. If we could educate & change attitudes about it - a lot less kids would be abused.
all IMO
I’m giving it to you straight the way the system & judges and the law views it and the way CPS handles it.
I KNOW it’s horrific abuse & it all makes me sick.
As far as I can tell, authorities weren’t aware he was ever sleeping in the garage.
So we are left with missing breakfasts & reeking of urine and a one time bruised bottom reported.
The reality is....there are countless children, in this country, living in homes where this is the norm. especially so in impoverished areas. So so many, that now many schools offer breakfast and some even do children’s laundry.
Now we are down to a one time reported incident of a bruised bottom. No judge is going to remove a child for that. Open a case-mandatory Parenting classes it the standard.
IMO
Wow. I cannot imagine he will not be found guilty. He is such a horrible human being.Opening statements have begun in the murder trial of an ex-NYPD cop charged in the freezing death of his 8-year-old autistic son.
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“He’s cold,” Valva allegedly said after watching video footage of the incident. “Boo f—king hoo.”
During a text exchange, Pollina allegedly asked Valva if Thomas should stay home from school the day he was taken to the hospital.
“I have zero clothing for him, f—k that piece of s—t, Thomas,” Valva allegedly responded. “He’s not going anywhere.”
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D.A. Newcombe, on the other hand, pointed to Valva’s callousness, noting that, even after Thomas was rushed to the hospital, Valva allegedly told an employee that he’d “been through more stressful things than this.”
Newcombe asked jurors to be mindful of four numbers for the duration of the murder trial: 8, which was Thomas’ age; 16, for the hours Thomas spent in the garage; 19, for the temperature on the night of Thomas’ death; and 76.1, which was Thomas’ internal temperature after arriving at the hospital.
Trial Begins For Ex-NYPD Cop Accused Of Autistic Son's Abuse, Murder | Oxygen Official Site
I am very irritated by his defense counsel attempting to downplay his own involvement and shift blame to his fiancé. Don't misunderstand, I find her despicable, but Michael was all in on the abuse. His own texts and videos highlight his extreme cruelty in regards to his sons.Wow. I cannot imagine he will not be found guilty. He is such a horrible human being.
I hear you. Hopefully that defense will at least not allow him to have any appeals granted.I am very irritated by his defense counsel attempting to downplay his own involvement and shift blame to his fiancé. Don't misunderstand, I find her despicable, but Michael was all in on the abuse. His own texts and videos highlight his extreme cruelty in regards to his sons.
I think what disgusts me most is this monster was a police officer, charged with protecting the safety of the public. And the whole while he was perpetrating the most heinous abuse upon his own children. I will never understand what creates individuals such as him.
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