Should Jaycee's Bio Dad Be Allowed to Have a DNA Testing Done?

[Imbackon]

I'm sorry, I misspoke. I don't know nor have I read or heard anywhere that Terry held Ken back from making contact. I also didn't mean to imply that Terry moved away with Jaycee. I was referring to my own experience in that regard. However, Mr. Slayton says he lost touch with her after she called and told him she was pregnant. He says that he tried to call her a few times at her parents Anaheim address but the number had been disconnected. It's in the Kennedy and Suits interview.



Hmmmmmm



Really? I wonder why his mom admitted wrongdoing then?

Imbackon, I'm sorry that you don't believe me, not my worry. I didn't question you about your experience with a deadbeat dad, it's rather unnecessary to do that to me. I wasn't TOLD that story, I was a PART of that story for better than 2/3 of my life. Just because my views don't align with yours, does not give you the right to question MY OWN experiences. That's unfair. Listen to the Kennedy and Suits interview. It's a good listen.

If his mother admitted to this, then I am sorry for your ex that his mom did this.

 

[Tizzle]

I was trying to clarify that Slayton is the one that left town.

IMO neither one of them tried to get hold of the other. He left town tried to call a couple times and gave up. Doesn't demonstrate much motivation imo.
She didn't contact him and I am guessing she wasn't intersted in having a relationship with him. I haven't heard they fought about it or there was any disagreement on the matter.
Why they didn't want to contact each other is unknown.
Seems like it was mutually benefical at the time.jmho of course.

BBM
I'm not saying he was father of the year back then. No way. I'm not saying what they were thinking or that they fought about anything, either. I agree that no one knows what the details are. Terry was, by all accounts, a wonderful single mom IMO. I only take issue with them withholding information from Jaycee, if that were the case, and with them not even responding to his inquiries, which seemed to be the case since that is what they stated. That's all.

 

[JBean]

I'm not saying he was father of the year back then. No way. I'm not saying what they were thinking or that they fought about anything, either. I agree that no one knows what the details are. Terry was, by all accounts, a wonderful single mom. I only take issue with them withholding information from Jaycee, if that is the case, and with them not even responding to his inquiries, which seems to be the case since that is what they stated. That's all.

As I say, we have no idea if they have told her or not. I assume they have and maybe she just isn't interested right now. jmho.
As far as responding, they probably are not prepared to do that right now, since they are being incredibly private and Slayton is being incredibly public.

 

[Tizzle]

As I say, we have no idea if they have told her or not. I assume they have and maybe she just isn't interested right now. jmho.
As far as responding, they probably are not prepared to do that right now, since they are being incredibly private and Slayton is being incredibly public.

He hasn't been public for a week, though. I think contact has already been made to some extent. Glo wouldn't be quiet this long if she weren't getting her way, cmon. :dance: Gotta love her moxy!

 

[JBean]

He hasn't been public for a week, though. I think contact has already been made to some extent. Glo wouldn't be quiet this long if she weren't getting her way, cmon. :dance: Gotta love her moxy!

well actually I do not love her moxy and she makes me nuts.

If you think contact has been made, then why do you keep assuming he is being kept a secret?

 

[Tizzle]

well actually I do not love her moxy and she makes me nuts.

If you think contact has been made, then why do you keep assuming he is being kept a secret?

I was speaking in past tense and giving my opinion in response to other posts about why he went public in the first place. I posted way back that I thought contact had been made.

 

[JBean]

I was speaking in past tense and responding to other posters questions of me. I posted way back that I thought contact had been made.

Oh I am sorry. So you do not think he is being kept a secret anymore?
What I am understanding you to say is that if Glo wasn't getting what she wanted we would hear about it. Since we haven't heard about it, she must be getting what she wants and that is contact. Is that right? I am trying to understand your position.

 

[Natal]

He hasn't been public for a week, though. I think contact has already been made to some extent. Glo wouldn't be quiet this long if she weren't getting her way, cmon. :dance: Gotta love her moxy!

GA would have contacted Jaycee's lawyer directly, not the family (they are irrelevant), and he would have talked to Jaycee directly (she is his client, not the family). So ya, I imagine that the message has been passed on by now.

 

[Tizzle]

Oh I am sorry. So you do not think he is being kept a secret anymore?
What I am understanding you to say is that if Glo wasn't getting what she wanted we would hear about it. Since we haven't heard about it, she must be getting what she wants and that is contact. Is that right? I am trying to understand your position.

I believe that both sides are cooperating to whatever extent will be most beneficial to Jaycee and her girls. That is what I believe, yes. You think what you want to think about her, but even Glo has a heart. I'm confident in my belief that she would never exploit the rape and kidnapping of a child, now woman.

 

[JBean]

I believe that both sides are cooperating to whatever extent will be most beneficial to Jaycee and her girls. That is what I believe, yes. You think what you want to think about her, but even Glo has a heart. I'm confident in my belief that she would never exploit the rape and kidnapping of a child, now woman.

All I said was she makes me nuts. I think she likes to make people nuts LOL.

 

[kbl8201]

I was trying to clarify that Slayton is the one that left town.

IMO neither one of them tried to get hold of the other. He left town tried to call a couple times and gave up. Doesn't demonstrate much motivation imo.
She didn't contact him and I am guessing she wasn't intersted in having a relationship with him. I haven't heard they fought about it or there was any disagreement on the matter.
Why they didn't want to contact each other is unknown.
Seems like it was mutually benefical at the time.jmho of course.

this should be about what jaycee wants and needs and not what happened between ken and terry 30 years ago

 

[Imbackon]

The title of this thread "Should Jaycee's Bio Dad Be Allowed to Have a DNA Testing Done?" never made sense to me, because obviously Slayton does not need permission to have a dna test. What he needs to have "allowed" is whether his DNA is a match to JC's DNA regarding him being a father to her. Correct?
So then Isn't this title more accurate " Should Jaycee's Bio Dad Be Allowed (to make Jaycee) Have a DNA Test Done? "

And if that is the case, I see that about 15% of the response to the survey says yes, with an additional nearly 10% saying, yes if the courts agree.

Is this analysis correct?

 

[kbl8201]

The title of this thread "Should Jaycee's Bio Dad Be Allowed to Have a DNA Testing Done?" never made sense to me, because obviously Slayton does not need permission to have a dna test. What he needs to have "allowed" is whether his DNA is a match to JC's DNA regarding him being a father to her. Correct?
So then Isn't this title more accurate " Should Jaycee's Bio Dad Be Allowed (to make Jaycee) Have a DNA Test Done? "

And if that is the case, I see that about 15% of the response to the survey says yes, with an additional nearly 10% saying, yes if the courts agree.

Is this analysis correct?

legally i dont think he as a right to make her do anything.
morally im holding out hope he wont even try.
hoping they settle this without court lawyers and judges.

 

[LillyRush]

Actually Slayton moved to Sacramento and as far as he knew terry was still in Anaheim, because he called her at her parents at their Anaheim address and got no response because the phone was disconnected. he said that since Terry did not call him he figured 'out of sight out of mind"

this is from the kennedy and suits interview from KFI that I linked earlier.

He also said something to the effect that being he was in Northern California and they were still in So Cal it wasn't like he could just drive over there and make in person contact. I thought it was interesting that he even knew her parents, let alone where they lived and how to contact them. He sure had a lot of information considering this was just a "fling", imo.

 

[kbl8201]

He also said something to the effect that being he was in Northern California and they were still in So Cal it wasn't like he could just drive over there and make in person contact. I thought it was interesting that he even knew her parents, let alone where they lived and how to contact them. He sure had a lot of information considering this was just a "fling", imo.

so they dont have phones in northern california from 1979 to 1991 or what?
jeesh:waitasec:

 

[LillyRush]

so they dont have phones in northern california from 1979 to 1991 or what?
jeesh:waitasec:

He claims that the number that he had for them became disconnected, coincidentally around the same time that he moved up north and that's when he adopted the "out of sight, out of mind" philosophy. So, who knows.

What I was mainly getting at though is that he seems to have known more about her than he originally let on with the whole thing about the weekend fling at the lake, etc. etc. Even if she was staying at her parents house and that's why he knew where they all lived, that is still more proof that he knew how to reach her. It's a contradiction to the first impression he gave which was that she was some random girl who he talked to once on the phone after the fling and that he never saw again.

Basically, I'm still having trouble with his version of events. I know someone is going to tell me that he's getting old and can't remember everything. If that is the case, then he either shouldn't have gone so public about it or Allred should keep his comments to a minimum. Also, there is a huge difference between simply not remembering something - he could just say he doesn't remember, maybe? - as opposed to outright saying two different things.

 

[kbl8201]

He claims that the number that he had for them became disconnected, coincidentally around the same time that he moved up north and that's when he adopted the "out of sight, out of mind" philosophy. So, who knows.

What I was mainly getting at though is that he seems to have known more about her than he originally let on with the whole thing about the weekend fling at the lake, etc. etc. Even if she was staying at her parents house and that's why he knew where they all lived, that is still more proof that he knew how to reach her. It's a contradiction to the first impression he gave which was that she was some random girl who he talked to once on the phone after the fling and that he never saw again.

Basically, I'm still having trouble with his version of events. I know someone is going to tell me that he's getting old and can't remember everything. If that is the case, then he either shouldn't have gone so public about it or Allred should keep his comments to a minimum. Also, there is a huge difference between simply not remembering something - he could just say he doesn't remember, maybe? - as opposed to outright saying two different things.

if he knew terry's parents it wouldnt be too hard to get her number from them though.
i think hes getting into c. molino territory with all these oontridictions

 

[Tizzle]

He claims that the number that he had for them became disconnected, coincidentally around the same time that he moved up north and that's when he adopted the "out of sight, out of mind" philosophy. So, who knows.

What I was mainly getting at though is that he seems to have known more about her than he originally let on with the whole thing about the weekend fling at the lake, etc. etc. Even if she was staying at her parents house and that's why he knew where they all lived, that is still more proof that he knew how to reach her. It's a contradiction to the first impression he gave which was that she was some random girl who he talked to once on the phone after the fling and that he never saw again.

Basically, I'm still having trouble with his version of events. I know someone is going to tell me that he's getting old and can't remember everything. If that is the case, then he either shouldn't have gone so public about it or Allred should keep his comments to a minimum. Also, there is a huge difference between simply not remembering something - he could just say he doesn't remember, maybe? - as opposed to outright saying two different things.

Remember, that he didn't contact the media first, they caught him unaware in his yard. It's not hard to believe that he was surprised, nervous and stumbled over some memories or words. Most people would be tilted. Not to mention, he was probably ashamed of his mistakes, as any real man should be. And I believe that Allred is keeping his comments to a minimum by him not taking questions after the press conference. He also says at the end of the Kennedy and Suits interview "I'm glad you guys gave me the opportunity to kinda spell it out here where I'm not looking at everybody." which leads me to believe that the cameras and attention make him nervous. He also didn't come across to me, in this interview, as a man who was proud of the choices he made regarding JC.
He also may have wanted to minimalize the details of their relationship to spare Terry any unnecessary media attention and he would be right in doing that. It's none of our business what happened 20-30 years ago between them. All that matters is now. He was pretty clear in the interview that he didn't want to get into anything about Terry, which I feel is honorable. If he had bad intentions, I believe he would be more than willing to give every detail and probably would add a few for good measure. He's done quite the opposite. I don't think he's old and can't remember everything LOL I think he's of sound mind and I think he remembers everything. I actually think it has severely haunted him, at least for the last 2 decades.
I'm sorry that I keep on about this, I just feel very strongly about it. I don't get a bad feeling about this guy at all and just wish he would be given a chance. He's stayed out of the media, just like he should. Lets just see how it turns out. This very well could be one of her happy endings, hopefully one of many. He doesn't seem the least bit grimey to me, he just seems determined to change the past, for JC and himself. Not so bad. JMO

 

[kbl8201]

Remember, that he didn't contact the media first, they caught him unaware in his yard. It's not hard to believe that he was surprised, nervous and stumbled over some memories or words. Most people would be tilted. Not to mention, he was probably ashamed of his mistakes, as any real man should be. And I believe that Allred is keeping his comments to a minimum by him not taking question after the press conference.
He also may have wanted to minimalize the details of their relationship to spare Terry any unnecessary media attention and he would be right in doing that. It's none of our business what happened 20-30 years ago between them. All that matters is now. He was pretty clear in the interview that he didn't want to get into anything about Terry, which I feel is honorable. If he had bad intentions, I believe he would be more than willing to give every detail and probably would add a few for good measure. He's done quite the opposite. I don't think he's old and can't remember everything LOL I think he's of sound mind and I think he remembers everything. I actually think it has severely haunted him, at least for the last 2 decades.
I'm sorry that I keep on about this, I just feel very strongly about it. I don't get a bad feeling about this guy at all and just wish he would be given a chance. He's stayed out of the media, just like he should. Lets just see how it turns out. This very well could be one of her happy endings, hopefully one of many. He doesn't seem the least bit grimey to me, he just seems determined to change the past, for JC and himself. Not so bad. JMO

this is fine as long as hes truthful about the past. being inconsistant on his stories is not helping things

 

[LillyRush]

I'm not talking about that very first interview where they caught him working on his car in his front yard or something. I wouldn't expect anyone to be perfectly composed or caught up on the details of something if they were suddenly approached about it in their yard one day. There wasn't even that much detail in that interview, just his reaction to the crime. I'm talking mainly about that press conference and the radio interview with Kennedy and Suits. There are instances of him, and even Allred herself, answering things differently or saying one thing and then when pressed further (by Kennedy, for instance) saying pretty much the exact opposite of what they had just said.