You know we used to be a nation of respect and decorum. The media didn't chase celebrities down like foxes being hunted and respected basic privacy. The media was more responsible in reporting and was often active in attempting to make society safer.
For example, there have been cases where the media worked with the police in their responses and reaction to serial killers who communicated with newspapers or just in reporting things a certain way so as to cause a reaction in the monster.
It is time for some of that attitude now. We need to put people over profits. It is about morality and self-preservation.
Pretty much all these murderers are rage-filled, alienated, socially awkward or seriously mentally ill young men in their teens or twenties who feel insignificant and isolated. They feel this is the way to become famous, be "special", be powerful and to force everyone to hear them.
It's simple: Deny them their fame as their voice. Every single media outlet in America should agree to a pact to deny these creeps the "reward" they feel they get from this.
Do not name them.
Do not identify them.
Do not speak about their lives or backgrounds.
Do not call them macho-sounding things like "killer" or "gunman".
Do not plaster their photo across the airwaves or in newspapers like heroes.
Refer to to them as what they are: Murderers and cowards. Period.
I've said this many times before. I sincerely believe these mass
murders would decline in frequency if that's what would happen.
Gitana,
I agree with your assertion about our media. I was just recently, in light of the recent anniversary of Princess Diana's death, discussing the same with my husband.
Princess Di's death was one of those, "remember what you were doing, when.. ", moments for me. I remember it, clear as day (well, it was evening where I was) and I remember my thoughts about the incident.
I remember thinking how bad, and hard up, the media must be in the UK. I was always reading about the royal family being harassed my paparazzi, as well as huge sports figures. The same paparazzi behavior happened to American actors/actresses that would visit or tour the UK.
Their mags were full of "inside" stories and dirty rumors about celebrities. We had the enquire, but that seemed to be more focused on UFO'S, women giving birth to warewolves, and government conspiracies.
I'm sorry, if this post seems to be off-topic, but I don't believe it is. In the past few decades, our media has evolved away from free-press storied and real journalism and into sensationalism and Enquir'esque fiction. So, yes. The media is a huge part of the problem.
With that said, I'm not really sure how to fix that part of the issue. There may be little we can do about the media issue, just as there isn't much we can do about the gun issue. Neither issue can be properly dealt with, without revising our Constitution. And that is something I am NOT willing to consider.
And, so we're back to the beginning. Back to where we can make a difference and that is at home.