Yes, it occured to me also that JR may not be suffering as much as the madman hoped. JR may be a little crazy too, in fact, but like you said, "sheepish", and like he said about his one-year job probation not working out, "low impact". He's definitely not a murderer. Might be counting his blessings that at least HE'S still alive even if his child isn't. He may be a total crud, besides a wimp, but not a murderer.
Even professional shrinks, which we aren't, let's remember, can't read his mind. Many of us who've known for a long time that we have a nutty enemy sabotaging our lives get smug about surviving, which gets back at him in a way, although not all the way. We may be having to wait for some justice until he's either caught for something else, like treason against the nation, stirring up terrorists, or laws change which "they say" gives certain gov't entities blanket immunity, or crime entities, of course. It's been a while since we've heard much about the mafia but probably that sort of thing is still out there.
Where I'm getting my spy idea, btw, is "Daddy's Little Princess" at
www.Konformist.com , spacing twice to try to make that clickable, not just making it up in my own head. It's such a long article I didn't even read it carefully, but it's plausible. A search at that site would probably be necessary to find "Daddy's Little Princess".