Ronald proposes to Misty #2 UPDATE: Wedding planned for 03-12-09

[Shaymus at The Rock]

And Chad has more recent drug charges than Ronald, and abuse of a minor child.

Do you have links, please ? I found a protective order that had been based on child abuse charges, but it was dropped. Is there another charge that was not dropped and/or a conviction ?

 

[kidz110]

I feel like it is a combination of things. I think Ron and Misty are trying to send a message to the world after all the mudslinging that they support each other and are united.

Here's the thing that bothers me. Do you really believe RC supports the ***** the lost "his heart?"

 

[Busylady]

Let me see if I can find it again, someone posted about it way back when Haleigh went missing. IIRC his there was some court proceedings regarding visitiation and child support that was settled in 12/08. The protection order involving the minor children that was put in place in 06 was dropped then. This was in Baker County, but you can not view all the details but someone found the last court proceeding details and posted, I will do some searching.

What are these abuse charges Chad has, I had not heard that, it's interesting.....

 

[gypsyblue]

Please do not alter my post when you quote them, it changes the meaning. I think Ronald wants people to know that he does not hold Misty responsible for what has happened to Haleigh and they he is behind her 100%. I do not think Ron cares that people are picking apart every decision he makes or whether people are going to give their blessing on every decision he makes

I hope I bolded this right. Sorry I will bold if it works. Okay now "contradiction" there for I am confused.

 

[nomoresorrow]

I can. Crystal just hired a lawyer to take Rj away from Ronald. It would be exactly what another lawyer on his side would advise him to do...proceed with prior plans to go ahead with marrying Misty. If Crystal were going to use cohabitating with Misty against him...it resolves the issue. I would say Rj is worth it and Ronald needs to do whatever he can to protect his son even if it means looking like he is doing something sinister or wrong to the outside world. He is putting his children first...again.

Eighteen years ago an attorney advised my ex-husband to do the same thing. I was single (really single, no live-ins, no sleepovers, etc...) and therefore they thought that the court might view that more favorably in contrast to a single full-time working mother. They were wrong. The court considered information that was relevant in regards to the best interest and continued well-being of my sons. The decision wasn't reached based upon appearances, it was based upon professionals long-term evaluations/opinions and reports entered - matter of fact every professional involved in the case was selected by my ex and his attorney because they made a stink and claimed that I could possibly sway (or pay - implied) the professional's opinion(s). All BS and therefore I welcomed their selections as it wouldn't change the truth and at the outcome he couldn't easily disregard his loss making this sort of bogus claim. It was based upon their school teachers evaluations/reports, employment records - in terms of work ethics/character - not who made more than the other (which was actually very close as his new wife didn't work) and it was based upon any history of
criminal or child abuse in our own backgrounds. As a single full-time working mother I won full custody of my two sons. Why wouldn't an attorney advise RC to cool it with MC for the time being instead of marrying her which, in my opinion, would convince a court/judge that he truly loved his children and wanted only what was in their best interest - the court/judge will see right through this marriage "thing" and if that is their logic in this situation, they've seriously underestimated the court/judges' judgement in matters concerning the best interest of a child. Also in this case there seems to be alot of documentation (parents criminal records, Haleighs school, medical records, CPS records...) that far outspeaks anything that either RC's family or Crystals family has to say (he said, she said, blah, blah, blah...) It's actually outdated now to advise one's client to marry to make the relationship appear in a better light to the court or to offer up and establish that there is a full-time "caretaker" in the home (wife), and a child bride at that - doesn't look good. RC should have made a choice that disproved what and who he appears to be based upon the his record (s) - what TN has to say about her son and his fathering means nothing now to a court, she has forfeited any credibility that she may have had by revealing her long-term knowledge and support of her son's relationship with a minor as well as her lack of judgement and lack of intervention in terms of Jr. and Haleigh being left in MC's care on a regular basis and for several hours at a time. (full-time)


MOO

 

[RoseRed]

Jane unless someone has a link to that and I missed it. I have no clue as the timeline of what you are asking. I'm not going to speculate, because I wouldn't want to start a rumor :angel:

thank you for that Kat. :balloons:

 

[snookie]

Last I checked, Chad wasn't within statutory rape age range. The titillation of saying "Stepbrother" makes me wonder whether the fact that they were never raised together in the same home is just unimportant for some.

Yeah, if they weren't raised together and aren't blood related there's nothing wrong with them hooking up as adults. imo

I just wanted to add too that Misty keeps saying it's what Haleigh wants ~ for them to be married. So what's the rush? Haleigh has been missing for one month and if you believe she is alive, can't the wedding wait until she returns home and can be part of it? I'm not buying Misty's reasoning at all and think it's just for show to make them look like responsible "parents" in relation to the pending custody battle Crystal is initiating. MOO

(my bold)

Well, you know how impatient little kids can be..... lil' Misty wants her Barbie dream wedding NOW!! Or maybe she's afraid if they wait until Haleigh comes home it'll steal all the attention away from her on her *big day*.

JMO

And Chad has more recent drug charges than Ronald, and abuse of a minor child.

Well, that's true.

Honestly I don't think these kids need to live with either parent.....

HE does care or doesn't? im confused?

Maybe he wants to show the world how united they are..... like the Anthonys.

 

[cuppy199]

Here's the thing that bothers me. Do you really believe RC supports the "b!t@h" the lost "his heart?"

This is what I dont understand. Some making a big deal out of something he said while he just found out his child was taking. Heck if he isnt intitled to lose it at that moment in time.I personally cant judge the man for that.

 

[MouseD]

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(bolded by me)

I agree with you completely on the part I bolded, MouseD. My negative feelings began the moment I heard the 911 call. And yes, this is a runnaway train in the bad behavior department.

JMO, and sorry, this is just the way I see it!

Have to agree there too now, from the start of this whole situation its gone down hill so bad, that 911 call threw me for a loop when I read over it. Having Misty make it ding, wrong thing right first. The bunch of calls to Ron's cell phone before calling 911 ding wrong again...it's just so unbelievable the whole case now and Ron gets mad when reporters or others ask questions now, duh Ron and Misty are causing everyone to raise concern and questions now, its just not adding up at all.

 

[Littleone48]

Custody Battle: Isn't Crystal jumping the gun too fast? Her daughter is missing and she is announcing that she wants custody? This makes about as much sense as Ron and Misty getting married so quickly. I am hoping that Ron and Crystal can come to some sort of agreement so they do not disrupt Jr's and Haleigh's normal lives. She could've done this much sooner than this but never did. Now she has a GREAT PR person and a GREAT LAWYER. I know the PR woman is doing it for free but is the lawyer also?

Everyone says follow the money...well I am following the money and it doesn't look good for Crystal.

Everyone is also saying that Misty even if she isn't involved with Haleigh missing is still responsible. What if you had a 17 year old babysitting your children and this happened? Would it still be their fault? I have talked with Player at length and he said both of them were good with those kids! Heck, wonder if it happened to you?

I think that instead of these people getting married, obtaining PR people and lawyers they should take a step back and do what's right for Haleigh. I never have trusted anyone who obtains a PR person simply because they are TOLD what to say, HOW to act, and WHAT to do. In other words, you will not see Crystal in the true form that she has been seen in. I can only hope that this PR person and lawyer tell Crystal's mom to butt out. Sorry, I just don't like the lady! I have other thoughts on her but won't post them as of yet...if you want to see someone with dollar signs just take a long hard look at her. IMO

These 2 need to grow up and handle this like adults! Leave the girlfriend out of it, leave the moms out of it. Stand together and be united for when Haleigh comes home.

Chad I have no idea what he does but I have a feeling he is on the computer very often. IMO

 

[Busylady]

Do all couples whose children are missing, when only one parent was around at the time the child goes missing feels like the other person lost their child or do they feel like someone committed a crime and the party that was with the child is a not responsible. IMO it is so wrong to say that Misty lost Haleigh, we do not know what happened. When the case is solved then we can say Misty harmed Haleigh, Misty was negligent and left the children alone, or Misty is a victim herself of a horrible crime that was committed against Haleigh.

Here's the thing that bothers me. Do you really believe RC supports the ***** the lost "his heart?"

 

[cuppy199]

Yeah, if they weren't raised together and aren't blood related there's nothing wrong with them hooking up as adults. imo

(my bold)

Well, you know how impatient little kids can be..... lil' Misty wants her Barbie dream wedding NOW!! Or maybe she's afraid if they wait until Haleigh comes home it'll steal all the attention away from her on her *big day*.

JMO

Well, that's true.

Honestly I don't think these kids need to live with either parent.....

Maybe he wants to show the world how united they are..... like the Anthonys.

Why compare this case to the A's. They are nothing alike. Unless you know something from LE I dont?

 

[CHICANA]

And Chad has more recent drug charges than Ronald, and abuse of a minor child.

I found one in Baker county for possession of cocaine. Even though the case closed 12/07 his arrest was actually 07/03/2006. Wasn't this around the same time RC was arrested ? It looks like he got a similar deal to Ron although his charge in that case wasn't as extensive as RC's.
Where are the other charges located ? Can you provide a link to the county site ?

 

[Kat]

nomoresorrow, I read your post. I do understand your opinion that a marriage isn't needed in this day and age.

However, you stated clearly in your situation that you were a single full-time working Mother (Your boys are lucky to have you btw).

Haleigh's Mother doesn't have a job. She hasn't worked in quite a while, way before Haleigh disappearing.

I don't think anyone advised RC to marry. I think he might have come up with that one on his own or from his families advice. There used to be a time not so long ago that marital status was considered, and that may or may not be why RC and Misty are going to marry this week.

I could post about the long drawn out battles for custody of my step-daughters when they were minors. Their Mother got married everytime she took us to court for custody. She is now on her 6th husband. O/T but that was back in the early to mid 90's. So not so long ago.

 

[Shaymus at The Rock]

Cant say I blame him. I wouldn't care either with all the mud being thrown around.

But see, IMO, he has to care. He needs the public to keep looking for Haleigh. The public perception is fickle - if they don't think he's sincere, they may lose interest. Fair, or unfair, he needs to be careful about he says and/or does. He needs advice and he needs to follow it. I never thought I would say this, but I wish they had both had gotten professionals to help them through this.

 

[Littleone48]

Yeah, if they weren't raised together and aren't blood related there's nothing wrong with them hooking up as adults. imo

(my bold)

Well, you know how impatient little kids can be..... lil' Misty wants her Barbie dream wedding NOW!! Or maybe she's afraid if they wait until Haleigh comes home it'll steal all the attention away from her on her *big day*.

JMO

Well, that's true.

Honestly I don't think these kids need to live with either parent.....

Maybe he wants to show the world how united they are..... like the Anthonys.

I have posted this over and over again..I just wish people would stop comparing this case with that other one. It is a totally different case, totally different people. It's unfair to Haleigh. IMO

Actually people keep blaming the wedding on Misty however it was RON that asked her, not the other way around. She has adults around her, they are the ones that should've, could've said NO.

I agree that the courts need to take a look at both parents. I really think they are a few fries short in their happy meal...

 

[gypsyblue]

Why compare this case to the A's. They are nothing alike. Unless you know something from LE I dont?

thats all we do know is all of the things Misty says happened that night,if you know more from LE that I dont I would love to know how you have cleared Misty in your mind, if you have. I would love to get past the point of thinking Misty is my POI. JMOO TYIA

 

[nomoresorrow]

Yeah, if they weren't raised together and aren't blood related there's nothing wrong with them hooking up as adults. imo

(my bold)

Well, you know how impatient little kids can be..... lil' Misty wants her Barbie dream wedding NOW!! Or maybe she's afraid if they wait until Haleigh comes home it'll steal all the attention away from her on her *big day*.

JMO

Well, that's true.
(My Bold)
Honestly I don't think these kids need to live with either parent.....

Maybe he wants to show the world how united they are..... like the Anthonys.

Couldn't agree more but unfortunately it's unlikely - seems to me both RC & CS are questionable parents and personally I don't see a great deal of difference between either in terms of their parenting skills...I think that the court will give joint custody - not sure yet on residency issue yet - depends on what/if evidence comes out that points toward RC and/or MC's guilt or involvement in Haleigh's disappearance - if it turns out that they're not involved, both RC and CS will be closely supervised by DCF. MOO

 

[Littleone48]

Actually, she keeps saying "it's what Haleigh wanted."

Maybe she forgot to read the book on how to speak well when you are under the spotlight. Really, if this ever happened to me I would be hung on a cross because I have a habit of making grammer errors...

 

[Kat]

Misty hasn't been named a POI, in fact, LE has not named any POI's. Nor have they named any suspects. They haven't cleared anyone either.

IMHO Strange Strange situation if you ask me.

Just clarifying.