Should Jaycee's Bio Dad Be Allowed to Have a DNA Testing Done?

[stilettos]

How can you be so sure he hasn't already made a contribution to Jaycee? I would hope he wouldn't announce it if he has. If he did announce that he had, you'd be mad that he felt the need to announce it. I would be VERY surprised if he hasn't already PRIVATELY sent money. It would actually be foolish of him not to when you really think about it.....

If the man has privately sent money to help Jaycee and the girls needs...kudos to him. Hopefully if he has...he will realize that any relationship with Jaycee and the girls needs to be at their choice, their pace and place their need above his own.

You mention that it would be foolish of him not to send money....would that be because he is thinking that entitles him legally to contact with the children? Or were you just referring to the "private" part? Just trying to understand you thoughts behind the post. TIA

 

[kbl8201]

This is also wrong. It's been reported that Terry called him only ONCE about 2 weeks after their affair to tell him that she was pregnant. After Jaycee was born, the mutual friend called him to inform him that Terry had given birth and that the baby looked like him. Terry didn't make that call.

BBM
You have no idea, just like the rest of us, whether his claims were for or against his parentage. He stated that after the phone call from Terry he didn't know what her plans were as far keeping the baby or not. Terry may have not wanted his involvement and could have stated this in the one phone call she made to him which would explain why he didn't know if she was keeping the baby or not. Maybe he decided to respect her wishes in order to not "rock the boat". Not a great decision, by any means, but a possibility for sure. None of us know, for certain, what went on. But she could have called him initially because she knew he would find out from the mutual friend that she was pregnant, anyway. So, maybe she wanted to save him and herself any uncomfortable "why didn't I find this out from you?" phone calls by just calling him herself and stating her intentions/uncertainty of her intentions.

not aure who/what to believe anymore.
the only thing i know for sure is he's picking a heck of a time for a "reunion' and he's going it about it the wrong way hiring a lawyer to do his dirty work for him.

 

[JBean]

he claimed the parts about her caling him after she was born in his little interview here that was quoted a few pages back.
the part about terry calling him when she found out she was pregnant has been aroud for years i think

have never heard that she called him when she found out she was pregnant and if we don;t have a link to that we should be careful about spreading that info. IN the interview I quoted he said that a friend told him, not Terry. So I guess we may have conflicting information.
IMO, this would be important for us to get accurate information.

 

[kbl8201]

have never heard that she called him when she found out she was pregnant and if we don;t have a link to that we should be careful about spreading that info. IN the interview I quoted he said that a friend told him, not Terry. So I guess we may have conflicting information.
IMO, this would be important for us to get accurate information.

not sure where i heard/read it then. im tiring of the whole bio-dad situation rather rapidly though. i'll let jaycee's lawyer handle this, or let jaycee herself make up her mind.
glancing overall the cases on websleuths, i dont have to remind myself how lucky we are to be talking about jaycee in the PRESENT tense. this is a rare exception and a rare happy ending :woohoo:

 

[gpc]

This is exactly how I see it. that is why I am trying to understand what his intent truly is.

Could his intent be to relieve the pressure his two daughters are putting on him, as well as the guilt he is feeling for not telling them they have a sister?

"I owe somebody something here...My girls are asking if she is their sister," said Slayton


http://www.mercurynews.com/breaking-news/ci_13290973

 

[kbl8201]

Could his intent be to relieve the pressure his two daughters are putting on him, as well as the guilt he is feeling for not telling them they have a sister?

"I owe somebody something here...My girls are asking if she is their sister

http://www.mercurynews.com/breaking-...nclick_check=1

http://www.mercurynews.com/breaking-...nclick_check=

he owes them and jaycee. but its not jaycee's duty to set his mess straight for him. not after whats she's been thru. she has to decide on her own

 

[Tizzle]

If the man has privately sent money to help Jaycee and the girls needs...kudos to him. Hopefully if he has...he will realize that any relationship with Jaycee and the girls needs to be at their choice, their pace and place their need above his own.

You mention that it would be foolish of him not to send money....would that be because he is thinking that entitles him legally to contact with the children? Or were you just referring to the "private" part? Just trying to understand you thoughts behind the post. TIA

Meaning it would be a gesture of good will towards Jaycee by making a private contribution to her and the girls' financial needs thus making him out to be less of an opportunist and more like a caring observer that wants to help. Like many who have donated. Not for legal entitlement at all.

 

[kbl8201]

Meaning it would be a gesture of good will towards Jaycee by making a private contribution to her and the girls' financial needs thus making him out to be less of an opportunist and more like a caring observer that wants to help. Like many who have donated. Not for legal entitlement at all.

i really hope this is the case.

 

[Tizzle]

i really hope this is the case.

Me, too.

 

[stilettos]

Meaning it would be a gesture of good will towards Jaycee by making a private contribution to her and the girls' financial needs thus making him out to be less of an opportunist and more like a caring observer that wants to help. Like many who have donated. Not for legal entitlement at all.

Thank you for answering. They can use all the help they can get. They need time.....counseling....lots of both...space to regain their power....and loads of understanding.

 

[kbl8201]

Thank you for answering. They can use all the help they can get. They need time.....counseling....lots of both...space to regain their power....and loads of understanding.

and family that loves them.
that can be better therapy then any shrink can give.

 

[RainbowsAndGumdrops]

I've seen a lot of arguement that Jaycee's bio dad has terrible intentions because he hired his attorney Gloria A (or whatever her name is). Did it ever occur to anyone that this attorney loves having high profile cases and that she probably sought out the bio dad? She may have even done the work for free because of the publicity. Again, we should look at the facts. We do not know that hte bio dad hired her. We do not know that bio dad asked her to state they may seek legal action. We do not know that it was the bio dad that wanted to make the public statement.

 

[stilettos]

and family that loves them.
that can be better therapy then any shrink can give.

Not always kbl8201, I can attest to that.

 

[kbl8201]

I've seen a lot of arguement that Jaycee's bio dad has terrible intentions because he hired his attorney Gloria A (or whatever her name is). Did it ever occur to anyone that this attorney loves having high profile cases and that she probably sought out the bio dad? She may have even done the work for free because of the publicity. Again, we should look at the facts. We do not know that hte bio dad hired her. We do not know that bio dad asked her to state they may seek legal action. We do not know that it was the bio dad that wanted to make the public statement.

no one put a gun to his head to make the public statment. and lawyers dont hire themselves :banghead:

 

[JBean]

I've seen a lot of arguement that Jaycee's bio dad has terrible intentions because he hired his attorney Gloria A (or whatever her name is). Did it ever occur to anyone that this attorney loves having high profile cases and that she probably sought out the bio dad? She may have even done the work for free because of the publicity. Again, we should look at the facts. We do not know that hte bio dad hired her. We do not know that bio dad asked her to state they may seek legal action. We do not know that it was the bio dad that wanted to make the public statement.

Slayton himself made it crystal clear in his Kennedy and Suits interview on KFI that Glo did NOT seek him out and that he approached her. he made a point of clarifying that.

 

[Tizzle]

Slayton himself made it crystal clear in his Kennedy and Suits interview on KFI that Glo did NOT seek him out and that he approached her. he made a point of clarifying that.

Wow, great interview, Jelly, thank you. I don't know if I missed it in one of your previous posts, or what. I don't know how I missed it but I just listened to it for the first time. It's interesting.

If anybody hasn't heard the Kennedy and Suits interview w/ Mr. Slayton and Gloria Allred on KFI, you should give it a listen.

 

[JBean]

Wow, great interview, Jelly, thank you. I don't know if I missed it in one of your previous posts, or what. I don't know how I missed it but I just listened to it for the first time. It's interesting.

If anybody hasn't heard the Kennedy and Suits interview w/ Mr. Slayton and Gloria Allred on KFI, you should give it a listen.

I agree. It was actually my first impression of him and it was his first live interview.

 

[Openmind]

The most likely reason is that he is being stonewalled by the Probyns.

If he never contacted the Probyns, how can he be stonewalled?

 

[Natal]

If he never contacted the Probyns, how can he be stonewalled?

The only reason for doing something like this in public is that it can't be done in private. I know you think that Slayton has lost his marbles and done something completely irrational instead of the obvious thing. Do you honestly think that GA would be involved if he was just some crazy dude? I'm sure she has better things to do with her time.

 

[kbl8201]

im still not sure what slayton's motivation is.
but an attorney who takes a high profile case like this can only have one or two motivations. money and noteriety