I watched this trial again, start to finish, and I'm now of the impression that Jodi and Travis probably didn't have a relationship anything like Jodi portrayed. I heard something during ALV's testimony, and I can't remember exactly what it was now, but it made me think that Travis and Jodi didn't have a committed relationship in the terms that normal people consider. ALV was explaining it on cross as if it were "kind of like" a commitment.
I also decided that Jodi did not break up with Travis after that trip to New York and Disneyland. He probably set her straight about their relationship after she'd gone through his phone, and he probably told her they needed a break and nothing was going to happen between them because he was looking for a wife, they lived in different worlds, and they needed to cool down. Next thing you know, she shows up in his city with no job and barely a place to live.
"Who does that?" as JM said many times in closing. Who moves to a city with no real place to live and no job--the same thing she'd done to Bobby. And I recall that after her breakup with either Bobby or Matthew, she ran back to Victor in South America, even, but he was already married with a family. She tried to make it seem so innocent that she'd gone back down to stay with the international Arias family, but it came out that it had happened right after one of those breakups. She probably couldn't figure out a way to stay in the other country, so she had to come back.
The way that Travis had been so sorry for taking up DeAnna's time to find a husband makes me believe he would not have been leading Jodi on while he was going after other women, but Jodi was the one who kept trying to change his mind. She was the one showing up in the middle of the night offering herself, and after a while, he probably told her that he couldn't keep doing that because it was going nowhere. But not getting sex anywhere else and having her there on a platter, he probably gave in a few times.
Also in listening to the sex tape, we understand what he was pissed off with Abe about. I can't remember what year it had occurred in, but when that drunk woman was on Travis, Jodi got mad and she kissed Abe. It's very clear from Travis' viewpoint. She did it where Travis could see it or she told Travis that Abe kissed her that night to piss Travis off and get even for how he was with the drunken woman.
It's also clear from the sex tape that her way to see him again was through this sex video and these sex pictures they were going to take. He says in at one point that he'd take a picture laying down with his penis sticking straight up in the air. Well, we saw that photo on June 4th. There just might have been rope because he'd said he'd wanted to tie her up in the sex tape. I don't think it was used as she described--if it had been used--but I'm sure she was hyping him up to try to do the video they'd been discussing on 5.10. I believe she had the video in her camera when she left, too.
I thought that Dirty secret movie about this was wrong and over the top when they made it as if Jodi had sent him pictures or something of her having sex with another man, but maybe when she found out about Mimi or when he decided he wasn't coming to see her before the cancun trip, maybe she did have sex with someone else and tell him or send him something. Why else would he suddenly say what he said on 5.26 about being nothing but a dildo with a heartbeat and hurting and betraying him?
I want to know what this was about this "dire conversation" he was referring to.
Oh, one more thing. She'd texted him 2/08, asking for a well-deserved butt pounding--"just kidding." Why write "just kidding" after that? Because she knew she wasn't going to get one because he'd stopped doing stuff like that with her. In fact, wasn't his answer, "Or we could just cuddle?" If Travis had an active sexual agenda with her, why say that? That text was what, 2 weeks after all the crap happened with the car and FHE--where she lies like crazy about what had happened that day. I need all the texts and to build a text-message timeline.