"The B-J Story," describes a relationship that blooms and then falters. "Very few people know about this story and probably less care. I guess that I'm writing it for me. I'm Jer," he began. He wrote that the relationship grew after his own father died.
"It was a difficult time for Jer because he had lost his dad. Jer and his dad shared so much, did many things together. (No.4) comes along and he and Jer seem to enjoy the same experiences. Both seemed to be in need. They loved playing games, competing, singing, laughing, sharing experiences, just being themselves."
He continued, "Jer became attached to (No. 4) and always will be. He and Jer played Polish Soccer, wrote papers together, rode a four wheeler even though Jer was scared to death, studied in the playground, roller skated, ice skated, jet-skied, went to a bowl game, spent days at football and soccer camp, canoed, traveled, and more.
Things got rocky, he added.
"There were ups and downs. There were arguments, fights, they cared! No matter what, there was a connection that would help them last through these difficult times."
But something came between them, "a dark cloud" that "inch by inch" took over and "smothered sensitivity and love."
He ends the letter with a plea: "Jer may not be worthy, but he needs a 'best friend.' It doesn't look real good."