elementary
No More Excuses
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I really think I do have to consider emotions on this one particular matter and it was totally obvious that by this time Travis couldn't take her emotional abuse any longer along with all the other things he knew she had done to him like stalking, slashing his tires, hacking into his personal accounts and horrific other things that we will probably never know about.
The most calm person ever can reach their limits where they just cant take it any longer and will have an emotional outburst when responding and say things they wouldn't normally ever say.
I don't think Travis was ever a jerk. He knew by then Arias was all about sexual manipulation and how truly deceitful she had been so of course this time HE used sexual phrases against her trying to hurt her as much as she had hurt him. Arias thought she was the queen of sex. Travis knew sex meant a lot to JA even though she lied once again.
This conversation doesn't make Travis a jerk imo. It makes him a human being and he reacted like countless of other people have who cant tolerate the pain and hurt from another anymore. Of course he lashed out at her and she deserved everything he said to her and more. That is why I know it had to be something very very serious to bring Travis to this point. It was out of character for him to say these things.
Now if all the 82,000 exchanges showed him to be a jerk I may agree but to have one or two meltdowns when trying to survive the abuse of a psychopath really shows for the most part Travis had to have the patience of Job.
IMO
To me, a jerk is someone who acts like an ignorant pig. Travis had more than enough reason for his very normal and healthy responses to being relentlessly jerked around by a psycho. I save all my contempt for the murdering perp.