Oh I understand totally the interest in this case. I too am emtionally invested in this case. I do sometimes think that the crime gets lost in the background, but I am as much to blame as anyone for focusing on things like Cindy and George and their statements and unexplainable behavior after Caylee went missing.
I think the reason this case is so fascinating is because everyone knows someone with a little bit of KC in them, a mom that is totally taking advantage of her family's help and support or someone that lies for no apparent reason, God knows we all had our partying days in college (only thank God there was no internet to memorialize it all in photos), or a friend that we think is raising totally spoiled, entitled children and we think they are doing a huge disservice to them ,setting them up to fail because we know that behavior will not be tolerated, ever, not at school, not at any job, not in their adult relationships, etc. And we are all wondering if not for the grace of God, could this have happened to someone we thought we knew, that we thought just needed to grow up. It seems to be the general opinion of her friends, she was a party buddy, so what, yeah she lied a lot, who cares, we know she is always bsing but that is just KC, even her brother told AL, "I went through that lying stage too, real bad, only mine was in high school and hers is now". Everyone saw her as someone with an arrested development, but NEVER A KILLER. I think this is why it is so fascinating , everyone knows someone with a little bit of KC in them. It is a startling wake up call to bring back good old fashioned family values, rules and standards that are very clear in your family and taking what we model for the young people in our lives more seriously. It makes me want to sit down with a few old episodes of the Waltons and think of my grandparents, their work ethic, their "earn it" and pride they took in their hard work for their family. It is humbling to know that children learn what they live. I'm going to pray to conduct myself accordingly. I haven't always.
Here's my favorite poem:
Children Learn What They Live
By Dorothy Law Nolte, Ph.D.
If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in those about them.
If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.
Copyright © 1972 by Dorothy Law Nolte
The only way the DA is going to be able to get the A family out of lying to protect their daughter mode is to preface any important questions with a lot of softball questions about how much they adored their little Caylee, get them vulnerable and in that place, and then shame them in to telling the truth. I will be interested to watch the Prosecutor, (I think you call them something else in your area SA not DA, right?)