SC - Heather Elvis, 20, Myrtle Beach, 18 Dec 2013 - #12

[paris_paris]

She mentioned seeing this man at TK, where he was doing outside contract work and seemingly became infatuated, per her twitter. I think TE is a good twenty years older than OM, JMO.

He is 5 years older.

 

[cluciano63]

I cannot figure out the timeline for this ex she supposedly lived with before BW. Either it was not a long relationship, or she did not care if he saw the sorts of things she posted about OM on her twitter, for all to see. Very confusing. Was she with the ex when she was also with OM? I also felt like the whole "date" with SS was a night out to dinner with a friend, and only became a "first date" when she was missing, with all the romance implied thereof, but JMO

 

[cluciano63]

He is 5 years older.

Doesn't TE have a son who is thirty? How could be be about 42 if so? Or am I wrong?

 

[Andi Claire]

Is anyone else puzzled by TE not acknowledging that he knows Garrett Starnes ? I could believe that if Garrett was just someone who showed up to search or pick up flyers. But GS was a big poster/commenter on the FHE. He was very involved with organizing searches. It was obvious to anyone reading on the FHE that BB and GS were working together , not only on organzing searches , etc.. But also with the " DR" fake persona. I find it hard to believe that TE was not aware of , and wasn't asked for his approval on the " DR" persona. Espeacially, since TE commented on several of the " DR" posts and did not delete them.
I could buy into TE stating something like " I understand Garret is a friend of Bill's and has been helping Bill organize searches but I don't really know him that well " But I find TE not acknowledging that he knows or knows of Garrett, a bit puzzling .

Am I the only person confused by this ?

I commented on this very thing yesterday afternoon ~ I found it very interesting as well!

 

[paris_paris]

Doesn't TE have a son who is thirty? How could be be about 42 if so? Or am I wrong?

You know, I never actually did the math on that. That age is another piece of incorrect info on the PR. I stand corrected.

 

[Topcat]

I don't want to misled anyone about my intent.
I wasn't insinuating anything by my question. As quite an introvert myself, I do understand the many reasons that she would keep behind the scenes. I express myself much better in type than vocally. And I understand that not everyone is going to hold it together.

However, I do stand by my statement, which thankfully was quickly and simply answered =) . I, personally, find it odd that we have not heard anything from HE's mother either in by appearance or through someone else; ie a statement from the mother, a plea for help, a "mother to mother" request, etc. Tension in the family could easily open the possibilities for other avenues to be looked into. It would give the possibility of another location she may have visited, another party that may have had contact, a parents current or ex-significant other, etc.

I did not see it mentioned in the past 4 threads or so and wanted to clear that up.:twocents:

"daughter like mother.....literally"

 

[Snowyowl]

She mentioned seeing this man at TK, where he was doing outside contract work and seemingly became infatuated, per her twitter. I think TE is a good twenty years older than OM, JMO.

except in the PR (don't know if good or bad one I read) it lists his DOB (date of birth) and both ages are within 3 years apart.(OM & TE)

 

[hockeymom4]

Maybe the date SS had been patiently biding his time on the sidelines. I don't know how long she'd been dating her ex,but it would seem very gentlemanly of date to wait a month to ask her out from a supposed breakup. If they were both long time friends of Heather maybe SS might have also been aware of ex's supposed violence or anything else going on (OM,etc).
Quite often you also try to give the breakup some time cuz many break up and then get back together again. :moo:

HE had just reconnected with him, per the date, and only began speaking a few weeks before the date. But, that doesn't mean this isn't possible. Anything is possible. I just don't understand the timeline of when she was seeing OM and other ex.

http://www.myhorrynews.com/news/local/aynor/article_e27b8722-81fa-11e3-a440-001a4bcf6878.html

 

[lovinlife83]

I know there are others, but these all include DE
http://www.wbtw.com/story/24523501/harmful-effects-of-social-media-on-heather-elvis-case
Debbi Elvis, Heather Elvis' mom, says that Facebook has been invaluable for her and her family in helping to find her daughter.

"I think social media is solely responsible for getting the information out as fast as we did," she said.

The case has gotten a lot of attention, even nationally, but Elvis says that is not always helpful.

"The knowledge, nationwide, of this case has caused some negative things to be out there," said Elvis.

Elvis says because anyone is able to post online or even create their own websites, a lot of misinformation has gotten to the public.

"If you see a lot of random facts and speculations, that's a red flag that you might not want to take that as truth because it is social media and it is people behind that social media," said Elvis. "When you have people you always have good and bad," she added.

Elvis says to only use the official find Heather Elvis Facebook page or the Horry County Police Department's websites.

She says that only using these sites helps to centralize information as well as weed out any rumors or speculation.
http://www.thestate.com/2014/01/23/3...#storylink=cpy
“There are still tips we’re waiting to come in,” Debbi Elvis said. “There’s still information we don’t have from people that might have been with or her seen her even two weeks prior to her missing waiting for the tip that is going to break this case.”

She does a one on one interview about 1:45 into this video
http://www.nbcnews.com/id/3032600/vp/54206699#54206699

Nancy Grace Jan. 6th
http://www.hlntv.com/video/2014/01/06/elvis-heather-missing-date-myrtle-beach-parents-speak

GMA - She doesn't say anything but you can read her face
http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/video/woman-returns-home-date-vanishes-trace-21498394

 

[cluciano63]

except in the PR (don't know if good or bad one I read) it lists his DOB (date of birth) and both ages are within 3 years apart.(OM & TE)

Well, it has to be wrong, if his son is thirty...jmo

 

[Aeronomy]

"daughter like mother.....literally"

And that really bothers me. It can mean nothing much, leaving it silly to blow it out of proportion, but it also can speak volumes...and that's what bothers me.

 

[Snowyowl]

I wonder if a search was made at Heathers OLD place? In reading threads it mentioned Heather lived at another place for 2 or 3 years and THEN moved into this place Dec 4 or 5?
Maybe wherever she used to live had a neighbor/etc who might have been obsessed w/seeing her and then Heather moves out? Maybe this causes a person to start following her? Maybe TE didn't know about NEW place till later?
I wonder if the OLD place has been searched?:moo:

 

[Aeronomy]

<snipped>

Elvis says to only use the official find Heather Elvis Facebook page or the Horry County Police Department's websites.

She says that only using these sites helps to centralize information as well as weed out any rumors or speculation.
<snipped>

bolded by me

OY!:facepalm:

 

[lovinlife83]

Doesn't TE have a son who is thirty? How could be be about 42 if so? Or am I wrong?

PR is wrong, he is actually 54 years old.
His son is 30
I watched her grow, along with my 30-year-old son and my 16-year-old daughter, from helpless babies that depend on us for everything into dependable young adults who are educated and able to face the world on their own two feet with confidence. All the while, as a father, I have never stopped watching over them with the instinct to protect and provide for them.
http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/heather-elvis-disappearance-terry-elvis

 

[lovinlife83]

I wonder if a search was made at Heathers OLD place? In reading threads it mentioned Heather lived at another place for 2 or 3 years and THEN moved into this place Dec 4 or 5?
Maybe wherever she used to live had a neighbor/etc who might have been obsessed w/seeing her and then Heather moves out? Maybe this causes a person to start following her? Maybe TE didn't know about NEW place till later?
I wonder if the OLD place has been searched?:moo:

I wish we knew the location of the exbf. His name was in the un-redacted PR and the address had a question mark. When I researched Heather, I could only find her parents address and the new apartment. We aren't allowed to research him per WS I believe

 

[ZooSleuth]

That crime feed link above doesn't work, IMO that is the ORIGINAL version of the crime feed story we all have been trying to reference about driving the car home with gloves on. This was in our media thread - thank you Kimi for this!

Working link: http://crimefeed.com/2014/01/heather-elvis-missing-pt-2-crime-feeds-interview-father-terry-elvis/

It was just copy pasted wrong.

 

[Thorn]

I wish we knew the location of the exbf. His name was in the un-redacted PR and the address had a question mark. When I researched Heather, I could only find her parents address and the new apartment. We aren't allowed to research him per WS I believe

FWIW. We can research anyone and everyone with ties to HE, what is restricted by WS is posting it to the thread. HTH. :seeya:

 

[WideOpen]

I wonder if a search was made at Heathers OLD place? In reading threads it mentioned Heather lived at another place for 2 or 3 years and THEN moved into this place Dec 4 or 5?
Maybe wherever she used to live had a neighbor/etc who might have been obsessed w/seeing her and then Heather moves out? Maybe this causes a person to start following her? Maybe TE didn't know about NEW place till later?
I wonder if the OLD place has been searched?:moo:

GREAT NEW THOUGHTS!
Thank you~there could be a million directions this case could take if LE could clear OM. I am keeping my mind open to any and all possible situations. There is not enough evidence released to sway me towards the OM circus.
Lets find Heather!

JMO

 

[lovinlife83]

Working link: http://crimefeed.com/2014/01/heather-elvis-missing-pt-2-crime-feeds-interview-father-terry-elvis/

It was just copy pasted wrong.

Thank You! Luckily that fact (BW and HE friends for 2-3 years) is still in this revised version, but the previous link is the ORIGINAL that we all have been looking for that was revised to delete certain facts.

 

[floridamomma]

I have been crazy busy today. Sad to come home to only a handful of pages for Heather.

*sigh*