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What Psychological Disorder do you think Jodi may have?


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  • #1,741
Jodi would have been going to AZ to
Visit Travis.

Again she met Travis Sept 06.
She was Baptized into Mormon Church in Nov 06.

This account from Ashley happened almost 4 months later in January of 2007. By this time Jodi had been baptized in the Mormon church and began meeting with Travis back and forth in person

After Jan 07 when Ashley lived with Jodi, Jodi moved to CA briefly and then to Mesa, AZ to be near Travis as they were still a couple at the time (I believe sometime in Spring 2007)

also if memory serves me, there were times Jodi and Travis met at the home of Chris & Skye Hughes - in california. In Hemet I believe. Until they got fed up with HER. Jodi and Travis also met up in Riverside CA and Anaheim CA for PPL events. They stayed in hotel rooms together -as boyfriend and girlfriend. This was before she moved to mesa and before they broke up. They also took some trips together.
 
  • #1,742
Thanks. But I question it because she says that Jodi was always going to Arizona. They lived together three weeks?

It does not strike of reality to me.

I agree. That mother's interview didn't seem to have much to back it up. She said some outrageous stuff, but who knows if any of it is true.
 
  • #1,743
also if memory serves me, there were times Jodi and Travis met at the home of Chris & Skye Hughes - in california. In Hemet I believe. Until they got fed up with HER. Jodi and Travis also met up in Riverside CA and Anaheim CA for PPL events. They stayed in hotel rooms together -as boyfriend and girlfriend. This was before she moved to mesa and before they broke up. They also took some trips together.

Yes and also Phx AZ (Mesa) really isn't that far from palm desert CA - I've done the drive plenty of times as I went to ASU in Phx and my family is in Palm Desert so I'd make the same drive to visit them.

It's about 3 hours max - Maybe less time if you are a speedy driver.

And I think Jodi didn't have a job at the point that Ashley was living with her, although she and Ashley had initially met through working at Bing Crosby's.

Jodi said to Ashley that Daryl skipped town - that he up and left her with the house payments, but I have a feeling he was tired of paying both parts of the mortgage fully himself and was trying to distance himself as JA was financially abusive. We all know Daryl has one kid he needs to have money to support - that's probably why Daryl said the situation wasn't good for his son - Jodi was presumably not putting in her weight financially and Daryl had to make up for it - which was effecting Daryl's overall financial support of his son. IMO

(p.s. Hemet, CA is where I got my husky, Jack!)
 
  • #1,744
I just question all of the Bible studies, driving, and working in the three week time span Jodi and Ashley lived together.

I think people are jumping on the band wagon to pretend to know more than they do.

It is too bad when we are trying to figure out what is wrong with JA
 
  • #1,745
Yes and unfortunately bc many character witnesses have to claim anonymity to avoid being harassed by the public is sad. It leads to important information that can't be followed up on bc the source has a pseudonym or alias.

Then again of it were a person looking to share in the limelight of the case, wouldn't they use their real name as the source, to get further attention?

I don't think they would have scheduled the interview with Debbie if her bio didn't check out. Then again hey, it's HLN. ;)

Hmmm looks like I found an interview in January on Dr Drew between he and a girl going by "veronica" who worked at bing crosby's w ja...Will research more as this may have a connection. Will let u guys know.
 
  • #1,746
VERONICA, CALLER FROM HAWAII: Hey, I knew Jodi personally in Rancho Mirage, California. We worked together. She would be in the packing lot refusing to go to work because she couldn`t get him on the phone.

I said, Jodi, leave the boy alone. She goes, I can`t, Veronica. He`s the only man I want to marry. He`s the only man I want to have children with.

PINSKY: Veronica, when was this?

VERONICA: This was back in 2008. She worked at the restaurant for four or five months.

PINSKY: Did you notice anything peculiar about her? Is there anything you can tell us --

VERONICA: Every night. She had a flat affect. She was horrible at the job, but she got it because she was pretty.

And she -- and owners of the restaurant would say, I never want her at my table again. I would say, Jodi, what happened? And she`d say, nothing.

REYNOLDS: What restaurant was this because she lied and said she worked at a place called Margaritaville. There was no such place.

VERONICA: Bull. She worked at Bing Crosby`s in Rancho Mirage.

PINSKY: In Rancho Mirage, in the desert.

VERONICA: And she was living in a house, at Palm Desert Country Club. And she was trying to get me to buy this house for $300,000.

PINSKY: OK. Was she -- does she create chaos? Were she -- did you see any aggression? Was there anything about her that was --

VERONICA: No, Jodi does not show outwardly anything. Jodi stays at a flat affect. Jodi -- she would be telling me, I`ve got to drive to Arizona, Veronica. I`m going tonight after work. And I`d say --

PINSKY: Veronica, when you heard, were you shocked she was capable of something like this?

VERONICA: No, because she abused an animal, I know.

REYNOLDS: Oh, gosh. Well, a lot of Jeffrey Dahmers start with animals.

PINSKY: Tell me about. Again, we cannot confirm or deny what Veronica is telling us, but go ahead. Please tell us what you know.

VERONICA: OK. We had an employee there. He was getting there. His wife was allergic to the cat. He asked her to take the cat. But two weeks while they went on honeymoon, she told me where it`s at. She said, Veronica, I`m going to do it. So, she took the cat in.

After two weeks when the guy got back from his honeymoon, she came up to me and said, Veronica, when I went back to get the cat after two weeks - - I said, two weeks, what do you mean? She said, I left it in a dark room with enough food and water. A lot at her and I was about to strangle her right there. And I had a whole (INAUDIBLE).

And she said the cat was shaking horribly, Veronica. I guess I kind of felt bad. Oh!

REYNOLDS: Showing she`s obviously heartless. Are you watching the trial at all, Veronica?

VERONICA: Yes, ma`am.

REYNOLDS: And so, your thoughts are?

VERONICA: That`s Jodi. She won`t show you what`s going on in her. She won`t show you.

PINSKY: Did she ever sort of flip into different characters where you were sort of surprised by the sort of range where she almost seemed like somebody else?

VERONICA: No, because Jodi has flat affect.

PINSKY: She was flat.

VERONICA: She doesn`t show happiness or sadness or nervousness. She -- oh. My grandmother had a saying. Butter wouldn`t melt in her mouth.

PINSKY: I`m going to say, Dr. Golland, you know, one of the things about sociopaths is they don`t experience much anxiety. So --

GOLLAND: Exactly. That`s exactly what I was thinking.

PINSKY: If Veronica is telling us something accurate, that would sort of fit with the sociopath/psychopath spectrum.

All right. Veronica, I hope you`ll hold for me because I have no doubt I`ll have more questions for you.

Next up, I promise to show you a tape of Jodi`s friend who alleges a different side to Jodi. I`m going to have Veronica maybe ring in on what this other friend is saying.

Then, I`ve got a guest who knows more about the Steubenville rape than anyone else apparently. He`s an insider and he says he`s going to tell us a different story. That`s next.

(COMMERCIAL BREAK)

PINSKY: We are back talking about the Jodi Arias trial with my co- host, Jillian Barberie Reynolds and our guests. Now, as I said, she`s got some supporters. I want to show you part of an in-session interview with her friend, Donavan Bering, talking about the Jodi she claims to know.

And I have Veronica -- as by the way, I`ve said before, I can`t confirm nor deny the veracity of what Veronica is telling us, but I want her to respond to this tape. Watch.

(BEGIN VIDEO CLIP)

DONAVAN BERING, JODI ARIAS FAMILY FRIEND: I know Jodi well enough to know that if the situation could be taken back, it would be taken back. Jodi -- Jodi -- would not be in the situation she`s in if she could have helped it.

(END VIDEO CLIP)

PINSKY: So, Veronica, there`s someone that claims she knows -- I`m going to have the whole team listen to the Veronica respond to this knows Jodi. What do you say to that little tape?

VOICE OF VERONICA, SAYS SHE KNEW JODI ARIAS: Well --

(LAUGHTER)

VERONICA: Well, anyone who feels bad about something, Dr. Drew, is going to fess up. OK? This little girl --

(LAUGHTER)

VERONICA: Boy, she`s going to try the best she can to get out of it. I don`t understand the mentality of it, doctor, but boy, I sure worked with her and I knew her. And what I see in her trial and that flat affect and her just holding it all in and just acting like nothing is wrong.

PINSKY: And Veronica, was anyone ever concerned about her? Did anybody get the willies? Did anybody --

VERONICA: Oh, yes. I had co-workers at the restaurant who said, Veronica, stay away from her. What are you talking about? She`s a pretty little girl -- oh no, Veronica, stay away from her. There`s nothing wrong with her. She doesn`t show emotion. She doesn`t get upset. She doesn`t cry. We are wait staff. We are emotional, we are passionate, and she had nothing.

JILLIAN BARBERIE REYNOLDS, TV HOST: I have a question here, Dr. Drew. You know, we`ve all had that friend that goes a little too far, calling the acts and you`re like easy. This looks a little obsessive --

PINSKY: Stalking behaviors.

REYNOLDS: Yes. And it`s just desperate behavior.

PINSKY: Yes.

REYNOLDS: Are you born with that? Is that something that, you know - -

PINSKY: No, you`re not. That`s sort of more has to do with your ruptured relationships in childhood and think psychopathy can be something you are born with --

MICHELLE GOLLAND, PSY.D., CLINICAL PSYCHOLOGIST: Which also a big --

(CROSSTALK)

PINSKY: Go ahead, Dr. Golland.

GOLLAND: Which also brings up the idea of what was her childhood like? Clearly, and not that there`s any justification for this, but we know, you don`t just come into the world and do this, OK? So, it`s important to understand how these personality disorders develop and how someone could become so flat and so lacking empathy and consciousness that they would do what it seems she did.

PINSKY: Although my understanding is if it`s a psychopath as a opposed to a severe borderline or other kinds of trauma personalities, that does tend to be a brain issue that is more genetic. And otherwise, Mark, you were trying to say something. Let me ask you before -- you`ve made your comment, but I also ask would you put -- where is the mom?

Why isn`t she on the stand? Why aren`t some of these supporters up there, you know, defending her, given her sort of a character profile that makes her look a little better?

MARK EIGLARSH, CRIMINAL DEFENSE ATTORNEY: OK. Well, first of all, the court of public opinion doesn`t render a verdict, so that`s something that I try not to address as much as the courtroom. Now, in the courtroom, the defense is in a classic catch-22. They can`t prove this self-defense probably ever, but without evidence of self-defense, and as Jillian said, her view kind of reflects every opinion I`ve received on Twitter and Facebook.

That is, the evidence is inconsistent with self-defense. So, the only way you have a chance is if somebody testifies to it. That means you have to put her up on the stand, and I never like putting defendants on the stand because I can`t control how they`re going to do. I got to say one more thing, by the way.

July 15th, 2008 was the day that Caylee went missing. July 15th, 2008 is when Arias was arrested. Ironically, both Casey Anthony and Jodi Arias spent July 15th, that same day, lying to law enforcement.

PINSKY: That is the one thing we know about both these women. They lie, lie, lie. Yes. It`s bizarre to think -- Lisa Wexler, I`m going to go to you. I mean, these investigators, these women look them straight in the eye and just cold-blooded lying in a way that`s hard even to understand, and then --

REYNOLDS: Think about what they`ve just done. Think about what they`ve just done. They just butchered somebody, of course they can lie.

(CROSSTALK)

PINSKY: Yes, go ahead, Lisa.

REYNOLDS: That`s so secondary compared to what they`ve just done. That`s nothing compared to butchering a human being.

PINSKY: You`re right. Lisa?

LISA WEXLER, RADIO TALK SHOW HOST: I agree --

(CROSSTALK)

DR. BILL LLOYD, HAS PERFORMED OVER 500 AUTOPSIES: Let`s get past the lying. We`re not talking about the lying as much as the compartmentalization.

PINSKY: Yes.

LLOYD: That`s what amazes me, Drew. She`s able to take a story, put it in a package, put the package over here, and then go kill somebody.

PINSKY: That`s right.

(CROSSTALK)

PINSKY: Let me just say, though, that severe compartmentalization is really disassociation where people literally are not aware of what they`re doing and those -- they gray out or black out --

Continued here http://edition.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/1301/14/ddhln.01.html
 
  • #1,747
(p.s. arias didn't mo e to Mesa until AFTER she and Travis broke up in June 2007. So the relationship was long distance the entire time - w meetings from sept. 2006 to their break up and Jodi moving to Mesa in June 2007)
 
  • #1,748
I just question all of the Bible studies, driving, and working in the three week time span Jodi and Ashley lived together.

I think people are jumping on the band wagon to pretend to know more than they do.

It is too bad when we are trying to figure out what is wrong with JA


Another issue for me in this trial (apart from thinking she is terribly misunderstood), and one that I have to seriously consider, is that it has a somewhat racial element to it. She was young woman with a heritage that has long been known (viewed by a public outside the US) to be categorised as 'troublesome'. Photographs of her blondness indicate to me a woman trying to look very 'white' in a very white community and faith. Trying to 'fit in'.
Her community lives with racism and rejection and marginalised oppression every single day.
I could just as easily interpret her hair dyeing as a move to reclaim her 'self'. SMK alluded to Paglia and the projected persona of a falseness in order to fit in. She was at a stage in life where the strength of a persona was still in development, and the individuation phase of intimacy vs isolation. She needed to fit in, but she just didn't - in many aspects of her life societal and personal.
There is no evidence based the State's case that she suffers from ASPD. imo
 
  • #1,749
Another issue for me in this trial (apart from thinking she is terribly misunderstood), and one that I have to seriously consider, is that it has a somewhat racial element to it. She was young woman with a heritage that has long been known (viewed by a public outside the US) to be categorised as 'troublesome'. Photographs of her blondness indicate to me a woman trying to look very 'white' in a very white community and faith. Trying to 'fit in'.
Her community lives with racism and rejection and marginalised oppression every single day.
I could just as easily interpret her hair dyeing as a move to reclaim her 'self'. SMK alluded to Paglia and the projected persona of a falseness in order to fit in. She was at a stage in life where the strength of a persona was still in development, and the individuation phase of intimacy vs isolation. She needed to fit in, but she just didn't - in many aspects of her life societal and personal.
There is no evidence based the State's case that she suffers from ASPD. imo

I do see your point about the feminine version of a white girl.

Thing is I've lived in CA and AZ and the Latino community runs strong here. They aren't really seen negatively. I have a background that is almost identical to Arias (German and Latino) and I actually look a lot like her (lucky for me I know ugh) and I live in almost the same geographic location and can say that it really makes no difference here if you are white or Latino.

I've never experienced racism or sexism based upon my race here in all my life and I have pretty low self esteem.


Also there are studies that indicate/support that Hispanic women have a higher prevalence of Narcissistic Personality Disorder... As a Latina this interests me.

" Prevalence of lifetime NPD was 6.2%, with rates greater for men (7.7%) than for women (4.8%). NPD was significantly more prevalent among black men and women and Hispanic women, younger adults, and separated/divorced/widowed and never married adults. NPD was associated with mental disability among men but not women. "

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/18557663/

IMHO
 
  • #1,750
Another issue for me in this trial (apart from thinking she is terribly misunderstood), and one that I have to seriously consider, is that it has a somewhat racial element to it. She was young woman with a heritage that has long been known (viewed by a public outside the US) to be categorised as 'troublesome'. Photographs of her blondness indicate to me a woman trying to look very 'white' in a very white community and faith. Trying to 'fit in'.
Her community lives with racism and rejection and marginalised oppression every single day.
I could just as easily interpret her hair dyeing as a move to reclaim her 'self'. SMK alluded to Paglia and the projected persona of a falseness in order to fit in. She was at a stage in life where the strength of a persona was still in development, and the individuation phase of intimacy vs isolation. She needed to fit in, but she just didn't - in many aspects of her life societal and personal.
There is no evidence based the State's case that she suffers from ASPD. imo
I would also agree that the pics of her with blonde hair very much point to an alienation of the Latino heritage, and she may have experienced both self-loathing and rage when the whole facade failed. Is this the meaning of her dyeing her hair brown in June prior to the murder? "The return of the repressed".
 
  • #1,751
I mean Latinos get lumped into the Caucasian Catagory a la George Zimmerman.

It's almost as if Latino is they "grey" between the black and white. Latino's can be fit into any Catagory to suit the argument. It offers us the ability to identify with both darker and lighter people IMHO. The negative is that you can be lumped into the Catagory to fit a social argument which is annoying.
 
  • #1,752
I am interested in that issue of the racism. Never having been to AZ and now boycotting it even though I have a good friend who moved there, the only thing I know is the law where people have to show their ID to prove they are legal.

I live in a cold place and people go there from here in the winter.

I hear many many many negative ugly comments.

It is interesting to hear that people who live in AZ do not think that is true. That there is racism. But all I hear is about the money that should be spent on the border .
 
  • #1,753
I would also agree that the pics of her with blonde hair very much point to an alienation of the Latino heritage, and she may have experienced both self-loathing and rage when the whole facade failed. Is this the meaning of her dyeing her hair brown in June prior to the murder? "The return of the repressed".

She dyed her hair right before killing him. I think she did it to avoid being identified by neighbors at Travis's house after killing him.

If there is a psychological element to it, I think she noticed that the new object of TA's interest that he was bringing to Cancun, Mimi, was a brunette. She wanted to appeal to him more physically. IMHO
 
  • #1,754
I am interested in that issue of the racism. Never having been to AZ and now boycotting it even though I have a good friend who moved there, the only thing I know is the law where people have to show their ID to prove they are legal.

I live in a cold place and people go there from here in the winter.

I hear many many many negative ugly comments.

It is interesting to hear that people who live in AZ do not think that is true. That there is racism. But all I hear is about the money that should be spent on the border .

I'm speaking from a social perspective of how people in society identify with ppl in AZ, not how Sheriff Joe is trying to crack down on the lack of border/immigration control in AZ.

Just so happens that most illegal aliens trying to cross in AZ from Mexico are brown. Reality of life. Even I can admit that.
 
  • #1,755
Another issue for me in this trial (apart from thinking she is terribly misunderstood), and one that I have to seriously consider, is that it has a somewhat racial element to it. She was young woman with a heritage that has long been known (viewed by a public outside the US) to be categorised as 'troublesome'. Photographs of her blondness indicate to me a woman trying to look very 'white' in a very white community and faith. Trying to 'fit in'.
Her community lives with racism and rejection and marginalised oppression every single day.
I could just as easily interpret her hair dyeing as a move to reclaim her 'self'. SMK alluded to Paglia and the projected persona of a falseness in order to fit in. She was at a stage in life where the strength of a persona was still in development, and the individuation phase of intimacy vs isolation. She needed to fit in, but she just didn't - in many aspects of her life societal and personal.
There is no evidence based the State's case that she suffers from ASPD. imo

I think that presupposes a depth that she didn't have. She obviously did whatever she thought would endear her to people. That's how she got by. There was no genuineness to it and no heartfelt quest to discover herself at age 27 imo.

I also think if she wanted to fit in she may have bothered to go to school, work, and become what she admired. She just wanted a shortcut. Why work for all that when you can use sex/sexuality/sexiness to jump to the head of the line?
 
  • #1,756
I would also agree that the pics of her with blonde hair very much point to an alienation of the Latino heritage, and she may have experienced both self-loathing and rage when the whole facade failed. Is this the meaning of her dyeing her hair brown in June prior to the murder? "The return of the repressed".

IIRC she started lying when she was young. I think she should have been confronted and corrected everytime she was caught lying. Maybe she was and it didn't help. Because of the lying, she undermined her own character development, and was not able to withstand the pressures of a rocky relationship like a person who has a strong character.
speaking for myself, it is easy to lie, but you get stronger emotionally if you practice telling the truth. I think a person can lose their intuition and their judgment when they aren't truthful, and you don't see things clearly. The truth is golden for sure. She got lost by becoming a chameleon.
 
  • #1,757
She died her hair blonde as we can see in many pics.

A lot of girls go blonde as there is the perception in this society that gentleman prefer blondes. Blondes have more fun. We won't go with the blonde jokes, though.

She got 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬.

This is all to be expected. Girls get 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬 for a 16 birthday gift.

Nursing a baby gets you in trouble, but showing 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬 in Playboy--- great!

So to think anything about a dye job or a boob job to me means nothing in this topsy turvy world.
 
  • #1,758
IIRC she started lying when she was young. I think she should have been confronted and corrected everytime she was caught lying. Maybe she was and it didn't help. Because of the lying, she undermined her own character development, and was not able to withstand the pressures of a rocky relationship like a person who has a strong character.
speaking for myself, it is easy to lie, but you get stronger emotionally if you practice telling the truth. I think a person can lose their intuition and their judgment when they aren't truthful, and you don't see things clearly. The truth is golden for sure. She got lost by becoming a chameleon.
Absolutely; William James in the early 1900s was already stressing how ingrained habits can become, neurologically. He noted that lying becomes easier and easier to do with time, until it becomes automatic.
 
  • #1,759
She died her hair blonde as we can see in many pics.

A lot of girls go blonde as there is the perception in this society that gentleman prefer blondes. Blondes have more fun. We won't go with the blonde jokes, though.

She got 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬.

This is all to be expected. Girls get 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬 for a 16 birthday gift.

Nursing a baby gets you in trouble, but showing 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬 in Playboy--- great!

So to think anything about a dye job or a boob job to me means nothing in this topsy turvy world.
True; indeed this chameleon-like altering of the self to blend in is the root of all fashion. It is prevalent everywhere. (Again, I am extremely puzzled as to why girls don't grow normal-sized breasts. )
 
  • #1,760
True; indeed this chameleon-like altering of the self to blend in is the root of all fashion. It is prevalent everywhere. (Again, I am extremely puzzled as to why girls don't grow normal-sized breasts. )

Lack of physical and hormonal development Related to brain/pituitary abnormalities?

This may bring us back to the biological recognition in men to see women with wider hips/larger breasts as more likely to be a good carrier of their genetic legacy.

I know from Art History studies that as depicted in the artwork of many cultures dating from ancient to modern society, most humans have long depicted the quintessential female as fair and the quintessential male as dark. I do agree that there is a feminine connotation associated with more Fair physical attributes throughout societal history and more of a masculine connotation associated with darker races.
 
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