Ronald proposes to Misty #2 UPDATE: Wedding planned for 03-12-09

[lolype29]

It would not help Crystal if she ran out and got married at this point either. With all of the attention on this case, when they do get to court again, it's going to be a battle. The judge is going to look at everything...He is going to see when this marriage happened, and probably not fall for it. And he will look just as hard at Crystal and her actions.

I want what's best for the kids....if that's with Ron, then great. But right now both of these people have issues, they can't be overlooked.

Now, I know we disagree on this one....my offer stands, wanna wrestle while we wait for news? :blowkiss:

MOO I hope he also looks at the quote about "little brats" on CS myspace... not that THAT will have any weight on the battle

 

[Busylady]

No clue where he works.

Do you know where Chad is employed ?

 

[snookie]

check her out of school?? She has to get her to school 1st....wasnt there some discussion that she missed alot of school?

They did say she missed a lot of school, but I don't think Misty had anything to do with that.

Ya never know though.....

I can. Crystal just hired a lawyer to take Rj away from Ronald. It would be exactly what another lawyer on his side would advise him to do...proceed with prior plans to go ahead with marrying Misty. If Crystal were going to use cohabitating with Misty against him...it resolves the issue. I would say Rj is worth it and Ronald needs to do whatever he can to protect his son even if it means looking like he is doing something sinister or wrong to the outside world. He is putting his children first...again.

No offense, but it seems that Ronald is putting himself and his child bride first.... not his kids. :waitasec:

jmo

They actually said their pictures would be up for bids? Why would they sell their picture if they invited the press to be outside after the ceremony?

Well, no they didn't actually say that, but obviously those pics would bring in plenty of money.

cha-CHING!! :woohoo:

Why would they need to get married, because CS hired a lawyer to supposedly get custody of JR? I mean, it doesn't change the fact that he was shacked up with a minor for months including when Haleigh went missing. Is a rushed wedding going to make him look better? I just don't get it. I think it looks bad to many people. He went from calling her is dumb b*tch girfriend to marrying her in a month. :waitasec:

Tell it! :highfive:

If Haleigh were to come home tomorrow, I would say having Ronald and Misty married would make her feel more secure. She will have years of abandonment type issues. For Haleigh to know Misty is legally considered her stepmother would be beneficial in her recovery.

There is no doubt in my mind they would have a real wedding for Haleigh to share in after she is able to handle it.

Bolded by me.

With all due respect, Haleigh may not feel so safe. Afterall, it was Misty who let her get "stole".

I'm thinking Haleigh would probably want to be with her mama!

jmo

 

[tehcloser]

MOO I hope he also looks at the quote about "little brats" on CS myspace... not that THAT will have any weight on the battle

I said he will look just as hard at Crystal.......

 

[LaLaw2000]

I truly hope Haleigh is found alive some day. But as many of us in the past have seen with these cases that is not the norm now. My reason to post that link is right today they took that same door that Misty said or was said propped open now by a concrete block. Something is up, LE needs that door for something or its linked to any other evidence they have already took.

I don't want to bust anyone bubble now but so much time has gone by now. Its just sicken to me how Haleigh's father and soon to be step mother has been acting from day one. It's like watching a train wreck that won't stop going now.

(bolded by me)

I agree with you completely on the part I bolded, MouseD. My negative feelings began the moment I heard the 911 call. And yes, this is a runnaway train in the bad behavior department.

JMO, and sorry, this is just the way I see it!

 

[Shaymus at The Rock]

Somebody else might know if he works, I don't know myself. I haven't paid him a lot of attention.

In reference to the part of your post I bolded Shaymus, what say we place a wager? 1/2 dozen Krispey Kreme donuts that they do? Heh, we can log in and chow down together

Hah - a sucker bet ? No thanks !!

 

[gypsyblue]

I think Ron and Misty are trying to send a message to the world after all the mudslinging that they support each other and are united. I do not think Ronald cares what the public thinks of him. .

HE does care or doesn't? im confused?

 

[ElizaAvalon]

Looks like a shotgun wedding to me!

 

[JaneInOz]

Crystal & Chad are Legal adults.....and secondly, they are engaged themselves, have been and have been planning a wedding and put it on hold while they are dealing with this.

And so what, its legal and not all that uncommon. Lucky it it wasnt a half brother or cousin...now that would be something to get all flustered about.

Bold mine - because that is what normal people do - put a celebration on hold when a tragedy is unfolding not make a new celebration

But on the other hand marrying her Stepbrother and having his baby - sigh - they all sound like they have some serious issues to me!

 

[cuppy199]

They did say she missed a lot of school, but I don't think Misty had anything to do with that.

Ya never know though.....

No offense, but it seems that Ronald is putting himself and his child bride first.... not his kids. :waitasec:

jmo

Well, no they didn't actually say that, but obviously those pics would bring in plenty of money.

cha-CHING!! :woohoo:

Tell it! :highfive:



Bolded by me.

With all due respect, Haleigh may not feel so safe. Afterall, it was Misty who let her get "stole".

I'm thinking Haleigh would probably want to be with her mama!

jmo

I dont think Haleigh will be blaming anyone she will just be happy to be home. And right now home is with her daddy.JMO

 

[tehcloser]

No clue where he works.

What are these abuse charges Chad has, I had not heard that, it's interesting.....

 

[panthera]

I feel like it is a combination of things. I think Ron and Misty are trying to send a message to the world after all the mudslinging that they support each other and are united. I also think in their own way they are trying to do this for Haleigh, might not be the right time in alot of peoples eyes but right now I do not think Ronald cares what the public thinks of him. Those kids love Misty, Crystal even said that.

I'll sure agree about Ron not caring what the public thinks. And isn't it interesting that even Crystal admits the kids love Misty? Maybe moreso than her? One thing in Misty's defense is I'm sure Haleigh enjoyed playing with her more than her mom. At least Misty does seem more 'alive'. MOO

 

[kidz110]

I just wanted to add too that Misty keeps saying it's what Haleigh wants ~ for them to be married. So what's the rush? Haleigh has been missing for one month and if you believe she is alive, can't the wedding wait until she returns home and can be part of it? I'm not buying Misty's reasoning at all and think it's just for show to make them look like responsible "parents" in relation to the pending custody battle Crystal is initiating. MOO

Actually, she keeps saying "it's what Haleigh wanted."

 

[JaneInOz]

I will just repeat my question in case someone who knows the answer missed it

Did The proposal to Misty come BEFORE Or AFTER Crystal hired a lawyer to gain full custody of the little boy ?

 

[LaLaw2000]

snookie, I agree with your post. I, too, believe that Roanld is putting himself and his child bride first. What lawyer would advise him to go ahead with a wedding at this juncture? I do not know of one. IMO, this rushed wedding is not going to make he or Misty look any better in the public eye, and certainly not mine!

 

[Busylady]

Please do not alter my post when you quote them, it changes the meaning. I think Ronald wants people to know that he does not hold Misty responsible for what has happened to Haleigh and they he is behind her 100%. I do not think Ron cares that people are picking apart every decision he makes or whether people are going to give their blessing on every decision he makes.

HE does care or doesn't? im confused?

 

[Kat]

I will just repeat my question in case someone who knows the answer missed it

Did The proposal to Misty come BEFORE Or AFTER Crystal hired a lawyer to gain full custody of the little boy ?

Jane unless someone has a link to that and I missed it. I have no clue as the timeline of what you are asking. I'm not going to speculate, because I wouldn't want to start a rumor :angel:

 

[cuppy199]

Please do not alter my post when you quote them, it changes the meaning. I think Ronald wants people to know that he does not hold Misty responsible for what has happened to Haleigh and they he is behind her 100%. I do not think Ron cares that people are picking apart every decision he makes or whether people are going to give their blessing on every decision he makes.

Cant say I blame him. I wouldn't care either with all the mud being thrown around.

 

[panthera]

Actually, she keeps saying "it's what Haleigh wanted."

thank you for the important corrrection! :blowkiss:

 

[JaneInOz]

Jane unless someone has a link to that and I missed it. I have no clue as the timeline of what you are asking. I'm not going to speculate, because I wouldn't want to start a rumor :angel:

Lol

Cause whoever did it it looks bad

If Ron proposed to Misty and then Crystal hired a lawyer well it looks like retaliation

If Crystal hired a Lawyer and then Ron asked Misty to marry him it looks like retaliation and firming up his position

All round it doesnt look good