PA - Conner, 8, & Brinley Snyder, 4, found hung, later died, Kempton, 23 Sept 2019 *Arrest*

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I look for your posts so often to see what your opinion is! I respect you so much.

What you’ve written here is a recipe for healing.

I think another thing that helps those of us who have experienced some form of childhood trauma is hearing from others who have as well and have succeeded and healed regardless.

Morning all!

I couldnt agree with you more.

When becoming an adult I first made many mistakes in my life. I came out of a home environment that never showed me the correct path to take or how to make the right choices nor did I have support of any kind.

Like so many like me, I first married an abusive fanatically jealous obsessive man who almost wound up killing me at the end when we had separated before I filed for divorce. But like all bad situations there were blessing too because of our 3 beautiful children.

After that nightmare was finally over my life began to change in many blessed ways. For once I had the love, and support I never had before because I had hid what was happening in my prior 10 year marriage from everyone. Once I was in the ICU for 3 weeks it was finally out of my hands since LE was notified by the doctors. There began my road to freedom, peace, and love.

After my divorce I met again my junior high school boyfriend who I knew was a loving, honest, and caring man. We've been married now for over 35 years, and he's still the same, loving me, and our five children, grandchildren, all family members every single day.

He is the greatest gift I've ever given our children. To all five he is the greatest role model for he is like me. A totally inclusive man who's heart encompasses all who never excludes anyone. We are one team, one family, and it's been the most beautiful journey for all of us.

I never dreamed after holding my secrets in for so long I could freely express them openly.

I do want others in the same situations to know there is always hope, and if I can do it, and so many others like me have accomplished a better life, others can also do it, and to never give up. It will happen at their own pace as all life stories are different.

I pray for everyone who has been traumatized in their lives, and pray they all have better lives to come which they all so richly deserve.

Jmho
 
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Authorities consider rare ‘psychological autopsy’ in case of Berks County children found hanged in basement

It’s been two months since 8-year-old Conner and 4-year-old Brinley were found hanged in the basement of Snyder’s Berks County home. Authorities have said little about the children’s unusual deaths, but say the “criminal investigation” remains open.

In an effort to move the death investigation forward, authorities are considering performing a “psychological autopsy,” a rare procedure in which a psychologist and criminal profiler take an in-depth look at not only the physical causes that led to a person’s death, but interview family members and look at school, medical and criminal records for additional clues.
 
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It really angers me that teachers, administrators and parents allow this.

My brother teaches at a catholic school and it is not allowed. A kid isn’t even allowed to eat by themselves. “Why is Sarah by herself? We don’t exclude anyone! Go invite her to sit with you.”

They don’t allow it and they’re on it.

It is the adult’s responsibility to teach children how to socialize. No wonder we’ve developed such a nasty, angry society when this is allowed to go on in childhood.

What a wonderful thing to do. How I wish all schools would adopt this same rule.

Children now more than ever need to feel included, and it's a great teaching lesson for all of the students. If all schools implemented just simple kindness toward all students making sure not even one feels isolated, or excluded, maybe, just maybe, we would return to being a much kinder, gentler society again.

I know just one kind word can make a huge difference. Adults need to do this as well.

We must all remember there is a real life story behind everyone we meet. Even if they seem grumpy or unfriendly we have no idea what they may have happening in their lives that makes them that way.

Maybe just saying kind words to them may help their day be brighter if only for a little while.

Hurtful judgemental words have great power to cut deep wounds, but words of kindness, and encouragement have just as much power to heal, and soothe.

Imo, constant negativity is as harmful as dreaded cancer who destroys someone from the inside. Sadly, in the past 6 years or so we have been seeing so many saturated with reeking toxic negativity night, and day never having one positive thing to ever say. And instead of it getting better it's gotten far worse each year with no let up in sight. :(

For most of our country's existence we took pride in being the most compassionate nation in the world. United WE stand use to really mean something.

I, myself, saw the drastic change begin in 2013 on a national level. I saw the drastic change on social media sites starting wayback in 2004.

Somehow we have lost our way. I just pray its during my lifetime that I will be able to witness positive thoughts return overcoming all of the highly dangerous hateful negativity that is consuming us.

Sometimes it feels so many have become like 'cannibals' frenzy feeding off others to inflict as much emotional pain, and divisiveness as they possibly can.

Imo, that's why so many young students are committing suicide now showing us all how painful hateful words, said, and written truly are, and how deadly powerful even causing children to believe they have no value or worth when each one is precious. :(

In the past 6 or 7 years death threats have become so commonplace too just because the persons they target may simply have a different point of view. Gah! How we've allowed this happen I have no clue.

Jmhoo.
 
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Authorities consider rare ‘psychological autopsy’ in case of Berks County children found hanged in basement

It’s been two months since 8-year-old Conner and 4-year-old Brinley were found hanged in the basement of Snyder’s Berks County home. Authorities have said little about the children’s unusual deaths, but say the “criminal investigation” remains open.

In an effort to move the death investigation forward, authorities are considering performing a “psychological autopsy,” a rare procedure in which a psychologist and criminal profiler take an in-depth look at not only the physical causes that led to a person’s death, but interview family members and look at school, medical and criminal records for additional clues.

The fact that LE is even considering this tells me all I need to know.

LE probably has a good idea what happened that day, but I fear it will be extremely difficult—if not impossible—to prove it. I hope they follow thru with it. And I pray whatever they uncover is enough to hold the person responsible for the deaths of these two innocent children accountable in a court of law.
 
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The fact that LE is even considering this tells me all I need to know.

LE probably has a good idea what happened that day, but I fear it will be extremely difficult—if not impossible—to prove it. I hope they follow thru with it. And I pray whatever they uncover is enough to hold the person responsible for the deaths of these two innocent children accountable in a court of law.
I'm getting the same feeling here. LE needs more data for probable cause and authority to dig deeper. MOO
 
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Does anyone know if Investigators have found out where the dog is?
TIA
 
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I'm getting the same feeling here. LE needs more data for probable cause and authority to dig deeper. MOO

I'm seriously starting to wonder what's going on here.
 
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Wonder if they've ever been done to disprove a suicide?

Could be! It seems to me they have little to no evidence that it wasnt.
 
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A very informative journal article about psychological autopsies —

https://www.upstate.edu/psych/pdf/education/fellowships/psychological_autopsy_1.pdf

The psychological autopsy (PA) can be a very helpful tool to assist medical examiners and homicide investigators in approaching “equivocal deaths.” An equivocal death may be one in which the manner of death is questionable, or the circumstances surrounding the death are otherwise unclear.
 
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Have investigators confirmed this?
 
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Have investigators confirmed this?

I don't believe the investigators have publically confirmed that they've located or seen the dog-- but I believe they have. There's been no more outreach that I'm aware of trying to locate "Boomer."

Locating the dog was on the original search warrant and I don't think LE will discuss it further while the investigation is ongoing.

I'm still curious when LS gave away the dog. The picture of dog and comment about walking Boomer is timestamped August.

MOO
 
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Wonder if they've ever been done to disprove a suicide?

Absolutely. I've already mentioned the ME did one on Lana Clarkson which took 7 months to finally rule her death was a homicide, and not a suicide as Phil Spector had falsely claimed.

I would think this one too will entail a psychological or victimology autopsy since the two children are voiceless now, and only their mom is claiming it was murder suicide.

I would think these same kind of autopsies are done far more often than we may think....even those declared as homicides after the long investigation is finalized.

Jmho
 
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Imo, if this was a clear cut case that was actually a murder suicide as the mom claims the evidence found at the scene would align wih her claims. Also the autopsies of both children will be evidence they consider which will include full toxicology results on each child.

It will be interesting to know if one or both had drugs in their system at the time of death.

If so could she have hoisted them up herself, and then staged the scene?

Evidently the evidence thus far does not line up , and that is the very reason it's still being closely investigated.

This one may take months to complete like others have.

Jmhoo
 
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Wonder if they've ever been done to disprove a suicide?

This is a very odd situation for the investigative team to be in. Trying to prove someone did NOT commit suicide would be like trying to prove someone was NOT raped.

So if someone falsely claims they were raped and to bolster their story they claim at the same time YOU were raped... how do you prove you were not raped?

If you think about it that way all of our investigative and forensic tools are geared towards proving something DID happen. We don't have tools for proving that something did NOT happen.

Who do you call to prove it did NOT happen? It's extremely challenging. It's nearly impossible to prove a rape didn't happen even with a live person testifying. I'm not sure how on earth you prove a suicide didn't happen when you don't even have a live person to assert that.
 
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This is a very odd situation for the investigative team to be in. Trying to prove someone did NOT commit suicide would be like trying to prove someone was NOT raped.

So if someone falsely claims they were raped and to bolster their story they claim at the same time YOU were raped... how do you prove you were not raped?

If you think about it that way all of our investigative and forensic tools are geared towards proving something DID happen. We don't have tools for proving that something did NOT happen.

Who do you call to prove it did NOT happen? It's extremely challenging. It's nearly impossible to prove a rape didn't happen even with a live person testifying. I'm not sure how on earth you prove a suicide didn't happen when you don't even have a live person to assert that.

Morning MsF,and all!

I'm not sure I quite understand what you mean, but there have been other cases where the living person or persons said the victim committed suicide. The evidence proved otherwise, and the ME, and LEs investigation also showed it was a homicide.

There are many ways forensic experts to know the difference in someone hanging themselves, vs. at the hands of another.

Those aren't negatives, but provable evidence we see in all cases, and trials. Even powerful CE are facts jurors weigh each, and every day in courtrooms.

The victims who have been raped are seen as evidence testimony. It's up to the jury to weigh their credibility along with the other evidence entered to render their verdict.

I dont see it as proving a negative. Its proving through supporting evidence the deaths weren't as the living person is claiming.

If it was an unprovable negative then those like Phil Spector or others who have hung their victims claiming the victim hung themselves committing suicide on their own would all getaway with homicide which does not happen.

Someone self hanging themselves leaves different evidence on the necks themselves. Also did they have brusings on their bodies not consistent with hanging?

MEs, and forensic pathologists have long been able to discern the two differences because of identifying the differences between suicide, and homicide. If they cant do either they will determine the deaths 'undetermined'which means the cases remain wide open for LE to gather more evidence. Many cases where the deaths were once listed undetermined or accidental or even suicide at one time have resulted in them later being changed to homicides.

I do believe it will take months for the ME to determine what really happened to these two children.

Its evident they are closely investigating this case, which means, imo, at this time they are not buying the only living witness's claim.

Imo, they would only do so if the evidence they have amassed thus far does not line up with the mom's claims who conveniently was the only living person in the home when it all occured.

It would take many steps to complete this plan by a very young child, and carry it all out to completion, yet supposedly she didnt see or hear any of it? Imo, that defies all logic, and common sense. Especially when she claimed he had already told her he was going to do it! Are there any documented records where she immediately sought help for her son? If true, she would be on high alert making sure she knew where he was at all times, and what he was doing as any caring parent would do.

Are there documented records where she went to the school about her little boy being unmercifially bullied to the point he wanted to supposedly take his own life?? I really highly doubt it. Jmo.

I dont believe this 8 year old child was some crafty stealthy mastermind who did all of this from beginning to end without ever once making a sound nor did his little sister while knowing he was going to murder her.

Imo, once it began to happen she would become afraid, and at least cry out. No little child her age really wants to die. Even if she first thought it was a pretend game it wouldn't take her, but mere seconds to know it was very real. Imo, she would begin to cry, telling him to stop.

From minute one none of this supposedly elaborate plan has made any sense, and it didn't make sense to the investigators nor the ME either. Hence they have opened up a thorough ongoing investigation.

If it was a cut, and dried case the ME would have ruled it murder suicide when he did the autopsies of both.

That did not happen, and he had valid reasons for delaying it, and so do the investigators who always works closely with MEs.

Jmho
 
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Authorities consider rare ‘psychological autopsy’ in case of Berks County children found hanged in basement

It’s been two months since 8-year-old Conner and 4-year-old Brinley were found hanged in the basement of Snyder’s Berks County home. Authorities have said little about the children’s unusual deaths, but say the “criminal investigation” remains open.

In an effort to move the death investigation forward, authorities are considering performing a “psychological autopsy,” a rare procedure in which a psychologist and criminal profiler take an in-depth look at not only the physical causes that led to a person’s death, but interview family members and look at school, medical and criminal records for additional clues.

Very interesting info. Thank you.

Hmmm so perhaps this mom has a criminal record we aren't aware of at this time. Do we know if CPS were ever involved concerning these two children or perhaps abuse of their older brother? TIA.

Also their brother is only 17 yet no longer lives with his mom. Do we know why he no longer lives there, and who he lives with now. Could she have lost custody of him?

I've said all along their only living sibling will have a wealth of information for LE about what really went on inside the home with this mom, not only with him, but how she treated her two youngest children. Was she known to bully her own children grossly mistreating them all?

Imo, LE will get to the truth before it's all over. These children deserve no less.

Jmho
 
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