butwhatif?
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Yes, I think this was cultish, creepy, and wrong.
I'll have to disagree about praying for someone though. Baptizing someone into your faith after they're deceased is taking away their choice of faith. In Christian faith, the Holy Spirit draws people to God, and it's up to that person to choose to believe, follow, etc, and we know not all will choose that path. Probably unclear Christianese, but I'm trying.so maybe I get a point for that amongst the tomatoes?
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I did the baptisms by proxy at the temple as a teen. In hindsight, I believe I joined the mormon church to rebel against my father who hated all religion, but I was also trying to find something that gave me a sense of belonging.
I think the sense of belonging is what draws a lot of people into religion.
Once I started rebelling from the church, and questioning things that didn't add up for me, I was told that I was no longer welcome there as I was a 'cancer eating away at the church'.
Even though I had a horrible experience at the church, I don't see it as ALL bad. That was just my experience. Most of my maternal family are mormons and they are wonderfully caring, and non-judgemental.
And I don't think that doing baptisms by proxy really effects anyone in the afterlife. It's just members in this life trying to save other souls- and I guess it makes them feel better.
I personally hated the temple. I thought it was ridiculous that a woman cannot enter the temple if she has her period....Somehow it makes a natural part of a females life feel 'dirty'. (that was one of the things I questiioned)
One thing I do appreciate about the church is that they didn't sweep pedophilia under the rug. My uncle was quickly ex-communicated when they found out his crimes....and this was about 25 years ago.