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Moving from one home to another can take a toll on a child's mental health
When she disappeared, 9-year-old Serenity Dennard was being cared for at the Black Hills Children Home, an organization that provides help for children with emotional or behavioral problems. Experts say that children need support and attention from the adults in their life, in order to feel safe. For children in foster care, or in an orphanage, it can be difficult to get the attention they need and learn to trust.
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Children begin to attach to their parents at a young age. If they are neglected, or aren't able to bond, they can develop behavioral issues. Children will try to control whatever they can which can make it difficult to adjust to a new home.
"Then kids start to go, 'Ok I was starting to connect over here, now you're moving me again. Do I really want to keep connecting to people and getting hurt?' and things like that. So that's the hard part for moving all the time," says Tammy Arens-Beauchemp, clinical supervisor at Behavior Management Systems.
At Behavior Management Systems, children can go through attachment therapy to help them and their adoption or foster family adjust. The foster care system provides other resources as well.
"When you're in the foster system they have meetings and you can get together, support groups and things like that. And it's your option and your prerogative as to what you want and what fits your family," says Monae Johnson, Vivian's adoptive mother.
"The hard part is it's not a quick fix. It's not well ok let's see you six sessions. It's really a process," says Arens-Beauchemp.
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When she disappeared, 9-year-old Serenity Dennard was being cared for at the Black Hills Children Home, an organization that provides help for children with emotional or behavioral problems. Experts say that children need support and attention from the adults in their life, in order to feel safe. For children in foster care, or in an orphanage, it can be difficult to get the attention they need and learn to trust.
[...]
Children begin to attach to their parents at a young age. If they are neglected, or aren't able to bond, they can develop behavioral issues. Children will try to control whatever they can which can make it difficult to adjust to a new home.
"Then kids start to go, 'Ok I was starting to connect over here, now you're moving me again. Do I really want to keep connecting to people and getting hurt?' and things like that. So that's the hard part for moving all the time," says Tammy Arens-Beauchemp, clinical supervisor at Behavior Management Systems.
At Behavior Management Systems, children can go through attachment therapy to help them and their adoption or foster family adjust. The foster care system provides other resources as well.
"When you're in the foster system they have meetings and you can get together, support groups and things like that. And it's your option and your prerogative as to what you want and what fits your family," says Monae Johnson, Vivian's adoptive mother.
"The hard part is it's not a quick fix. It's not well ok let's see you six sessions. It's really a process," says Arens-Beauchemp.
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