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Thank you - she is a mess but I love her.

Sorry this reply is so late. It's a busy time of month for me....

She is 25" long and weighs 17 +/- pounds! And she was the runt, lol.

Here's a little story I wrote about her with a cool app I found last night (the app is free)

with pictures. :)



https://slate.adobe.com/a/JoJ96

Loved your story Itsy! Dammit/MiMi sounds like a hoot!
 
Hi all! :wave:

First I need to say :gthanks: to DexterMorgan, neesaki, Susza, Dmacky, Spellbound, Bravo, Ranchgirl, grammieto5, Chelly and EVERONE ELSE that I missed...

I turned off my computer yesterday earlier than usual. Thinking of the good memories and times we've had as a family. First my older sister Inta dies on the crossing to freedom from Latvia to Sweden, and now my youngest brother. I had a great Skype with my older brother and sisters. So no more sadness...
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We have to wait and see what his girlfriend decides to do. He did tell her (I think before his illness) that he wanted to be cremated and scattered among the Redwoods up here in Northern California where we grew up. BUT!! :) we want a bit of his ashes to bury with my mother and father next year in Valmiera. My father is there (his boyhood town), and we will be burying my mother there. My sister in Mtn. View will be getting in touch with her either later today or tomorrow to express our wishes. I have a question ?? - how do I ask his girlfriend if I can have back the birthday present I sent my brother in May - it's a sweatshirt and says "American Grown - Latvian Roots" with the American flag on top with the Latvian flag on the bottom - I'll see if I can find a picture of it and post later. He didn't even get to open it, as they moved when he got the package, as I found out when I first heard he had liver cancer. Any suggestions?? :waitasec:

Niner, I have been thinking about you all day. I just wanted to add to my condolences that as difficult as it must be right now, in a way, I'm glad your brother didn't have to suffer a long, drawn-out ordeal. Likewise, for you and your siblings.

Me too, GigiG - they gave him 3 to 6 months and with the chemo pills 9 months. I believe he's been sick for at least 2 months before he went to the doctor. So... 3 months with no medical help.

:tyou: coffeejunkie for making me smile this morning! :D I read these to my Huz and he added a couple of comments! :)

Fun Chocolate Facts

A one ounce milk chocolate bar has 6 mg of caffeine.
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A recent study at Harvard has shown that eating chocolate can actually help you live longer!

Americans collectively eat one hundred pounds of chocolate every second. My Huz said he contributes to this fact! He is going to figure out "how much" he contributes...
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For people that are lactose intolerant, chocolate aids in helping milk digest easier.
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Hershey's Kisses are called that because the machine that makes them looks like it's kissing the conveyor belt. :thinking:

The average chocolate bar has 8 insects' legs in it. :freakedout:

The Snickers bar was named after a horse the Mars family owned.

The universally popular Hershey bar was used overseas during World War II as currency.

To burn off one plain M&M candy, you need to walk the full length of a football field.
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then my bro-in-law and Huz are in trouble...

neesaki another belated
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and another :lol: at coffeejunkie on the sneezing with first kiss! LOL!

and WOW! on the postman collecting ALL those pebbles!

okay - thanks again for all your good wishes, am feeling a bit better today. Do you all mind if I share some pictures of my little bro??

off to read elsewhere! Be back before I sign off for the day! :pcguru:

:seeya:

add a picture from about 1955 I'd say. My Dad took the picture - little bro in the middle in front of my Mom, and I'm on the right! :D
 

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Here's a picture of the sweatshirt I bought my little bro for his birthday - so sorry that he didn't get to see it!
 

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"We have to wait and see what his girlfriend decides to do. He did tell her (I think before his illness) that he wanted to be cremated and scattered among the Redwoods up here in Northern California where we grew up. BUT!! :) we want a bit of his ashes to bury with my mother and father next year in Valmiera. My father is there (his boyhood town), and we will be burying my mother there. My sister in Mtn. View will be getting in touch with her either later today or tomorrow to express our wishes. I have a question ?? - how do I ask his girlfriend if I can have back the birthday present I sent my brother in May - it's a sweatshirt and says "American Grown - Latvian Roots" with the American flag on top with the Latvian flag on the bottom - I'll see if I can find a picture of it and post later. He didn't even get to open it, as they moved when he got the package, as I found out when I first heard he had liver cancer. Any suggestions??"

BBM

First, my hats off to you for being so gracious, even in the midst of your grief. It says a lot about the kind of person you are.

Regarding the birthday present, I doubt the girlfriend would have any trouble returning it. It's not like it holds sentimental value to her since he never even wore it. Plus, it's probably the last thing on her mind right now. So the real issue is how to phrase your request as delicately as possible. I think I would use words something like, "It would mean so much to me if..." And then go on to express how the shirt represents the shared roots/history between you and your brother (which is why you bought it for him).

Wishing you all the best as you move forward. One day at a time. :)
 
Birthday greetings. to Neesaki! Hope you have a very special day.

Sorry for my belated happy birthday wishes, Neesaki. It also just dawned on my that you share your b-day with Juan Martinez*.

You're in good company!

*(I don't feel so bad, since even JMPSP missed it, too!).
 
Oh neesaki I am so sorry I forgot. I think I forgot everything yesterday. I hope you had a very happy birthday with lots of :cake4u: all my good wishes for you.
 
Have you saluted our flag today? It's Flag day. Do you know how the flags are to be flown?




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First, my hats off to you for being so gracious, even in the midst of your grief. It says a lot about the kind of person you are.

Regarding the birthday present, I doubt the girlfriend would have any trouble returning it. It's not like it holds sentimental value to her since he never even wore it. Plus, it's probably the last thing on her mind right now. So the real issue is how to phrase your request as delicately as possible. I think I would use words something like, "It would mean so much to me if..." And then go on to express how the shirt represents the shared roots/history between you and your brother (which is why you bought it for him).

Wishing you all the best as you move forward. One day at a time. :)

Yes, that's what I was trying to say - delicately as possible! And you said it beautifully GigiG!! Thank you SO much - I'll use these exact words!

and :tyou: for the good wishes! Yes, one day at a time...
 
Thank you - she is a mess but I love her.

Sorry this reply is so late. It's a busy time of month for me....

She is 25" long and weighs 17 +/- pounds! And she was the runt, lol.

Here's a little story I wrote about her with a cool app I found last night (the app is free)

with pictures. :)



https://slate.adobe.com/a/JoJ96

That was great! I love your Dammit!
 
And today is also a sad day for the Baltic Countries - Latvia, Estonia and Lithuania.... :(

Soviet Mass Deportations of 14 of June, 1941
http://latvianhistory.com/2012/06/14/soviet-mass-deportations-of-14-june-1941/

My Mother (20 years old at that time) told us that she was down by the train stations in Riga and people were throwing notes off the trains and she tried to pick most of them up by stepping on them and then dropping her hankerchief and picking up the notes. A Nazi soldier saw her and told her she better leave or he'd throw her on one of the trains... she scaddled!!! :eek:

So we have the American flag (Flag Day) and my Latvian flag hanging outside our house!

Map of Deportations
 

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Neesaki, I'm sorry I missed your birthday, but better late than never right? I hope you had a wonderful day.



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"We have to wait and see what his girlfriend decides to do. He did tell her (I think before his illness) that he wanted to be cremated and scattered among the Redwoods up here in Northern California where we grew up. BUT!! :) we want a bit of his ashes to bury with my mother and father next year in Valmiera. My father is there (his boyhood town), and we will be burying my mother there. My sister in Mtn. View will be getting in touch with her either later today or tomorrow to express our wishes. I have a question ?? - how do I ask his girlfriend if I can have back the birthday present I sent my brother in May - it's a sweatshirt and says "American Grown - Latvian Roots" with the American flag on top with the Latvian flag on the bottom - I'll see if I can find a picture of it and post later. He didn't even get to open it, as they moved when he got the package, as I found out when I first heard he had liver cancer. Any suggestions??"

BBM

First, my hats off to you for being so gracious, even in the midst of your grief. It says a lot about the kind of person you are.

Regarding the birthday present, I doubt the girlfriend would have any trouble returning it. It's not like it holds sentimental value to her since he never even wore it. Plus, it's probably the last thing on her mind right now. So the real issue is how to phrase your request as delicately as possible. I think I would use words something like, "It would mean so much to me if..." And then go on to express how the shirt represents the shared roots/history between you and your brother (which is why you bought it for him).

Wishing you all the best as you move forward. One day at a time. :)

Thank you, GigiG! I so much agree with you. And you said it so well.

Niner, don't worry, let your heart speak in the simpliest way. She won't have any trouble to understand you.

I'm so glad you had a good talk with your siblings and you're able to concentrate on all the beautiful memories you have shared. But when you're sad, be sad. Happiness is not a right we have it's an itinary. This is not my wisdom but part of Buddha's teachings (as I undestood it) and I like this idea.
Our tears help to clean our soul and makes our smile more brilliant.
You are so good and it's so good you are here with us.
 
Alles Gute und Liebe zum Geburtstag, Neesaki. I hope you had a wonderful day!
 
Also...

Latvian nationalists in Riga march against Soviets
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By Juris Kaza, Special to The Christian Science Monitor June 16, 1987
Stockholm — Thousands of Latvians marched to Latvia's Statue of Liberty in Riga Sunday and laid flowers in memory of their countrymen deported by the Soviet secret police in 1941, according to reports reaching Latvian 'emigr'es in the West. One estimate said 5,000 people marched with huge crowds watching along Riga's streets. The demonstration in the Soviet Baltic republic was the largest known peaceful, non-Communist political gathering in the history of the Soviet Union, according to Janis Trapans, head of the Latvian Division of Radio Free Europe in Munich, West Germany, which closely monitored Sunday's events.

http://www.csmonitor.com/1987/0616/okaz.html

I participated in an Anti-Soviet rally in Munich, Germany in 1984!! We marched down the street chanting "Nyet, Nyet, Soviet" !! Still have a t-shirt that says that!

And you wonder why my parents escaped Latvia, wonder no more... Stalin was worse than Hitler.
 

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Niner LOL at your husband' comments! Tell him I enjoyed them :) Glad you both got a good laugh out of my infamous 'Do You Know Facts'!

I am so glad you are feeling better today and are dealing with your loss as well as you are. Will say prayers for you and your family. I am amazed by your strength and your wonderful personality. Your family has been through so much. (((Hugs)))
 
Thank you, GigiG! I so much agree with you. And you said it so well.

Niner, don't worry, let your heart speak in the simpliest way. She won't have any trouble to understand you.

I'm so glad you had a good talk with your siblings and you're able to concentrate on all the beautiful memories you have shared. But when you're sad, be sad. Happiness is not a right we have it's an itinary. This is not my wisdom but part of Buddha's teachings (as I undestood it) and I like this idea.
Our tears help to clean our soul and makes our smile more brilliant.
You are so good and it's so good you are here with us.

But you see - we (bro & sisters) have had frustrating trouble with her. Back when my mother was alive she borrowed $5000 from my mom in 2008 when the real estate marketed was going to hell in a hand basket, so she could stay in her father's house she inherited and would pay her back when it got sold. But it went into to foreclosure, so no money paid back to my mom. Than she promised some how to pay it back and than wrote a VERY nasty letter to my mother about her treatment and parenting of my little bro. My older bro intercepted that letter and my mother never saw it - thank goodness. Very nasty girl! So, I'm trying to be nice. :D

and Yes!! I love being here with you all :loveyou: with all the sharing and funnies posted - make my day! Again -
:gthanks: for all your posts!!

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Sharing another picture! :) and Oh let's see... about 1956, 1957 somewhere around there.
 

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Niner LOL at your husband' comments! Tell him I enjoyed them :) Glad you both got a good laugh out of my infamous 'Do You Know Facts'!

I am so glad you are feeling better today and are dealing with your loss as well as you are. Will say prayers for you and your family. I am amazed by your strength and your wonderful personality. Your family has been through so much. (((Hugs)))

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Woman allegedly steals 131 pairs of underwear

KENNESAW, GA (CBS46) -
A Jasper woman is in hot water after allegedly stealing 131 pairs of underwear from a Cobb County Walmart store.
Police say 22-year-old Julia Jones attempted to steal $750 worth of underwear at the store by stuffing them into her purse, handbag and grocery bags.
The incident allegedly took place on Sunday, June 7 at the store, located on Cobb Parkway in Kennesaw.Jones was arrested and taken to the Cobb County Jail. She was released on Tuesday after posting bond. She is charged with felony shoplifting. No word on when Jones will appear in court.

http://www.14news.com/story/29314247/woman-allegedly-steals-131-pairs-of-underwear

WHY would anyone steal 131 pair of underware????
 
Love seeing the pics of your family :) Niner what a treasure and so many memories!
 
But you see - we (bro & sisters) have had frustrating trouble with her. Back when my mother was alive she borrowed $5000 from my mom in 2008 when the real estate marketed was going to hell in a hand basket, so she could stay in her father's house she inherited and would pay her back when it got sold. But it went into to foreclosure, so no money paid back to my mom. Than she promised some how to pay it back and than wrote a VERY nasty letter to my mother about her treatment and parenting of my little bro. My older bro intercepted that letter and my mother never saw it - thank goodness. Very nasty girl! So, I'm trying to be nice. :D

and Yes!! I love being here with you all :loveyou: with all the sharing and funnies posted - make my day! Again -
:gthanks: for all your posts!!

:wave:

Sharing another picture! :) and Oh let's see... about 1956, 1957 somewhere around there.


BBM -
I think I see what you mean. Trying to be nice under those circumstances is hard and costs a lot of energy.
Take your time, Niner. There's no hurry. Today is today and tomorrow is tomorrow. The most important now is you taking good care of yourself. I'm sure your dear bro agrees with me.

I'm afraid my poor english doesn't allow me to show the empathy I feel for you. You're so present in my mind.
 
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