Tammie63 said:
Kingdom Of Loathing it appears he went by the the name Hippygriff
The forum the a Senior Guild Member wrote
It's a twisted sick place is all I have to say
Apologies for resurrecting this thread just to be commenting on this part of it...but as a regular player of KoL for the last 18 months, I felt compelled to answer for all the good and decent people who inhabit that community, who are by far the majority there.
Imagine how all of you, here, would feel if it turned out that one of your own 'regulars' was not what they had seemed to be. If you found out that someone here was capable of something so heinous, so horrible, that you couldn't even wrap your own mind around it without feeling horribly defiled. That is how we felt about this revelation, horrified that one of our own, even if it wasn't someone that many were close to, had done something like this. Deeply sad that a young life was lost, and revolted that many of us had talked to the man who had taken that life, at one point or another.
And then imagine that on top of that, this forum that you call home draws all kinds of negative attention by association. That people assume that because the forum contains the word 'crime', and a criminal was a regular here, it must be a place where criminals come to discuss their crimes. Of course, a closer look through your forums would show that it's nothing of the sort, but of course not many are going to bother looking beyond that initial implication.
That is basically what happened to KoL. It is not a sick and twisted place, if anything it's a silly place. It's not a role-playing game, it's a
parody of role-playing games. The word 'Loathing' in the name was chosen on a whim, it has no dark meaning. The average player age is probably early 20's, though there are many who are in their 30's, 40's, even 50's and beyond. The average player type probably has more in common with your typical computer geek than it does with your average emo goth kid or dedicated console-gamer. One of the game's co-creators, the man who writes most of the jokes in the game, is an English major - and literary references can be found in the game as easily as pop culture references can be. You're not going to find too many online games these days with Shakespeare and Stephen Crane quotes in them, nor games where you have to take a short spelling/grammar/usage test (to appease the 'Ghost of the English Language' and prove to him that you're worthy) just to enter the in-game chat.
We are not sick and twisted - we are regular people just like anyone else, who enjoy playing a funny online game that happens to have also attracted a singularly evil being who committed a ghastly and horrific crime. Our hearts went out to the family of Jamie Bolen, and any of us who had children (there are lots of stay-at-home moms playing KoL as well) hugged them a little closer that night - just as everyone else in the country did upon hearing the terrible news. And along with that, we also cringed at the inevitable backlash that we knew was going to be aimed towards our own little community, a backlash of negative opinion that was founded on nothing more than general opinion about RPG's and the game's name.
(also as a side note: the title "Senior Guild Member" on the forum is meaningless - it's an auto-generated forum title when a poster makes their 100th post on the forum. It isn't a reliable indicator of seniority - a prolific poster can hit 100 posts in less than a week, easily.)