BBM
. It is not normal or typical or healthy for the mother to dictate the sons' sex lives or to insist that a new baby sleep with the grandparents. It's not normal for the family of origin (in this case, Angela, Jake, George and Billy, when he's present) to make decisions that the wives/partners of the sons are not allowed to be part of. threatening their wife with a gun.
I would like to point out that until EW testifies we only have Tabitha's testimony to any of this. Tabitha reversed so much of her testimony on cross examination that I did not find her to be a credible witness on most things. I do believe she was sexually abused as a child since she confirmed on cross that is why George did not want his son or her around her family.
But I will say I find it extremely hard believe that Angie allowed Tabitha aged 11 and George aged 13 to sleep together for a year but yet wait until they are married and aged 19 and 22 to suddenly have this "sex" talk with them both. If the order were reversed and T&G were 11 and 13 I might believe Angie had this "sex" talk with them both.
But from that point of view, if Tabitha and George were aged 11 and 13 then that "sex" talk dictating whether they could have sex or give BJ's in her house would not seem unusual at all. In fact I might have given my son that same talk if he was 13 and I caught him in bed with an 11 year old girl. In a matter of fact, I would have probably said a whole lot more. I am sure most mothers of 13 year old boys on here would have told them not to be having sex or getting BJ's at that age.
As for infant GK's sleeping with GP's I have no personal knowledge of, since I think it would be very dangerous for any adult to sleep in the bed with an infant child. But I would think it would not be unusual if the home were crowded.
We, as of this time, have only testimony from Tabitha that Angie threatened to get a gun. For that matter until we get other testimony, I am considering, but waiting on corroboration from other witnesses on the "voting" matter.
It was very obvious that Tabitha hated Angie and blamed her for the breakup of her and George's marriage. She also openly admitted she still loved George and believed had they worked things out that night they would still be married. I would think, watching that it would be taken into account in her testimony. Tabitha didn't have much bad to say about George but she slung a dump truck load of dirt on Angie.
JMO