Pizzaman--If you will check upthread, you will note that I've brought up the issue of checks and balances and the very real (but rare) issue of false allegations. The very fact that Mr. Schacht was arrested tells me that evidence was uncovered during the investigation. Otherwise, there would be no arrest warrant.
If you also noted my statement above, I have been through this process myself, in the state of Oregon, with eight of our children. Many of my children rushed to the defense of their rapist. My husband and I did NOT want to believe the disclosures. Our entire life was turned upside down. We have 14 children and chose to parent 11 of them. I chose to be a child advocate. But we did NOT choose to parent a family of tremendously hurting children. Our children had no choice either. The young man who raped them gave us no choice in the matter.
Because of the actions of one young man who preyed on vulnerable children, we have lived through almost 12 years of hell--the videotaped disclosures, the examinations, the 11 months long investigation, an 11 months long order of silence in our home and school concerning the rapes, the eight day trial, the convictions, the appeal, the Supreme Court affirmation, the Post Conviction Relief Trial, the forced re-depositions of the victims 9 years after the rapes, an appeal of the Post Conviction Relief Trial, the denial of clemency by the governor. The disclosures came in April 1998. The man was released from incarceration in June 2009. It was a long long haul. We have no recourse. We just have to pick up the pieces and keep going.
All in all, every child within our family forever changed, even the siblings who were not raped. We endured at least 30 very lethal suicide attempts and multiple mental health hospitalizations--including two extended stays at the old State Hospital in Salem.
I've stood with my children and the Attorney General as we helped change the law with Crime Victims United concerning the compulsion of victims to testify at Post Relief Trials. Every single holiday, special event, birth, and death in our family over the last 12 years has been effected by the actions of what one human being chose to do to a group of children--our eight and at least two others. I have trudged along this path for 12 years!! I have dedicated my life to keeping children safe and helping them heal when they have been harmed. Instead of being able to enjoy typical childhood and teen activities, our family has been compelled to participate in almost non-stop involvement with the after-effects of sexual abuse. It has been an uphill battle to maintain joy and vibrancy and stability in our home.
Our children are now young adults and not one word of their "story" has ever changed. In fact, as they've matured, they've been far more able to understand what some of the brutal and humiliating acts committed against them were all about and to report more details of the assaults. The irony? They looked up to this young man. He was their friend. On the day he was arrested, they wanted to know how long he'd be gone as they wanted him to play with them. They felt horrible guilt and fear for telling on him. He threatened them that he would kill them and/or rape their older sisters and me if they disclosed. The gun they were threatened with was presented in court. He also tortured their pets and we lost one precious kitty to a vicious sexual assault and the loss of another male kitty's tail--as a warning to the boys concerning what would happen to them if they told. They were forced to watch as he sexually tortured chickens and bunnies and were told that he would do the same to them.
I came to WS in an attempt to help others understand, process, and move on from childhood sexual abuse. I also have a very strong drive to educate the general public about the heinous crimes of pedophilia, sexual assault against teens, child











, and child trafficking. I want my experiences to be a guiding light for others. I want parents to be aware, to learn how to listen and to watch. I want to keep our children and teens safe.
I was the very first to state on this thread that false allegations occur and that precautions must be taken. I try my hardest to be reasonable and just. But I've walked the path next to a child who has suffered from sexual abuse. It is a parent's worst nightmare. The child is forever changed. The parent is forever changed. Childhood sexual abuse causes one's life to tip forever.