Welcome Plain Jane what a thoughtful first post. I loved your description of DRs,HMR &CRjr lawn your description of the landscape with flowers and well maintained yard spoke highly of the pride DR took with the yard of her home.I appreciate the special trip you made to pay respects to UHR where they made their homes,
If you have not watched Ellie Merritt's investigative video then this will be hard to follow.Unfortunately the YouTube video I posted has been heavily edited.If you are interested my post is #409
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When I read of DRs fears;I knew in my heart what my biggest fear would be. It would be that my son were in danger of engaging in something so dangerous it very well could put put his life in danger.
In post 401 Altojack puzzles over what DR was crying about at work the night of the murders. I can't help but question in my mind if a business relationship had been severed. I also can't help but wonder if the straw that broke the camels back was when DR fought to prevent HMR from getting in something over her head.
DR was begging in prayer for protection against someone powerful. It's just a theory but it's possible it was,' every mother's biggest fear that her child would make a mistake that they could never recover from'. Perhaps she realized her family were perceived as a threat or of no further usefulness and there was no authority but God to help them.
Theory and My Opinion Only
I like your theory very much.