Seeing that mention of passport in



's journal made me revisit how big a role being denied her right to Cancun might have played.
1.



left Mesa, blowing things up both literally and figuratively, on April 4.
2. TA found out on April 15 that he had "won" the all expenses paid trip for 2 to Cancun. No way the



didn't see that news for herself, on her own.
3.



had vanquished Lisa by the time she left Mesa, and didn't consider Mimi a threat because she'd snooped his journal (at least) and knew things weren't going well, and that Mimi just didn't seem all that interested (



wrote journal entries about this).
4. For a while past April 15 she probably thought TA would ask her again/ confirm that she was going, as planned.
Up through the end of April the



played hard at devout Mormon in exile in Yreka, and tried -for her- to play nice with TA, though her hostility oozed through upon occasion.
5. Chris and Sky made TA the $2000 debt write off in exchange for his guest ticket offer on April 17. He was considering asking Mimi at that point, but hadn't worked up the nerve.
6. Mimi began sounding more approachable and interested by the 3rd week of April, enough that she posted something complementary about TA on her FB page. That



almost certainly was monitoring.
7. Mimi agreed to go to Cancun on May 1, iirc, the starting date of the



's rapid unravelling, and her expedited efforts to record and manufacture " evidence" of TA's interest in her, the goddess



.
And, within days of Mimi accepting, came the beginning of the



's pressure on TA to come visit her in Yreka. (Whether to kill him there, or she was simply demanding that he prove to her satisfaction that he still wanted to travel with HER, or for some other BPD sociopathic reason, impossible to know).
If (a big if) the May 10 call was recorded (spliced) on the 10th, TA had already told her she wasn't going to Cancun. I'm gonna guess he told her in late April or early early May, when she demanded to know, in that special way of hers.
I also wouldn't be surprised if he either flat out lied to her (Mimi hadn't agreed to go yet), or simply neglected to tell her that he was going to ask Mimi. I believe he did tell her he was taking the Hughes's babysitter, because that would have been the only sane thing to tell the



(other than a final and absolute and real good bye and good riddance).
8. I don't think (from her POV) her rage was about "just" being deprived of the trip TA had promised her and that he wouldn't have won without her.
I think the



felt she'd EARNED it in every way imaginable, whether or not they were still "official" or even "boyfriend-girlfriend" at all.
And I can imagine it must have been all the more galling, from her POV, that TA would squander the trip on a woman who wasn't even interested in him, who hadn't even deigned to kiss him, much less dress up like a





for him. As the



said repeatedly, and with ill-concealed satisfied sarcasm, Mimi the One was just a unobtainable dream of TA's, Mimi being so vastly superior spiritually and intellectually and all.
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How beyond pissed she must have been to find out, before or after the fact, no matter, that Travis tried to take Mimi's name off the ticket in late May, and that he told Regan he wished she had a passport so she could go.
Twas definitely a case of...anyone BUT the



.