SIDEBAR #16- Arias/Alexander forum

[Ricki]

I was exhausted late this afternoon. I just could not keep my eyes open and gave in to a nap. Still tired, burning, itchy eyes. Maybe allergies eyes.

 

[Zuri]

Evening, Zuri :seeya:
No lost internet- just very busy and Wed, evening my older son called :drumroll: and we talked for a lonnnnng time :floorlaugh:.
Now all we're missing is M and the goddess, Mama-cita.
I'm glad to be here with all of you.
I finally located a new laptop from the KMart website (they only had Windows 8 at the store and decided not to get one with Windows 8) that has Windows 7, so I ordered it. I received a call from KMart Fraud Control today because they thought my card was stolen. :floorlaugh: After all I bought this past month (usually don't use the card)- new AC and new crockpot, rice maker, and then a laptop, they got a little worried. :floorlaugh: I feel as if Big Brother or a new husband was watching :scared: :floorlaugh: I did thank them, tho' :floorlaugh:

YoNo, you know that it is not nice to ignore us here whilst spending large sums of money! I wanted to go with you!

 

[m1279]

Hi :seeya: I wasn't going to post tonight, entirely too weepy and was just reading along but you called me out so I had to say hi. lol

Ricki....SO happy for you and your family! I read your posts from last night and that's such an amazing wedding story for your daughter, perfect. I'm sorry you're going through a rough time with the economy, it sucks so bad for so many people right now. Big hugs to you.

Kensie, if you're reading, I'm so happy for you and can't wait to hear about the reunion with your son! You deserve this day.

YorN...so glad you're back tonight! Was worried about you last night! Thanks for the funnies.

 

[YESorNO]

Hi :seeya: I wasn't going to post tonight, entirely too weepy and was just reading along but you called me out so I had to say hi. lol

Ricki....SO happy for you and your family! I read your posts from last night and that's such an amazing wedding story for your daughter, perfect. I'm sorry you're going through a rough time with the economy, it sucks so bad for so many people right now. Big hugs to you.

Kensie, if you're reading, I'm so happy for you and can't wait to hear about the reunion with your son! You deserve this day.

YorN...so glad you're back tonight! Was worried about you last night! Thanks for the funnies.

Evening M :seeya: Glad you're here. Hope I didn't upset you with the wedding YTube.
Cry all you want- took me a long time to let go of that fellow that I went out with for 8 years.

 

[Zuri]

Oh M. What can we do to help?

 

[YESorNO]

I saw that AS's charges were being dropped today on HLN. So, what's left? Not much of a trial left, if you ask me.

 

[gcharlie]

Please be careful with comments about the name George. Some of us might have many family members with that name and like the name to boot.

:blush:

 

[YESorNO]

Please be careful with comments about the name George. Some of us might have many family members with that name and like the name to boot.

:blush:

Sorry- that was me :blushing:
(Just my opinion, that's all.) :moo:

 

[Ricki]

Anyone ever hear of placing a rubber band on your wrist when one breaks up with you. Every time you think of thoughts that make you sad, snap that rubber band. The pain is suppose to make you stop thinking about him/her. IDK if it works. Never tried it.
My first marriage sucked. He was a cheater and abuser. It took me 5 years and the birth of my first born to realize he was never going to change even though on numerous occasions he said he would. I finally got sick of his carp and just became numb to him. When my daughter was born, I decided she was never going to see how he could be. He had two sides to him. The bad outweighed the good so bye, bye. He eventually married again. Someone younger. They bought a house had a kid and she cheated on him with the next door neighbor. She said bye, bye to him also. Funny how karma works.

 

[PrincessSezMe]

Hi :seeya: I wasn't going to post tonight, entirely too weepy and was just reading along but you called me out so I had to say hi. lol

Ricki....SO happy for you and your family! I read your posts from last night and that's such an amazing wedding story for your daughter, perfect. I'm sorry you're going through a rough time with the economy, it sucks so bad for so many people right now. Big hugs to you.

Kensie, if you're reading, I'm so happy for you and can't wait to hear about the reunion with your son! You deserve this day.

YorN...so glad you're back tonight! Was worried about you last night! Thanks for the funnies.

I want to tell you not to cry m, but that would be presumptuous of me. I do know how you are feeling because I've been there myself. But everyone is different, so I should not presume that your situation is anything like mine or that you feel exactly like I did. I just know how much you're hurting. Big hugs, and I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better. :hug:

 

[m1279]

Evening M :seeya: Glad you're here. Hope I didn't upset you with the wedding YTube.
Cry all you want- took me a long time to let go of that fellow that I went out with for 8 years.

Oh goodness no, you didn't upset me.

I'm just sad tonight, really missing him. Wondering what he's doing. It's the first weekend without him (well, his first "kid-free" weekend). It's really overwhelming, takes my breath away a little. Dating sucks lol.

 

[YESorNO]

Anyone ever hear of placing a rubber band on your wrist when one breaks up with you. Every time you think of thoughts that make you sad, snap that rubber band. The pain is suppose to make you stop thinking about him/her. IDK if it works. Never tried it.
My first marriage sucked. He was a cheater and abuser. It took me 5 years and the birth of my first born to realize he was never going to change even though on numerous occasions he said he would. I finally got sick of his carp and just became numb to him. When my daughter was born, I decided she was never going to see how he could be. He had two sides to him. The bad outweighed the good so bye, bye. He eventually married again. Someone younger. They bought a house had a kid and she cheated on him with the next door neighbor. She said bye, bye to him also. Funny how karma works.

I don't think a rubber band is going to help. Time. That's what is needed and is the only thing that helps, IMO.
I was so wildly in love with that man who left me for a bar-maid- my knees would get all rubbery when I saw him :blushing:. It took so long to get over him. I still think of him sometimes and wonder what happen to him. Oh, well- this is life, no matter what you want, sometimes your dreams don't come true.-bah.

 

[YESorNO]

What happened to daisy? Is she stuck in the shower shaving her legs-LOL

 

[PrincessSezMe]

What happened to daisy? Is she stuck in the shower shaving her legs-LOL

:floorlaugh: No, we all have low testosterone remember? :floorlaugh: Menopause takes care of that.

ETA: My husband complains about the lack of "desire". I ask him what he would prefer, that or kissing the moustache I'll grow if I go on the hormones. :floorlaugh:

 

[Zuri]

Oh goodness no, you didn't upset me.

I'm just sad tonight, really missing him. Wondering what he's doing. It's the first weekend without him (well, his first "kid-free" weekend). It's really overwhelming, takes my breath away a little. Dating sucks lol.

M, how long has it been since you broke up? A month?

 

[daisymae]

I don't think a rubber band is going to help. Time. That's what is needed and is the only thing that helps, IMO.
I was so wildly in love with that man who left me for a bar-maid- my knees would get all rubbery when I saw him :blushing:. It took so long to get over him. I still think of him sometimes and wonder what happen to him. Oh, well- this is life, no matter what you want, sometimes your dreams don't come true.-bah.

What's his name? I'll check Facebook for you!

 

[Zuri]

A lot of women expect so much from themselves when a relationship ends. I say don't. You need to mourn the loss if it meant anything at all to you. Give yourself a break and just go with it. It will eventually get better and you get: Perspective

 

[m1279]

M, how long has it been since you broke up? A month?

About a month since he started acting weird, about 3 weeks since he finally broke it off. I should be over it by now, I'm so embarrassed about being so whiny about this! :facepalm: I fall too hard, too fast.

 

[daisymae]

What happened to daisy? Is she stuck in the shower shaving her legs-LOL

I'm here - needed a break for shower, feed the dog and let him out. In a somber mood, not feeling well, remember?

 

[m1279]

A lot of women expect so much from themselves when a relationship ends. I say don't. You need to mourn the loss if it meant anything at all to you. Give yourself a break and just go with it. It will eventually get better and you get: Perspective

Your daughters (and son) are so fortunate to have you.