I cannot even think of a scenario where she could (or would) belittle him or argue with him. What's there to argue about during a normal exterminator visit? And speaking as a small woman myself, even if there was something I was displeased with, I can't imagine getting confrontational in my house when I'm alone with a service man - that would be very awkward and not safe.
Could it be he was going through the house (as part of the service) and she found him going through the medicine cabinets and asked him to leave. Is he a current drug user or past?
It's always a bit unnerving having a service person come to your home if you are a female and nobody else is there with you.
I do not believe for a second that Dr. Kenuti argued with this man. He planned this. I'm sure of it.
I recently went crazy on an exterminator....Scenario was, new apt (never apt dweller) and the bugs were really bad. The pest control guy came and to me he was my savior. He thought it funny and told me how he would spray my apt, they'd (the bugs) run upstairs, then just come back down..that's how he keeps his job. Needless to say, my Jersey attitude let loose and he could have killed me. He left when my bf heard me hollering and came inside and said "dude, she will hurt you". I am 5'6" - 115...and stupid as it is, I have got into with a few service men over my years. I may think before I speak from now on.
I'm not sure what there was to get so furious about with your exterminator. Seems like he was telling you a fact, not what he hoped would happen.
I am never nasty to service workers. Not because I think they could be dangerous but because it's not easy to go into people's homes and have to deal with different temperaments and eccentricities. I can only imagine myself getting that angry with someone I hired if that person was threatening or being offensive with my family.
That being said, again, I don't believe for a moment that this lady argued with the monster who murdered her. I 100% don't believe she was rude or angry or argumentative with him to any degree at all. Instead, he probably took her pleas not to rape her or kill her as "arguing". Man, what a disgusting waste of flesh he.