oceanblueeyes
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I look for your posts so often to see what your opinion is! I respect you so much.
What you’ve written here is a recipe for healing.
I think another thing that helps those of us who have experienced some form of childhood trauma is hearing from others who have as well and have succeeded and healed regardless.
Morning all!
I couldnt agree with you more.
When becoming an adult I first made many mistakes in my life. I came out of a home environment that never showed me the correct path to take or how to make the right choices nor did I have support of any kind.
Like so many like me, I first married an abusive fanatically jealous obsessive man who almost wound up killing me at the end when we had separated before I filed for divorce. But like all bad situations there were blessing too because of our 3 beautiful children.
After that nightmare was finally over my life began to change in many blessed ways. For once I had the love, and support I never had before because I had hid what was happening in my prior 10 year marriage from everyone. Once I was in the ICU for 3 weeks it was finally out of my hands since LE was notified by the doctors. There began my road to freedom, peace, and love.
After my divorce I met again my junior high school boyfriend who I knew was a loving, honest, and caring man. We've been married now for over 35 years, and he's still the same, loving me, and our five children, grandchildren, all family members every single day.
He is the greatest gift I've ever given our children. To all five he is the greatest role model for he is like me. A totally inclusive man who's heart encompasses all who never excludes anyone. We are one team, one family, and it's been the most beautiful journey for all of us.
I never dreamed after holding my secrets in for so long I could freely express them openly.
I do want others in the same situations to know there is always hope, and if I can do it, and so many others like me have accomplished a better life, others can also do it, and to never give up. It will happen at their own pace as all life stories are different.
I pray for everyone who has been traumatized in their lives, and pray they all have better lives to come which they all so richly deserve.
Jmho
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