Please bare with me a sec...My heart is heavy and I need to unload. I sometimes wonder what the Anthony's think of now that it's over, I mean, other than how to make money to live off of. Their granddaughter is forever gone. Their reputations are forever tarnished. Their relationship with OCA is forever altered. Life will never be the same for them regardless, all the while OCA is living high off the hog without a care in the world. The one person that should have been held accountable is living better than they ever will. How many people would trust them in a job situation now? If you ask me OCA has not lost anything, she has gained her world, her freedom from her child and from her parents and has found her oyster. As much distrust as I have for CA and yes sometimes GA I feel that they are the ones who have lost everything. The family unit severed, the lost of their granddaughter, their daughter who they both know that they can't trust who put them in the situation to start with. The loss of their reputations. The loss of their jobs and sometimes their health. Yes, they brought some of it on themselves, but who started the ball rolling? One thing that boggles me I think is how is it acceptable for CA to want OCA to be held accountable for stealing money but not be accountable for her own child? But then again I think, she really didn't hold OCA accountable for that either in the past as she always covered OCA by paying off the thefts herself. Then I go back to one of the first jail tapes when OCA asked CA, "What am I supposed to learn from this?" I would like to ask CA the same question. "What was OCA supposed to learn from her arrest? What do you think that she did learn? That she could make up stories and lie about her father and brother molesting her and get away with it? That she could lie to LE and just have to pay with a few years time and a few thousand dollar fines and a year probation? That she could lie and have others help her to distribute the lies about a made up nanny and tarnish ZG's reputation all the while she knew that her daughter laid in a trash strewn swamp down the road from her own home? That her Mother would take care of whatever problems she left in the car afterward to be cleaned up? That her Mother would lie in the court of law for her. How can one single person take so many people down and then she come out on top? I just don't get it. Mind you, I'm speaking of OCA not CA. We all know how pretty much of the public that followed the case feel, but what about the attorneys and Judges that followed the case? Are they sitting back like us and are they asking, what happened? How can this be? I'm still asking: HOW CAN THIS BE?