What specifically do you think the computer class teacher should have done differently, with regard to the wandering? Every public elementary school has children who wander, or do not go where they are supposed to be. There isnt a staff member or parent volunteer available to escort every child to the bathroom every time, unless the child has an IEP that lays out that level of supervision/ services. The choices are to keep the child in the classroom (deny the bathroom request, which is filled with other issues), or allow/ trust them to go to the bathroom alone. Its not appropriate to task another child to always buddy for bathroom breaks, to act as a watcher or reporter. Schools arent (yet) prisons with someone watching banks of security cameras trained on every corner of the school. We dont radiotag the kids to monitor their movements. Every student cannot be watched every second, unless they have lots of official documentation that states they must have that level of supervision. Otherwise, it is considered a behavior issue, and dealt with by laying out consequences, removal of privileges, etc. Some schools used to use big huge colorful hall pass and bathroom passes they kids had to carry, to identify their destination to anyone who saw them. But now even THAT layer of security has been called embarrassing and discriminatory. What should schools do about wandering children? Its a serious question.
We dont know what the situation was earlier in the year (November, barely 8 weeks into the school year) when parents asked for a teacher re-assignment. Most schools have clear and detailed policies about when, and under what circumstances a child will be moved to another classroom. (Because parents request all sorts of things related to classroom assignment, and class composition, for all sorts of reasons). Parent request is not usually sufficient, nor is a complaint that the student doesnt like the teacher, or the teacher doesnt like the student. There has to be a clear and documented, appropriate reason as to why a child is moved to another classroom. As far as public school, a parent is free to work within the policies and procedures, but cant always demand for their requests to be followed. Public school has to take all childrenthey cant deny enrollment to kids who have issues, or parents they dont want to work with. A parent has to learn how the system works, and work within that system. If the school or classroom isnt working out, the parents always retain the authority to move the child out of the school to another educational situation. (As inconvenient as that might be.)
(My husband would LOL if he knew I was "defending" school policies! We have had our concerns with public school-- no private schools in our area. My best strategy has been to learn how to deal with the system using their own policies and procedures. And it helps to get on committees and boards that make decisions about policies, too.)