Should Jaycee's Bio Dad Be Allowed to Have a DNA Testing Done?

[kbl8201]

I'm not talking about that very first interview where they caught him working on his car in his front yard or something. I wouldn't expect anyone to be perfectly composed or caught up on the details of something if they were suddenly approached about it in their yard one day. There wasn't even that much detail in that interview, just his reaction to the crime. I'm talking mainly about that press conference and the radio interview with Kennedy and Suits. There are instances of him, and even Allred herself, answering things differently or saying one thing and then when pressed further (by Kennedy, for instance) saying pretty much the exact opposite of what they had just said.

politicians in the making?

 

[Tizzle]

I'm not talking about that very first interview where they caught him working on his car in his front yard or something. I wouldn't expect anyone to be perfectly composed or caught up on the details of something if they were suddenly approached about it in their yard one day. There wasn't even that much detail in that interview, just his reaction to the crime. I'm talking mainly about that press conference and the radio interview with Kennedy and Suits. There are instances of him, and even Allred herself, answering things differently or saying one thing and then when pressed further (by Kennedy, for instance) saying pretty much the exact opposite of what they had just said.

I've listened to both the interview and press conference many times and just listened again. I still didn't hear any contradictions. I did hear him say that it STARTED out as a weekend fling at Lake Havasu and continued for about a month after they returned to Anaheim. But that's not a contradiction. Could you give me an example of one of these contradictions? Because I must still be missing them. Thank you.

 

[JBean]

I've listened to both the interview and press conference many times and just listened again. I still didn't hear any contradictions. I did hear him say that it STARTED out as a weekend fling at Lake Havasu and continued for about a month after they returned to Anaheim. But that's not a contradiction. Could you give me an example of one of these contradictions? Because I must still be missing them. Thank you.

I think the odd thing I heard was when he was asked if he sought Jaycee out, he said "I didn't even know she existed". Then Kennedy pointed that out as inconsistent with his press conference.He responded without skipping a beat and went on to tell of trying to contact Terry to see the child. It was strange. That and the "out of sight out of mind" comment are really the only 2 things about the interview that were off. beyond that he sounded very sincere.

 

[Tizzle]

I agree, Jelly. Those statements stuck out to me, as well. However, I've pondered over them and listened to them repeatedly and don't feel that he was being dishonest when he made them.
When he said "..out of sight, out of mind, SORRY.", the tone in his voice said, to me, that while he wasn't proud of himself for adopting this mindset it was in the past and can't be changed now. All that matters is now and I believe that he has been sincere in his desires to make right, all the wrong he has done.
When he said, "I didn't know she existed." I think he was just incorrect in his choice of words for summing up the situation in one sentence. He knew she existed, we learned that in the press conference that took place the day before the Kennedy and Suits interview. He seems to be nervous about public speaking, as many are, and the result of that can, many times, be as simple as making a poor choice in words to express one's feelings. That doesn't make him contradictory, it actually makes him human. JMO

Sorry again for not letting this go. LOL. I just feel drawn to this aspect of this story, for some reason. My intentions are to be objective and not argumentative, honestly. My hopes are for any happy ending that can possibly be given to JC and family. :angel:

 

[kbl8201]

I agree, Jelly. Those statements stuck out to me, as well. However, I've pondered over them and listened to them repeatedly and don't feel that he was being dishonest when he made them.
When he said "..out of sight, out of mind, SORRY.", the tone in his voice said, to me, that while he wasn't proud of himself for adopting this mindset it was in the past and can't be changed now. All that matters is now and I believe that he has been sincere in his desires to make right, all the wrong he has done.
When he said, "I didn't know she existed." I think he was just incorrect in his choice of words for summing up the situation in one sentence. He knew she existed, we learned that in the press conference that took place the day before the Kennedy and Suits interview. He seems to be nervous about public speaking, as many are, and the result of that can, many times, be as simple as making a poor choice in words to express one's feelings. That doesn't make him contradictory, it actually makes him human. JMO

Sorry again for not letting this go. LOL. I just feel drawn to this aspect of this story, for some reason. My intentions are to be objective and not argumentative, honestly. My hopes are for any happy ending that can possibly be given to JC and family. :angel:

a happy ending for jaycee and her family is what i want more then anything too......if that includes bio dad in the package, i wont be mad. :woohoo:

 

[LillyRush]

I've listened to both the interview and press conference many times and just listened again. I still didn't hear any contradictions. I did hear him say that it STARTED out as a weekend fling at Lake Havasu and continued for about a month after they returned to Anaheim. But that's not a contradiction. Could you give me an example of one of these contradictions? Because I must still be missing them. Thank you.

All of the things that JBean mentioned above and also the thing about having a mutual friend which conflicts again with his comment about whether he knew she existed. Pretty much everything he said after Kennedy questioned him on the "I didn't know she existed" comment because when confronted he then backtracked and went into all these examples that prove that he actually did know she existed. I think that he would like for people to think he didn't know she existed, since that would make his absence seem less intentional or hurtful. Maybe that has been his standard line, what he's told many people this whole time. But, at this point, he has given enough accounts to the media that an interviewer can now go back and point out..hey, wait, I read this or you said that.

 

[kbl8201]

All of the things that JBean mentioned above and also the thing about having a mutual friend which conflicts again with his comment about whether he knew she existed. Pretty much everything he said after Kennedy questioned him on the "I didn't know she existed" comment because when confronted he then backtracked and went into all these examples that prove that he actually did know she existed. I think that he would like for people to think he didn't know she existed, since that would make his absence seem less intentional or hurtful. Maybe that has been his standard line, what he's told many people this whole time. But, at this point, he has given enough accounts to the media that an interviewer can now go back and point out..hey, wait, I read this or you said that.

im more worried about his honesty for the present and the future right now then from 30 years ago.