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This is a family member of mine, and he has been missing since 2017. Here is the NAMUS page on him: Missing Person / NamUs #MP41337
As you can see, information on him is limited. He was with his wife, and they had an argument (according to his wife). He left their home drunk, without shoes, and without his wallet. Other family members believe he may have also been on drugs at the time (unconfirmed). There's a river near their apartment, so the most likely explanation is that he drunkenly stumbled into the river.
However, his body has not been found, and his wife (allegedly, this is family gossip) tried to file for his life insurance policy without trying to find him first or confirm his death. The policy was worth thousands of dollars, and that his wife didn't wait for an investigation to start before trying to get the money (again, allegedly). His mom had to fly to Portland and hire lawyers and investigators. I'm unsure if his wife was involved in the investigations or if she or her parents pitched in for it. I don't blame her (I don't know her, I can't in good conscience blame her for his disappearance), and I know grief can make people act in many different ways. His mom is suspicious of her because of the life insurance thing, but maybe she needed the money to pay their rent, I'm not sure.
I have reached out to the detective on the case and am yet to hear back.
I know a lot of this is hearsay and unconfirmed, but it's been 8 years and there's no updates. I'll try reaching out to his mom later today to see if there's more information that needs to be added on, or what the investigators found.
Thank you!
ETA: His picture
As you can see, information on him is limited. He was with his wife, and they had an argument (according to his wife). He left their home drunk, without shoes, and without his wallet. Other family members believe he may have also been on drugs at the time (unconfirmed). There's a river near their apartment, so the most likely explanation is that he drunkenly stumbled into the river.
However, his body has not been found, and his wife (allegedly, this is family gossip) tried to file for his life insurance policy without trying to find him first or confirm his death. The policy was worth thousands of dollars, and that his wife didn't wait for an investigation to start before trying to get the money (again, allegedly). His mom had to fly to Portland and hire lawyers and investigators. I'm unsure if his wife was involved in the investigations or if she or her parents pitched in for it. I don't blame her (I don't know her, I can't in good conscience blame her for his disappearance), and I know grief can make people act in many different ways. His mom is suspicious of her because of the life insurance thing, but maybe she needed the money to pay their rent, I'm not sure.
I have reached out to the detective on the case and am yet to hear back.
I know a lot of this is hearsay and unconfirmed, but it's been 8 years and there's no updates. I'll try reaching out to his mom later today to see if there's more information that needs to be added on, or what the investigators found.
Thank you!
ETA: His picture