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Wishing you all a happy Christmas eve!!!

Just in case I am not around Christmas day I hope you all get spoiled and have a wonderful day. And stay safe if the weather is bad xoxxo

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It's a bit desolate in here. I bet everyone is getting their last minute preparations done. I know two of my girls are out shopping tonight. Ugh! I don't know why they wait so long and then they have to wrap.
I finally received the last package from UPS. Poor guys are working overtime. They must be waiting for this season to be done with.
I love Christmas and the true meaning but really, it has become so stressful.
 
My mother made me cry and I don't cry easily. As you know I have adult child issues lately that have had me stressed. Well tonight we had a birthday / Christmas dinner at a favorite steakhouse. Last week I invited my daughter and it made my mother mad but she had seemed to get over it. Around 4 today, my daughter asked if she could bring a friend and I said yes. I checked the reservation to make sure everything would be okay with an extra person. I did not tell my mother about the extra person because I knew she would freak out. She cannot handle last minute changes. The dinner was nice and the guest was very polite. After the dinner as everyone was leaving, my mother lit into me about the extra guest. She was mad that I did not tell her ahead of time and I told her I found out late in the day and did not want her to stress over it. She still got mad at me. I wanted to yell at her that I have enough real stress in my life without her being pissed about something so trivial. I remained clam and the dam broke as I drove home.

Sorry to vent but I had to let it out.
 
Woohoo glad to see the party's still going hot & heavy!

And guess what, for the first time ever (like a decade) I'm going to win the Super Bowl in my fantasy football league! I am highly excited. lol

Must've had Peyton Manning @ QB.
 
My mother made me cry and I don't cry easily. As you know I have adult child issues lately that have had me stressed. Well tonight we had a birthday / Christmas dinner at a favorite steakhouse. Last week I invited my daughter and it made my mother mad but she had seemed to get over it. Around 4 today, my daughter asked if she could bring a friend and I said yes. I checked the reservation to make sure everything would be okay with an extra person. I did not tell my mother about the extra person because I knew she would freak out. She cannot handle last minute changes. The dinner was nice and the guest was very polite. After the dinner as everyone was leaving, my mother lit into me about the extra guest. She was mad that I did not tell her ahead of time and I told her I found out late in the day and did not want her to stress over it. She still got mad at me. I wanted to yell at her that I have enough real stress in my life without her being pissed about something so trivial. I remained clam and the dam broke as I drove home.

Sorry to vent but I had to let it out.


don't let this ruin your Xmas festivities, Kensie! Let it pass and enjoy this magical holiday. :loveyou:
 
don't let this ruin your Xmas festivities, Kensie! Let it pass and enjoy this magical holiday. :loveyou:

I will Daisy. I know how high strung my mother is and usually I can deal with it but today I snapped. She is a good hearted person but very high strung.
 
I will Daisy. I know how high strung my mother is and usually I can deal with it but today I snapped. She is a good hearted person but very high strung.

Some people are so "by the book" and hate those last minute changes that it's hard for them to adapt to change of any kind.

I agree with Daisy, don't let it hinder your holiday spirit! I hope it was a great night otherwise. :)
 
don't let this ruin your Xmas festivities, Kensie! Let it pass and enjoy this magical holiday. :loveyou:

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Kensie, from one who was driven half nuts by her mother (not kidding) dont let it get you down. You did everything right. This is her problem. Sounds hard but its not. After I finally realized this~life went much smoother. :HHJP::christmastree:
 
Some people are so "by the book" and hate those last minute changes that it's hard for them to adapt to change of any kind.

I agree with Daisy, don't let it hinder your holiday spirit! I hope it was a great night otherwise. :)

M, I think you hit the nail on the head.
 
I wanted to wish a very special Christmas to those who we miss here. For whatever reasons they haven't shown up lately, so here's a special holiday greeting to Rosemary Pierce, Princess, Mollyandme and Bernina!!

Add to the list please if I've forgotten someone.

Sharon
 
Kensie, I am so sorry this happened to you. Sometimes mothers forget that it is not always about them. I think it is great your daughter felt comfortable enough to bring a friend to a family get together. I hope you had a nice time otherwise.
 
Hi all, must tell you! I treated my self to a Christmas present. I ordered the CD by Roy Price "For the Good Times". Actually there are a lot of songs on the CD that I like. I'm looking forward to it arriving. I have no gifts wrapped, havent washed the kitchen floor yet, need to dust, know what? I dont care!!!:loveyou:
 
I wanted to wish a very special Christmas to those who we miss here. For whatever reasons they haven't shown up lately, so here's a special holiday greeting to Rosemary Pierce, Princess, Mollyandme and Bernina!!

Add to the list please if I've forgotten someone.

Sharon

Daisy (Sharon), thanks for posting this. I've been wondering about so many "regular" posters since I've been gone for awhile. My thoughts are with all of those mentioned.
 
Hi all, must tell you! I treated my self to a Christmas present. I ordered the CD by Roy Price "For the Good Times". Actually there are a lot of songs on the CD that I like. I'm looking forward to it arriving. I have no gifts wrapped, havent washed the kitchen floor yet, need to dust, know what? I dont care!!!:loveyou:

Woohoo! You go, girl! Sometimes you just have to treat yourself.
 
I think I will treat myself to a piece of cheesecake..
 
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