I joined Websleuths because I want to understand what happened, and why, and whether - or how - this madness could have been prevented. I am thankful for all of your contributions, particularly those that share their specialized knowledge, and/or do such incredible research! I want to know more facts about this apparent killer, these beautiful victims, and what might have led to this horror. All of your perspectives and suppositions are appreciated, but I am left still having more questions than answers in this case.
And I know this won't be popular, but I am wanting to understand more - particularly about MM - without completely demonizing him yet. I have seen so many people who experience severe mental health issues who stabilize and are devastated - truly devastated - by what they have done. Yes, I believe some physicians who survive their residency and fellowship embrace a god complex. Its gruelling, and afterward, their clique may be unhealthy. Yes, I believe an abusive partner can effectively conceal their abuse until they can't. Yes, I believe only a monster can commit such brutal murders with a cold, jealous heart. Yes, I am so sorry for the babies and love ones left behind.
But I'm not yet ready to say Monique fled an abusive relationship with MM, nor that MM is a narcissist with severe abandonment issues. I just don't know. The facts (and rumors) seem to support both concepts but both may be fundamentally incorrect. I just want to know more and to understand how this could occur, and how it could be prevented in the future.
Thank you all again for your valued thoughts - please know that I (as others) read every entry and appreciate everything you write!