@Zapoleon , I’m not sure “it’s clearly better for Ukraine to try and hold out for the best possible peace deal..”
As much as we would all like for Ukraine to get Crimea and Donbas back, who and how do you think that can possibly be achieved?
That is the crux of the current disagreement with the US (and the EU, really - though both sides have been careful with PR). Everybody agrees how wrong and evil Russia and Putin are. No one is disputing the crimes they have committed. This was and is a horror. It’s precisely what all those leaders said it was back in 2022 - when they did nothing but talk and virtue signal. It’s easy to “strongly condemn”. It’s easy to say: “they will be held accountable”.
But the US is not going to start a war with Russia in order to recover Crimea and Donbas for Ukraine. And although the UK and France and EU talks big, neither are they.
Not only are UK, France, EU and NATO forces too weak, but nobody in UK, France, EU, NATO, or US has the appetite for WW III or a long drawn out conflict (called a peace keeping effort) like the US was involved in in Korea and Vietnam and Afghanistan. It’s completely unrealistic. Everybody is vilifying the US for not doing something they themselves aren’t willing to do.
It’s fine for Zelensky to demand a genuine guaranteed security or a genuine guaranteed security backstop all he wants. The fact is that no such thing presently even exists.
If it ever existed it was ten, and then three years ago when Biden, the US, the UK, France, the EU, and many other nations refused to act.
Jmo