SC SC - Johnny Lamar Brown, 44, Myrtle Beach, 3 Aug 2012 - #1

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wish i could do more...will try to find more outlets to send emails to later this evening

Sorta O/T It only takes a moment to say something, to notice something....out of sorts. You just have to weigh your response.
I heard a guy talking oh so ugly to his wife at the store one day...I know it was wife, as he made a nasty remark about it. I heard him stomp off, so stuck my head a round the corner and quietly said, hey, are you okay? She kinda shook her head yeah, and I said sweetie, please, you DO NO have to take that...please think seriously about what is going on...try calling _____. She said , yeah... you know you are right, I should.
I sure hope she did.
At least some kindness may make a difference.
 
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I wonder how much comprehension Johnny has. I mean, does he understand that he NEEDS to drink water and eat something? Would he be able to figure out how to access some food or drink? Would he be able to find some shelter for the night?

I just hope some nice soul somewhere is helping him.
 
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I'm trying to think like a ten year old. The family's hotel was fairly close to the amusement park. He wouldn't have money to buy a ticket but I wonder if he might stand around and watch the rides?

He sounds like he might have some characteristics like those with autism. Is there something that he is obsessed with or likes a lot that he might be attracted to?

There are lots of tourist attractions in Myrtle Beach. Did the family go to any that Johnny seemed to especially enjoy?

Considering, these are great questions. Maybe it would be good if we could compile a list of questions that might help if we had the answers to from the family. Then when MissJames or I speak with his sister again, we can get these answered. I'll begin working on some flyers tonight, and if his family thinks it's a good idea, we can start putting out some here in Cartersville, just in case he has worked his way back to this area. Does that sound okay?
 
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Does anyone know if schools have started back there?

Truckers- does anyone recall some trucker group that can be contacted, that has an interest in the missing?

multi tasking, be back

questions for family- What are his favorite 'fast' foods?
Is he afraid of the dark? Would he tend to stay in lit areas?

ps, my 'family' up there I contacted- idjits, every last one of them
 
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Checking often to see if Johnny has been found....praying for him!
 
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Just want to add the family thought that would be important info ,not just in keeping Johnny calm,but also a confirmation that it IS Johnny.

But this is why we need the professionals in SAR . Maybe it's the wrong thing to do.

My gut feeling is that it is the right thing to do. Hopefully, there are more good people out there that will help that bad ones looking to hurt someone. Also, since Johnny is probably scared right now, it will help him to trust those wanting to help. But who knows? I really am wondering why MB LE doesn't want Tim M. involved at this time. Seems to me he needs to get involved asap. Later may be too late. :waitasec::waitasec:
 
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Is apathy sinister :waitasec:

I'm sorry y'all .I'm in a cruddy mood . I see my own son's future in Johnny . One day he'll be a black man that acts odd and can't communicate well.

I'm ticked off in general that we didn't hear about this on Aug .4th . Now I shall go cool off and get back to work on this.

I've never been more proud to be a Websleuther ! You guys are the best!

Me too, MissJames. One thing we at WS are NOT is apathetic! I have asked my teen grandchildren questions they can think of that might help to know from the family. I also asked if they would help put out flyers tomorrow. They are just ignoring me, grunting. I am interrupting there TV shows! I just gave them the lecture of their lives!. I need ink for my printer to print flyers. 2 of my teens rushed out to Walmart to get it. Maybe the listened to me. Or maybe they just didn't want to hear another rant from me. Thanks everyone for all your help and concern. We definitely are a family here at WS.
 
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Updated info on Johnny :
He is developmentally disabled with a severe speech impediment . He understands and he can write .He will tell people he's from Cartersville (GA,but he doesn't say that.)

Johnny got in a taxi ,but the driver couldn't understand him. The police came and some how came up with the name of the hotel the family was staying at (maybe the taxi driver mentioned it?) .
The police called the hotel and asked if he worked there and they said no. This was before they knew a guest was missing.
The police drove Johnny to Horry County (Surfside?) and left him there !!!! This happened on Aug. 3.
The next day he went to a BBQ restaurant in Surfside trying to get help. They couldn't understand him and he left.This was around 1-2 pm on August 4.
Someone thinks they saw him standing in front of a drive thru menu at a McDonalds in Surfside ,on August 13.
He is afraid of people he doesn't know but calls his mom Ruby Pops .He can write Cartersville.
With the right help and publicity I'm sure we can bring Johnny home to his family.
They had to go back to GA yesterday ,but hope to return soon.Let's pray Johnny is found and they will be picking him up soon.
He has a black dog that he loves,who is at home waiting for his person to come home.

Wherever Johnny is ,he's scared.He's lived with his parents his entire life and has never been away from them.
MissJames, This has good info so I am bumping it up, in case some of the newer posters here don't have it. Thanks for the info.
 
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I gave out some flyers to people I saw working outside .Landscapers and city workers ,road crews who might see him walking.

Billboards would be a huge help . OLG,could you take down some numbers on available billboards and pm them to me tomorrow?

Ok, I will look for numbers. In the mean time, my husband (He works on hwy 501) said they are all pretty much owned by http://nextmediamb.com/. But I will still look to be sure.
 
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MissJames, This has good info so I am bumping it up, is case some of the newer posters here don't have it. Thanks for the info.

Oh man, so what bbq restaurant? What MCDonalds? Is that where flyers should go?
 
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this was posted yesterday but not sure if anyone put it here:

Johnny will often say that he needs to get back to the Waffle House and the McDonalds, this is in reference to his home in Georgia.

He has been spotted several times along the Grand Strand, including the Conway, Surfside Beach, and Murrells Inlet areas.

Police say the biggest obstacle hasn't been Johnny's inability to communicate, but with how late tips are arriving in to police.

"Biggest challenge we've faced is people have delayed calling us. We've gotten information two to four days old, which has really hindered us," says DiLorenzo. "So we do urge, if you do see him, call us immediately, even if you think it's him, might be him."

DiLorenzo says Johnny is afraid of the police, so if you see him and ask him if you should call the police for him, he may say no.

If you see him, call police or 911 immediately. Then DiLorenzo asks you to keep him in sight until the police arrive.

Johnny is in the National Database for missing people, so anywhere you are if you call your local police station or 911, they can find Johnny's case number.
http://www.carolinalive.com/sports/story.aspx?id=791836#.UDbT-459GXw
 
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this was posted yesterday but not sure if anyone put it here:

http://www.carolinalive.com/sports/story.aspx?id=791836#.UDbT-459GXw

I did late last night .I thought it was really good to describe some of Johnny's phrases . It's more than just a picture .
I can so relate because my son has certain phrases that mean one thing to us and something different to him.
He takes his shirt off and says"you're welcome" to let us know he wants to go swimming. He also will randomly say phrases from videos he enjoys like "bust my bubbles!" Honestly,we don't always understand him or know what he wants and he's almost 11 (how is that possible? )

Johnny sounds very similar in mannerisms ,although he is higher functioning that my kiddo.

I just hope someone sees it ,then sees Johnny. Then I want to meet him !!
 
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I just had a thought . The movie "Radio" is one of my favorite movies. It stars Cuba Gooding ,Jr. and is a true story about a dev.disabled young man in upstate ,SC.

The real Radio and his mentor ,a high school coach are still around,as far as I know.
I wonder if any of them would help bring some publicity to this case.

If you've never watched Radio ,do it. I swear Cuba Gooding ,Jr. was amazing !

Okay,who wants to find conatct info for Cuba Gooding ,Jr? Am I losing my marbles?
 
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I just had a thought . The movie "Radio" is one of my favorite movies. It stars Cuba Gooding ,Jr. and is a true story about a dev.disabled young man in upstate ,SC.

The real Radio and his mentor ,a high school coach are still around,as far as I know.
I wonder if any of them would help bring some publicity to this case.

If you've never watched Radio ,do it. I swear Cuba Gooding ,Jr. was amazing !

Okay,who wants to find conatct info for Cuba Gooding ,Jr? Am I losing my marbles?
no! That is an awesome idea and I loved that movie as well (my nephew has autism)
 
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scratch that... wrong one.. brb
 
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Is apathy sinister :waitasec:

I'm sorry y'all .I'm in a cruddy mood . I see my own son's future in Johnny . One day he'll be a black man that acts odd and can't communicate well.

I'm ticked off in general that we didn't hear about this on Aug .4th . Now I shall go cool off and get back to work on this.

I've never been more proud to be a Websleuther ! You guys are the best!

Youre a good Mama,Miss James.
 
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Sreshowtime, school started for students on Wednesday in Horry County.

MissJames, thank you for working so hard to find Johnny. You are my hero. :hero:
 
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I wonder how much comprehension Johnny has. I mean, does he understand that he NEEDS to drink water and eat something? Would he be able to figure out how to access some food or drink? Would he be able to find some shelter for the night?

I just hope some nice soul somewhere is helping him.

Yes,but Johnny's never ever been on his own ,from what I'm told. He can write some things and understand some things. I know that sounds vague.

Sorry I keep talking about my child ,,but it's the only way I know how to describe developmental disability so bear with me:

My son isn't on any particular age level.He is all over the board
.Nothing ,and I mean nothing ,came naturally to him.Every word he says that is appropriate is because he was TRAINED to say it and each one took years .

He answers any who ,what where question with "yeah".
He knows what certain things mean like school,car,music,etc.. Mostly things he likes and often accompanied by sign language.

Every year we have to retrain him to answer "how old are you" .Just when he starts to get it right he has another birthday! He doesn't understand the concept of age but he can be taught to answer the question.
If you ask" are you six" he will answer "yeah" : )

Now this is important .My son knows routines and any deviation from them upset him terribly .There's no way to explain that you just have to make a quick stop to get milk .He just knows we aren't doing what we are supposed to.I try not to go to that ugly place.

I think that's what happened to Johnny.
He had routines at home and the trip was such a deviation ,he left to go back to where he knew what was coming next ...home.
What comes next is really important to those who have limited understanding.It's the only way they feel really safe.

My son cannot write or color in lines,but he is being trained to. It's not fun or natural to him but if he can write his name and where he lives,like Johnny can,it could be important one day.

He can ride a bike with training wheels ,but he still wants to sit down to go down stairs.

He can get to his videos on his IPad and make the sound go slow or fast .He figured that out on his own,but he doesn't always understand what "shut the door " means.

I bet Johnny understands more than he can verbalize. My son can verbalize more than he can understand.

At an IEP meeting I was asked how many words he knew and I answered about 30. private speech therapist came later and I asked her what she thought and she said 500.
The difference is,my son can say the word when shown an object on a flash card ,but he doesn't know how to translate that over to real life situations.

You can't pigeon hole these guys into any age level . Some skills are better than others.
My gut tells me someone must be helping Johnny and just doesn't realize he's a missing person.
I pray he's safe.
 
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