raeann
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I checked Carol Moulton's statements against the facts.
First of all, she's off by two years on the date that Terri and Kaine got married. They've only been married since 2007...can't get a month on that. Anyone who has friended Terri on FB will be able to get that, though. She has a folder of photos entitled "Our Hawaii Wedding 2007."
So she's not been married to Kaine but 2 1/2, maybe 3 years.
As for whether or not she's raised Kaine from infancy, we have no one's word on that but her own mother's word. And her mother was wrong on the length of Kaine and Terri's marriage.
I'm just posting this to show that when we rely on family members' comments for facts, we may not be getting facts.
Other info...
Kaine and Desiree divorced in February 2003. We don't know why, and we don't know when Kaine got primary custody. We also don't know whether there was a 50/50 arrangement on custody, but Desiree let Kyron stay with Kaine during the school year because Skyline is actually a great school academically. If that is the case, the irony is painful.
So much that we don't know about the family arrangements. I really hate seeing comments that seem to smear Kyron's mother, just because she did not have physical custody of Kyron when he went missing.
Someone should probably check records on this, they could have had a courthouse kind of wedding way before that and waited for a Hawaii wedding when they could better afford it---especially when they had her son and Kyron to deal with at the time. The way that it is worded as our HAWAII wedding makes it seem like there may have been something before that, too. A number of sources have stated that the father got custody shortly after Kyron was born and that the step mom has been a primary caretaker since he was an infant. I am in no way smearing his bio mom because I have always assumed that perhaps she had a job requiring lots of travel or maybe she was working night shifts which would mean she had to have child care at night and during the day while she slept. I know many nurses who struggle with that problem. Being a single mom would make that almost impossible to handle. It sounds like dad has a good job with a good company that would have all kinds of benefits to cover Kyron. If he does have health problems, the need for steady insurance could be the deciding factor with both parents in complete agreement. No one has said there were any kind of problems or disputes over custody.
Likewise, I am giving the stepmom the benefit of the doubt. I am assuming that her older son living with the grandparents could be related to his choice of schools, or a sports program that he wanted to be eligible to attend, or even that he was a help to his grandparents in keeping up with chores at their home. There are a multitude of legitimate reasons for both living situations that do not involve conflict or scandal of any kind.
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